By Anonymous - 17/10/2015 04:00 - United Kingdom - Nuneaton
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Tell her that it's not right to be doing that. You've probably planned for a while and she just took it like that
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I honestly don't think it's a big deal. How is someone else's wedding going to affect yours? A marriage is more than flower choices and colors. Are you worried that people will say, 'this is just like x' s wedding'?
What a bitch move...but I agree with #1, make it clear she's copying you, not the other way around.
Tell your fiancé, it's his sister so he'll know how to deal with it.
Not necessarily, my husband's sister pulled the exact same crap and he couldn't do anything about it. We took it a step higher, my MIL and kept the rest of our planning a secret. She had to pull together something else at the last minute and had a Valentine's Day type wedding in the spring. She's complained about her wedding not being what she wanted since. The poor man she married.....
Is it possible to get married on the same day and have one big marriage? if so, suggest it
My dad had that exact thing happen to him. He announced to his family that he was getting married in May, and then his brother announced he was getting married in March. My dad was pissed at the time, but don't let your sister bring you down! You're getting married, be happy! And also, congratulations! :)