By groomfail - 02/03/2009 01:41 - United States
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she should have been thankful, because that's incredibly sweet. i don't understand the obsession with proposals as long as you're genuinely in love and propose in a way that shows you care.
I've only known one other person who had a fiance who bitched about the WAY her boyfriend proposed. She turned out to be insane, and they ended up splitting up. If she's seriously going to cry because you didn't propose how she wanted you to, it's time to break up.
she's clearly a little mentally unstable... maybe this is a sign you shouldn't spend the rest of your life with this person
Run away man. That's a pretty spectacular way of proposing. It really is. And if she can't accept that then she obviously never outgrew playing with Barbies. I would seriously question whether she loves you or she loves the role you fill in her fantasy of what she wants her life to be like. She will never be happy until she understands that life isn't a fantasty world and until that happens you won't be happy either. So you might as well just get out now and look for someone who loves you for you.
Wow how ungrateful can one get? Most girls DREAM of being proposed to like that. Seriously instead of crying that it wasn't exactly what you wanted, think about how thoughtful your bf was to do something like that! I think what you did was awesome, don't let her make you think otherwise!
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No...that is tacky and embarrassing. No girl would want to be proposed to that way. And yes, there obviously IS something wrong with the relationship, the fact that she's going out with someone who would actually do that!! Girls want classy not trashy. Unless you live in trailer park, you should've thought of something better!