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It took you how many years to realize that private meetings between him and his ex could be a problem?
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... Because it's someone you've gotten to know well and value, and that doesn't disappear just because you're not going out anymore. I don't see why everyone's giving the OP a hard time, real people don't freak out just because their partner has a good friend they used to have sex with.
Hahahahahaha I agree with #1 Why the heck would you allow him to go talk to his ex weekly for over two years?!?!?!
I'm still on relative good terms with one of my ex-boyfriends from high school. We are not romantically interested in each other at all now...I love him as I love my own brother. My current boyfriend has no problem with the two of us hanging out when I visit my hometown. People don't HAVE to cut off all ties to every ex they've ever had, you know. Obviously the OP's husband is a jackass for abusing his wife's trust, but not all of us are whores/manwhores who cheat with past lovers. That being said.....FYL for being used and cheated on, OP.
I'm on good terms with my ex too... we text and if I'm having a few people over I'd have him too. He gets on very well with my current boyfriend. However I would find it very weird to go out with him alone... I think my boyfriend would find it very weird too. I don't understand how the OP was okay with weekly meetings...
yeah you should be able to interact with the oppositie sex, and keep on good terms with an ex, and be okay with a visit here and there. BUT a weekly coffee visit... right away that sends Red Flags. I'm Sorry OP that he violated and disrespected your trust like that. Start Divorce proceedings.
Good god you poor woman. Although I wouldn't have been so ok about him having these coffee dates. My own huband tried to have coffee dates with his ex out of guilt but after six months I had to put my foot down (she was a vindictive psycho bitch and everyone but him noticed..) and he agreed and all is well with the world again. Chuck the cheating bastard and find yourself a man who will treat you with some respect.
#14 I never said she deserved it, because she definitely didn't. I was empathising with my own experience. Besides, I disagree, it doesn't make it sound like one doesn't trust one's partner. It is not trusting the ex that is the issue. My issue was that I didn't like my husband's ex attempting to wind me up by using my husband. I knew he'd never do anything, I just didn't want her to have the satisfaction. And indeed, now that she isn't being a psycho anymore. I have absolutely no issue with them chatting. It was unfortunate bad luck that her husband didn't deserve the trust that she put in him.