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Probably didn't expect you to stay. Who actually just ups and leaves after sex anyway? Seems like a grievous insult...
What did you expect from him if you slept with him just from meeting at a party? Breakfast?
I agree, it is rude. But in reality, is everyone polite? No. I was just trying to point out that if you let a guy (or girl) into your pants that quickly, they are not likely going to have much respect for you. I wanted to show OP that to avoid this from happening again, to not sleep with someone you just met at a party that night, especially if you have expectations.
I guess I never really got the "having sex quickly = not respecting each other" thing. You find each other attractive, there's some kind of spark, you share a nice moment, give and receive pleasure,... All things that can perfectly be done with respect and esteem for the other person, and yourself. Casual sex doesn't have to be the sad thing some people seem to make out of it. But well, maybe that's just me.
I'm pretty sure that it's normal to stay after sex.. From this FML, it sounds like he used you for sex and then expected you to leave. Hope your okay, OP
Regardless of OP's expectations, that's still incredibly rude of him.
Rude of the guy even meeting at party. Though that was the mistake right there. Hook ups at parties are fairly common and if alcohol was involved he assumed it was a drunk and horny thing. No reason not to be nice, but one kinda and unfortunately one has to expect this kind of shit. Like dating your boss or co-worker more often than not don't end well and something to avoid. Making out eh that's 1 thing, but sleeping with someone you don't know rarely ends well and kinda hard not to know with the internet it's most likely a bad idea.
Not the classiest comment you can make at 3 am. But yet, I still think the best thing to do after is to leave, after exchanging phone numbers.