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Does anyone know what's up with all the YDI's lately? Even some that are genuine FML's are being voted YDI. Why?

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These days a lot of guys have erectile dysfunction brought about by excessive internet porn use. So he might actually need to watch porn to prepare himself. Just a possibility.

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Does anyone know what's up with all the YDI's lately? Even some that are genuine FML's are being voted YDI. Why?

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#25 - I think it's the new iOS5 app. Most of FML readers use the app on their smartphones. When I scroll down I sometimes accidentally select FYL or YDI (YDI is the second option near the next FML below) whereas the old app had a two step confirmation process that only came up when requested. And the app is buggy and cluttered in general- so I'm still using the iOS4 app until the new app is improved.

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#25 - I think it's the new iOS5 app. Most of FML readers use the app on their smartphones. When I scroll down I sometimes accidentally select FYL or YDI, whereas the old app had a two step confirmation process that only came up when requested. And the app is buggy and cluttered in general- so I'm still using the iOS4 app until the new app is improved.

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Oops. Sorry for the double post above. Ironically the actual FML website that I posted this from decided to play up and submit my comment twice.

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Where are the Grammar Nazis when you need them? "Yours" doesn't have an apostrophe! Perhaps, they've gone soft ;)

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Yes 68, the weather is nice over here. I don't know what kind of whether you prefer though.

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I would have said something about the *yours*, but I didn't want to risk being buried alive under the cold, harsh sea of grammar nazi haters. It just feels like that type of day, with the world ending and all.

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What kind of ridiculous tripe is that? The cure for self-induced ED is TO LAY OFF THE FUCKING PORN before it's too late.

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*raises hand* one was from me- its her husband, she had free reign to join in instead of just complaining about it here.

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-21, have you heard of something called reading? I heard it helps keep people from saying stupid things

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The YDI's are because being watched is a turn on to many people. It is foreplay to many. OP isn't being supportive of the things that turn on her boyfriend. I'd bet she expects him to do what turns her on. Everyone has their preferences and your partner should support them if it doesn't involve forcing your partner against their will.

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Maybe it's just me, but "helping" him doesn't turn me on at all. If I'm helping you, you better be returning the favor. Foreplay is meant to get BOTH (sometimes more) in the mood. If I'm doing all the work I'd be pissed.

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How is that control? If she is expected to do all the work its unfair. He's obviously already in the mood- he should be getting her in the mood too. Obviously she's not turned on if she's on FML...

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It's not sexy!!! The way I see it, it's like if I take you out to dinner and you being hungry, I eat a juicy steak right in front of you. Oh, don't eat, you should feel satisfied just watching me eat! It's unfortunate that you seeing me enjoy my goddam delicious steak doesn't do it for you!!!

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75 that was a perfect analogy. I hate when I'm on forums and guys don't understand why we're not turned on by sitting with them when they watch porn. I don't get why guys in a relationship even need porn!

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It is not about needing it, most of the time it is a way to spice things up and yes if the woman likes it, it will be fun.

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I don't understand why women still enjoy chick flicks even they are in famtastic relationships. Thus are lifes mysteries.

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Of course guys need porn. Even if they are sexually content in their relationship, everybody has fantasies and fetishes. Everybody is physically attracted to more than just one person. I'd rather my man jerk off to porn than live out fantasies with someone else and cheat.

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My partner watches porn. I have no problem with it. We've watched porn together (although mostly terrible parody porn that had us laughing hysterically instead of feeling remotely sexy - the Batman porn parody being a prime example). He's shown me porn that shows a scenario he'd be interested in acting out. I've shown him porn that has stuff I'd be interested in acting out. Maybe her boyfriend has a sexual fantasy involving his girlfriend and porn, or his girlfriend catching him watching porn.

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108 I understand what your saying, and I tried to have an open mind when I found my ex boyfriend watching porn, but deep down it hurt too much. I thought to myself if we both have a strong sex drive why does he need porn still? I felt like I wasn't good enough or was doing something wrong. We were always very open when it came to talking about sex. Strangely enough he was never into role playing or acting out fantasies no matter how hard I tried to get him to try something new. I just don't unde

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Everything else in your post was valid so it's a shame the first sentence is so disturbingly wrong. Nobody "needs" porn; that is crap. Humans need food, water, and air. Any other consumable substance you grow to think you need only signals an addiction that will control you if you don't quit while you can.

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Maybe my phone is messing up, but what's with all these recent FML's that have more votes for 'you deserved it' when clearly it should have more votes for 'your life sucks'? Kind of confused..

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That also explains why I keep getting kicked out of bars. And speed-dating events. At least im popular on chatroulette though!

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I don't believe that the OP should break up with her boyfriend if this is the first time he has done this believing that it is a turn on for the OP. However, it's not a turn on for her and they should definitely talk about this situation, because sex is very much an important aspect of any sexual relationship. But if he continues in this sort of behavior knowing that his girlfriend is in no way aroused by it or even likes it, that is when the OP should consider breaking up with him. And you shou

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