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  Jaxx66  |  21

If he's having sex with another female without stopping himself beforehand. No he doesn't. Im sorry for your loss OP :(

45: the first time doesn't have to be bad. The man I was with the first time was very kind about it. I dont regret it

  jwade11  |  12

73----agree!!! You can't truly love someone and sleep with someone else. I don't care if you consider it "just sex", if you can touch another person's body other than the one you say you love then it's not the deepest, most pure love.

  DjeePee  |  24

"You can't truly love someone and sleep with someone else."

Some people can. Open relationships, polyamory, that sort of things. But I have the feeling that that guy has a monogamous relationship, which means that he screwed his girlfriend and OP.

  downtime  |  12

198 Don't worry, some of us aren't teenagers and realise that relationships and emotions don't come in one size fits all. I wouldn't pay any attention to the voting on your comment, its indicative of a lack of maturity and life experience of users on this site.

  I_iz_B_a_troll  |  23

To me it sounds like you weren't together very long, if the whole thing was just an "experiment" and if that's the case, she deserves it D: girls give it up too easy these days.... to everyone except me.


There's a double standard right there. Girls give it up too easily? And guys are taking full advantage of it. Girls get judged and guys get congratulated. Unless they're having sex with another guy, they were involved in it.

OP- Sorry to hear that. It is a big deal to lose your virginity and if he didn't realize what a big thing it is, he doesn't deserve you. I choose to believe that you didn't know he had a girlfriend.

  downtime  |  12

189, That makes no sense. Is there anyone who wouldn't judge a guy who had sex for the first time and ended up regretting it? That's kind of the issue here, not the fact that they actually slept with someone. Surely by comment 189 you noticed an abundance of "what an asshole" comments, yes?

By  Boomshadow  |  3

Well, hope it wasn't too bad, at least. If there's a discreet way of letting the girlfriend know, maybe you'll get some from her while she sees if she still loves him.

By  Badab1ng  |  5

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  marpay  |  11

1- It's called a hymen.
2- Most of the time it's broken prior to sex because of all the activities that girls do.
3- I doubt that if they were masturbating that they would be worried about it getting in the way.

  rbr0wn  |  3

And will now probably have emotional problems because the first guy she slept with did it on a whim, not because he cared about her. Sex is an emotional thing, so her "finally having sex" is completely irrelevant.

  rattusrattus  |  18

@64 - you don't have to have sex with someone you care about for your first time. Casual sex is perfectly fine for first time if that's how you want it.

I'm gonna say the differing expectations are what could fuck one up big time. That's one heck of an emotional betrayal.