By strikeout - 04/09/2009 02:47 - United States
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... Wah? "Bitch"? "Using you"? He's NOT DATING her (yet). They are FRIENDS, or at the very least, fellow schoolmates on good terms... she's not a bitch at all. If she were a bitch, she would have screamed rape and/or never spoke to him again. If she was using him... well, no, I don't see how she was using him. I would gladly take a friend to the airport if they needed me to. Why the fuck would you expect anything for a FAVOR for a FRIEND?
Oh don't be a twat. It's OP's life, don't go whining about a tangent. Besides, OP, don't worry about it, sounds to me like she was either joking or realised that you liked her and is letting you down gently before you got your hopes up. Either way, sounds like nothing to worry too much about, and if you think it's the latter, take the message on, or things could get very uncomfortable for her and you'd probably end up getting rejected more harshly anyway.
if u are close enough to drive her to the airport, a kiss in the cheek shouldnt be such a big of a deal. it might be a european point of view though, we kiss everyone twice when we meet them the first time. u should look for another girl in any case
109 - Yeah, no it isn't. The things you spell with a Z, English people spell with an S. For example, specialized = specialised. Capitalized = capitalised. Maybe you should become a bit more of a culture vulture before you try bringing down the grammar hammer.
:...It's that moment when You start closing in First you're holding back Then surrendering It can start a fire Light up the sky Such a simple thing Do you wanna try? Are you ready to Say goodbye To all these blues? I wanna kiss a girl I wanna hold her tight And maybe make a little magic in the moonlight..." But no matter how much you want, somme girls are out of your reach, ya gotta learn that :P
At least she didn't kick you in the nuts and actually was amused, instead of radically uncomfortable. Meaning, don't give up hope just yet. I once told a friend I'd like to kiss her on the cheek, she was fine with it. Yesterday I told her I liked her, and now we have future plans (long distance, and she's underage, plus a few other complications, so at the moment we're technically still "friends"). Point is, don't give up hope. There could be a window in that she took it positively.
Yeah she is using you. Women have a very good antenna for these things and in all probability she would have known that you liked her. This point is reinforced by how nicely she let you down, she wasn't surprised so she didn't freak out and say something nasty. The fact of the matter is she used you for a free ride to the airport plus everything else you've done for her in the past and she was NEVER going to give it up. She just keeps flirting/using you to make you the P.A. she's always wanted. In the future she'll be asking for lifts to her boyfriends house, you'll see.
Well, if "Edward" ignores boundaries, why can't we? Stupid Twilight.