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By  KeannaLove  |  32

I'm sorry you deserve it. Go out and meet people! There's plenty of places to do that. If that fails, hire a hooker.

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Yes. Go get a hooker. Contract AIDs, chlamydia. It's so worth it! He totally deserves this, because failing to meet people just to fuck is just worthy of complete and utter shame. I agree wholeheartedly with this comment.

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  bugmenotmofo  |  33

12: The dude is seriously lonely and you think that because of this he should be punished by contracting veneral disease. For a woman you're quite heartless, aren't you? think you're the one who should be ashamed. Since nobody have told you before, education time. Some men have VERY strong sexual drive. It means that at the age of 18..30 they might want to do it up to 4..6 times per day, every day (and have enough stamina for that too). With the people with JUST the right personality(introverted, not really social, shy, conscious about his looks, etc), that's a big problem. That's not necessarily "animal desire to screw anything that moves", the dude might want consensual sex with pretty partner that likes him and possibly can provide emotional support. So it is both physiological and psychological. That's not that different from desire to hug somebody or simply "to spoon". If you're a man, You can't deal with that. You can't get rid of that. If you won't deal with it somehow, you'll become utterly miserable, up to being depressed and suicidal or going teary upon seeing kissing couple. Maybe you'll snap and kill yourself. Masturbation won't help either. Now, in order to properly deal with situation, society requires you to spend enormous amount of time finding a date, establishing relationship, and possibly marrying. While successfully completing might grant you lifetime partner (with a large chance of divorse, emotional trauma), the whole ordeal takes a lot of time, and doesn't help you with the problem you have right now. You're lonely NOW, you feel bad NOW, but there's nobody to help you. NOt to mention that with just the right combination of personality traits (interovert/shy), finding yourself a girlfriend or a "sex friend" might take years. So OF COURSE, if your local law allows sex services and your moral values don't forbid using them, it'll be a better idea to use sex service if you can't take it anymore. At least this way you won't go insane tomorrow, and maybe will be able to pull your mind together and start finding yourself a proper partner.

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  DKjazz  |  20

45- I'm sure you're getting thumbed down by the tl;dr crowd. I thought your little article was insightful, justified, and well worth the read.

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  AaronGuy  |  12

45 - Jeez Louise! Wow, a bit of an overreaction over here, I'm pretty sure that 12 was being sarcastic. If you can't see that, you really don't need to be on the internet, go take a class in having a sense of humor! I also think that the whole "For a woman you sure can be quite heartless." comment was rather unnecessary and came across as quite a bit sexist.

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  bugmenotmofo  |  33

49, in text communication sarcasm *cannot* be properly detected by MOST people due to complete lack of body language, voice and facial cues. Most means that in roughly 70% cases your text may be misunderstood. To avoid confusion, use "<sarcasm></sarcasm>" or something similar.

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  Pleonasm  |  31

I dunno, ICastillo, I once woke up to see my right hand doing innapropriate things to my cushion, and ever since, I've had my eye on that sneaky bastard. Copping a feel while I ain't looking? Not on my watch! Oh wait. I thought I knew him like the back of my left hand... But it just feels like he's giving me the finger.

By  GlitterValentina  |  12

A lot better than fantasizing about your ex or whatnot.

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  LuckBeNimble  |  19

depends. for whatever reason they are your ex, you were attracted to/cared about them at some point; and fantasizing about someone you shared an intimate connection with seems far better than a dream stroking your ego. (;

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  Sputnikspak  |  13

I have nightmares (and PTSD) because of my ex, but then again most people's exes aren't sexually abusive, sadistic, violent creeps. Though I know for sure I'm not alone. If I had an erotic dream about him I would probably wake up vomiting. =/ Thankfully I have a therapy dog who senses when I have nightmares and wakes me up, a good therapist, and a very wonderful, caring partner now.

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