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By Anonymous / Tuesday 15 January 2013 17:45 / United States
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More than a few just assumed something was wrong with him, but what if he just respected and cared about the girl to the point where he didn't want to have sex? Not all guys are sex hungry jerks that'll pounce on any opportunity to take a girl's virginity. And maybe the awkward silence was because he wasn't sure how to explain to her why he couldn't do it. Also, it could be his first time too... And he was just nervous and/or wasn't ready to have sex yet. Props to him if he was just being respec

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How would it not have been respectful? OP was ready for sex, it's not like he pressured her into it. He was most likely nervous, or had other plans as to when to have sex. If he wanted to respect her he would have said something other than "yeah I can't do this" and be a fool sitting there awkwardly and possibly straining the relationship. But what do I know about relationships. Just sayin'

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I agree with 85, they sound young and from the wording I got that op is a virgin, so the guy might be too, and that's cool if he's not ready yet.

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I have a... really hard time... understanding why... you have to include... amillion of those... triple periods. Sorry... I forgot... the name.... of that punctuation mark.

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It's called an Ellipsis. It can be used to portray an aposiopesis but you're right it's over used when a simple comma could be used.

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Traumatized? I don't she witnessed anyone get murdered, or anything extreme. I'm sure if Op has half a brain she can get over it and maybe help her boyfriend get INto it.

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This reminds me of this guy I know. He always random periods in the middle of his sentences. Kind of like this: Today I. Have decided to. Type like a. Retard. It's quite annoying.

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I thumbed my comment down as well. I had been consuming alcohol and it was a rather idiotic comment. It was not a traumatic event at all but OP will forever remember almost losing her virginity. OP, I do sincerely hope when it does happen, it is spectacular and helps you get over this FML moment.

He just may not be comfortable getting that intimate with you yet. I'm sure that he'll be ready sooner or later, so just wait a little longer.

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A lot of times the girls are the ones that are too nervous and usually their partners totally respect that. Just because he's a guy doesn't mean something's totally wrong. I'm sure you love him enough to let him wait until he's comfortable. It will be better for both of you.

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My first time... I was scared, and nervous. Luckily we both were virgins, and im still with her today, my amazing Lovebug.(: I lost my virginity to the one I want to marry.

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That's lovely, 106. *Pat on the back* Anyone else who wants to share their loss-of-virginity stories with us? It's hard to believe how interested we are in them.

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Are you pms'ing 119? I'm referencing my situation with what the guy could've thought. Furthermore, I've seen you spew your bullshit opinions on plenty of fml's, tbh I think you're quite dumb, so fuck off me cunt.

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The opposite taste also exists, although its rare. I sadly turned down sex more than once, because to me no hair is a turn off.. I'm one of the rare guys that likes that forest ;)

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I must be a real Lumberjack then, because I love to just fall into the forest, explore and appreciate the natural beauty surrounding, and get to work with my trusty tool.

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Well maybe, I can only speak for myself but in my case we both were as ready. Altough when we finally was about to do it I couldn't of some reason. Old great memories ^^

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Wow, my girlfriends personality just takes my breath away and all I really want to do is have an emotional relationship. Or is that not mainstream enough?

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A girl could have the most breathtaking personality in the world, but it's very VERY unlikely that a teenage lad (I'm assuming) is in a relationship for 8 months and doesn't want to have sex.

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I have dated my boyfriend since we were juniors in high school (16 and 17) and he has never tried to get in my pants. You can have a happy relationship by waiting until you're both ready, even years, until marriage if that's important to you.

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"A girl could have the most breathtaking personality in the world, but it's very VERY unlikely that a teenage lad (I'm assuming) is in a relationship for 8 months and doesn't want to have sex." I wish I could present my boyfriend to you, but he's not a member here. So sorry, you'll just have to believe the words of the girl with the most breathtaking personality (thanks for the compliment!), who was during those seven/eight months never pushed into sex. Now that I'm being nostalgic a

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Big penis, small penis, average penis, sometimes it's not about how big your dick is, maybe you just don't feel like its the right one? I've turned down girls for sex, and I'm happy I did, because I gave that special card to someone who actually holds an enormous value to me.

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Maybe 8 months was too long and the pressure and mammoth expectation for it to be perfect the first time was just too much.

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