umm I wouldn't be calling him my husband anymore.

^^I agree

YDI for hiring Scarlet Johanson.

Oh, Mr.Sheffield... *Annoying yiddish giggle*

Umm, it takes 2 to tango. So the nanny is also at fault here. 1: for sleeping with a married man.

65 is wins

agreed, dump him

If I were get I would start a threesome. if I wre the husband I would ask her if she wants to have a threesome. but that's just me.

ydi for having trust issues.

if you didn't have to go to a therapist, he wouldn't have the chance to cheat on you.

I'd kick the nanny's ass, and kick the husband out while you're at it.

Lol I was waiting for someone to mention the nanny...

me too 126! lol I love the nanny. xD

Aww you poor thing

This is literally the stupidest thing I have ever seen. That's like someone saying "I got shot today," and you replying "well then next time don't be the same place as the shooter."

She can't help having trust issues!!!!! And wouldn't you have them if your spouse did this?!?!?! A**hole

#100, I mean

I would then be seeing a therapist for anger management!

nice bike, what is it?

and then while op is at anger management, her hubby will be with his girlfriend

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That's so stupid and no excuse!

I have a better idea: maybe he does it because he's a jerk.

she had a good reason not to trust him. She should divorce him, because hes a cheating asshole. Thats what I'd do. Just saying.

well I didn't say it was right :] I do believe he is an ass hole and should be run over by a train :) but god knows maybe he is dumb enough to do it because she doesn't trust him :) never the less I that that they should get divorce and he should go see a therapist for his messed up mind :]

You must really enjoy being single. With philosophies like that no woman will ever love you.

to bad I have a boyfriend :) and im a girl who is interested in boys :]v

Fat bitch ftw

Stupidest excuse ever

Haha.. although highly disrespectful, you must admit he had a pretty efficient system working.

The man knows how to use his time wisely.

another win...I applaud u good sir

threesome?

you should roleplay more often. i bet that youre one of those wives that guys regret marrying a week after the ceremony. do the world a favor and just slit your wrists

WTF? Get the hell of this site. You don't need to be talking to people. OP did nothing wrong and you're telling her to kill herself.

seriously, you're an asshole

i am an asshole and i love it. 1st amendment is my friend.

You are an unbelievable a$$hole, that's all you are.

Butthole, nobody is trying to deny your right to free speech, but when you make yourself sound like a complete dickhead, expect people to call you out for it. I found your comment repugnant, but I support your right to say it. I also support the right of others to lambast you for it.

slap that guy

see maybe if you had trusted him this wouldn't have happened lol

Haha yeah how about spending less time in therapy and more time in the bedroom?

Maybe it's not him that op doesn't trust, but maybe she just has a hard time letting people in because go off and throw it away like he did.

you should have hired a male nanny or a really ugly and fat one.

that's what they should all do unless they hate eachother

She did, that's the problem.

why hire a nanny? your husband is home to boink her then why cant he just watch the kids?

really!?! if it wasn't the nanny it would of been someone else like a coworker or a neighbor! op might wanna pay more attention to the needs of her husband than worrying about trust issues at a therapist. that's why the husband has time to screw around because she doesn't pay attention or give him what he needs.

yea but he would be limited cuz he would be taking care of the children not like he can leave them home alone to sleep with someone else.

Yeah, great point stacy. How dare she go to a therapist and try to work out her issues for the good of the relationship while her husband is at home with needs? She needs to stay in the kitchen.

I'm sure he might have cheated with someone else but either way the man can't take care of his own kids??