By kappu - 07/05/2018 01:30

Today, I got home to find my house trashed, my TV, PlayStation, and laptop smashed, all my clothes burning in the backyard, and all my food gone. Turns out my girlfriend did this after going through my phone and finding a contact named "Kristi". Kristi is my sister. FML
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ChromoTec 24

Call the police. That would be a crime and she could be facing some time in prison.

Time to go to the police and press charges, get a restraining order while you're there. People like her need to learn that they don't own their partners, and to ask about things. And also to keep their noses out of other people's business. This could have all been avoided if she'd simply asked, "Who is Kristi?" Not demanding, either, just ask. Unfortunately, this is what happens when there's no consequences at a young age. People grow up to act all sorts of stupid, and were never taught to talk about their problems instead. So instead of talking, they destroy stuff, only to find out that the Real World has consequences for that. Regardless, go call the police. Press charges. Possibly find a lawyer if you have money and want to make sure it's a lesson she'll never forget.

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ChromoTec 24

Call the police. That would be a crime and she could be facing some time in prison.

Time to go to the police and press charges, get a restraining order while you're there. People like her need to learn that they don't own their partners, and to ask about things. And also to keep their noses out of other people's business. This could have all been avoided if she'd simply asked, "Who is Kristi?" Not demanding, either, just ask. Unfortunately, this is what happens when there's no consequences at a young age. People grow up to act all sorts of stupid, and were never taught to talk about their problems instead. So instead of talking, they destroy stuff, only to find out that the Real World has consequences for that. Regardless, go call the police. Press charges. Possibly find a lawyer if you have money and want to make sure it's a lesson she'll never forget.

azouwa 26

My Mans phone is like his wallet. What's inside is none of my business. He has no lock on it. I stay out of it. Due to my job I have to keep mine locked. He is the only person, besides me, who knows the PIN. He is more than welcome to go thru it, but he doesn't. He treats it like my purse. We are 100% honest with each other. I recommend you find a relationship like mine. Sorry OP. Women are crazy. Your GF is the reason why I'm straight. I agree with everyone else. Press charges.

also a reason why I'm gay xD

I hope it’s “soon to be ex-girlfriend “. I’ve been dealing with it for 2+ decades: it doesn’t get better.

Mungolikecandy 19

If you have been in a similar situation of a partner with massive issues with jealousy and trust this may be the time to make your own decision on the future.

What kind of girlfriend doesn't know the name of your sister?

I would be filing a police report against her.

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Um you obviously didnt read it right dunno y t f youd assume incest but whatever..... read next time before you ass u me

Communication really isn’t that hard.

Dump her and press charges! Make her pay for that!

I'd call the police and press charges for breaking and entering, provided she didn't have a key to your house, destruction of property, theft and invasion of privacy. I'd file a lawsuit, making her pay for all the damages and double it, file a restraining order and for good measure, have her put in an insane asylum.

agree with everything except the insane asylum bit. OP needs to cut her out of their life though. and actually,, if she is a danger, and it sounds like she might be,, she clearly does need some support I'm rethinking