By clueless - United States - Irvine
Today, I realized that when a girl asks what your plans are for Valentine's Day and you say "nothing" and she responds with, "Oh, I don't have any plans either", it means she wants you to take her out. Took me three months to figure that out. FML
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  sweetbliss3  |  37

sometimes things just dont click. we dont apply it as being interested, but more towards making conversation. i hope you can redeem yourself and just take her out anyway. if shes still interested she will say yes. good luck :-)


So after I did a girl I friend zoned her. Found out 14 months later that she still had major feelings for me. Didn't know until she straight up told me (after I had already told her I felt about another girl). So don't feel too bad about it. Girls are weird.

  Kn0wledge123  |  21

Yeah a lot of girls are "read between the lines" type. Something similar happened to me and I had no idea she had feelings. But ask her out now. Maybe you can salvage it

By  nyriese  |  9

You should do something really sweet, like get her a late V-day card and write "sorry it took me so long, i had to find the perfect card" on the inside.

  Jiplo  |  18

Just make sure it is the best Valentine's Day card ever. Since you've "waited" this long, you have to go over-the-top. Otherwise, it may appear as if you got the first Valentine's Day card you could find, and that may not go too well.

  WolliBolli  |  23

This actually happened to me. A girl was really interested in me but never showed it. I was a bit interested, but since she acted a bit cold around me I threw the idea away. Later found out that she believed that it was the mans job to work hard to court the lady in question. She refused to even give me a hint, because as a man, that was my job. She got really upset about it aswell and angry at me....