I feel bad for you. Talk to them and maybe you can make them think positively.

I think that OP should ask why they don't like her future husband in their little talk.

I don't see why this is so bad. OP's family isn't trying to sabotage their relationship. They deal with OP's fiancé because she loves him.

Op, ask why... Then shut your mouth and open your ears... They may save your years of heartache. Hopefully, they will have your best interest at heart.

It would be nice if OP's family liked her fiancé but if they don't like him and they are not trying push you away from him or make his life miserable then OP's should stop thinking only about why they don't like him, and start thinking also about what her family is doing just to make her happy

I think that was extremely well said 52!!

As long as you to get along and love eachother it shouldn't matter what they think.

Just one big happy family..

It's our god forsaken right to be loved, loved, loved, loved, loooooovvvvvvveeeeeeeddddd.

It just wasn't a Jason Mraz moment.

Well it's your life.

Exactly! And at least they don't hate him to his face! Like insulting him, and hurting your feelings...that would suck.

You don't live to make them happy..live your own life.

From the sounds of this fml , OPs family doesn't sound overly concerned with having to deal with OPs fiancé .. They may be slightly annoyed with having to put up with him.. But after the wedding , they're only going to have to deal with him at Christmas and birthdays and stuff:p

And what's new about that!? It's like 50% of the time that the family likes the bride/groom. At least they are not trying to be rude and show that they hate him. He may grow on them.

I agree with everything you said except for the he might grow on them part. It's been three years it's safe to say that their opinion is solidified.

Yeah who cares what they think? If you're happy then marry him. If you question whether you should marry him or not just because your family doesn't like him, then he probably deserves better.

It doesn't matter that they don't like him. At least they are nice when he's around and they are supporting you with it!

THOSE BITCHES who know what movie that's from:)

I'm pretty sure that phrase has been used in several movies.

Mean girls!

Army of skanks!

My mom doesn't hide her 'disgust' for my boyfriend or any of my friends. Then again, my mom is a bitch with huuuuge personal problems. Still, I'd rather have fights with her over her not approving of anyone I meet than her trying to get everyone else I know to hate him.

I think you've missed the point. OPs mum or sister isn't trying to turn anyway against him. They dislike him but have quite a bit of decency not to be arseholes to OPs or his face. I'm sure they would say something if was an abusive relationship just sometimes it's better to leave people to get on with it.

It's not that bad . I absolutely hate my best friends boyfriend . But I love my best friend and they seem to love each other . So who am I to interfere .

I think it's actually kind of nice of them to not voice their negative opinions of him. Maybe they just find him annoying, and it's not like they hate him over something important like knowing he cheated on you?