That seems ridiculous. You should be proud of who you are, and you should flaunt your happiness in front of him to make him miss you. Way to go OP :)

Doesn't sound like she's to happy too me

It's hard to flaunt what you haven't got.

But if you pretend to be happy in front of him, he will be miserable and try to get her back, putting op back on the moral high ground.

Yeeeeaaaah, that's not how it works, 22.

It said that she's put on weight. Weight that's put on can be lost. Not for beauty standards, fuck those, but for physical health

Do you think real life is Disney or something?

If you want your ex to feel like shit, well I'm pretty sure that puts you on the moral low ground. In fact, if you want anyone to feel like shit then it does. The fuck is wrong with you?

I mean if she did do that to try to make him miss her she would be kind of an ass. But the rest yeah.

Well excuse me for trying to express a nice sentiment. Sorry for trying, damn :(

she didn't say she wanted him to feel bad. she didn't want to be seen by him and feel humiliated. She's clearly ashamed of her weight gain.

Who cares? He is your ex

Yeah he's your ex for a reason!

hopefully not cause of her weight. that would be awkward.

I kinda understand/relate. If I see my ex, I put on airs in front of her as if I've been having the time of my life since after the break up. I guess to make them seem like they aren't worth your time anymore?Something like that.

Well, hum...FYI I offer online personal training if interested. Obviously you're not too happy with the extra pounds you've put on! Let's get started!

lol seriously?
advertising on FML is the most ridiculous thing I've seen all day. xD

Business must be booming...

Sorry op that sucks a lot. Hopefully he wasn't rude.

Rude, why? He's relieved.

And you care why ? Only thing that should matter is that you feel good about yourself, not his opinion of you or your appearance

In an ideal world, perhaps. But for most people, looking happy, rich and successful when an ex sees you is important, especially if it was the other person who ended it. It's that whole "The best revenge is living well" thing.

Rock those new curves!
Or work hard to get whatever body shape you feel most confident with. (:

I understand everyone saying she should be proud and I agree but you have to keep in mind that us girls are really self conscious, sometimes for no reason. Plus, who really wants to talk to their ex anyways? It doesn't seem like they were friends, and to be honest I probably would have done the same thing as OP

^ I see your pov 0.0

I mean it is finger lickin' good... but you shouldn't have been chicken to see him. You don't have to impress anyone, as long as you're content with yourself.

Well I hope he was mature enough not to say anything rude

That's so funny!