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From what I've read, and been told, many women don't get off through penetration. Clitoral stimulation seems to be the way to go, and furthering the intimacy with cuddling afterwards, instead of rolling over, farting, and going to sleep, makes them feel happier. I may be wrong, and I'm clearly no expert, but that's what I've learned. Be glad she still enjoys cuddling with you, and isn't cuddling some other guy.

I don't see the problem here. She likes being held by you and cuddling with you. That's going to mean a whole lot more in the long run than the sex will. And obviously she's still having sex with you so it's not like she doesn't actually like it.

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From what I've read, and been told, many women don't get off through penetration. Clitoral stimulation seems to be the way to go, and furthering the intimacy with cuddling afterwards, instead of rolling over, farting, and going to sleep, makes them feel happier. I may be wrong, and I'm clearly no expert, but that's what I've learned. Be glad she still enjoys cuddling with you, and isn't cuddling some other guy.

I’ve slept with 5 different women over the course of my life (I’m 29). Only 2 of those 5 could get off from penetration, the other three needed clitoral stimulation to do it. All but one enjoyed the post sex cuddles as much or more than the sex.

I don't see the problem here. She likes being held by you and cuddling with you. That's going to mean a whole lot more in the long run than the sex will. And obviously she's still having sex with you so it's not like she doesn't actually like it.

That's actually really sweet...I don't understand what the problem is. If anything, it's more of an FML for your wife that you see an issue with her enjoying cuddling.

I love sex but I love cuddles more no matter how good the sex was.

Consider yourself lucky. My wife and I don't do either. Doesn't seem to bother her, but it makes miserable having no kind of intimacy.

So would you rather she spent post-sex complaining about how terrible it was?

Not really sure why this is an FML. It sounds to me like your wife just wants to spend quality time with you.

Not really sure why this is an FML. It sounds to me like your wife just wants to spend quality time with you.

Hey, at least you’re involved with the part she likes.

Unfortunately, she has to have sex with you to do something she enjoys...