By lynxstorm - 17/11/2009 04:13 - United States

Today, I broke up with my boyfriend whom I love dearly because he doesn't share his feelings and won't commit. Yesterday, he wrote me a long love letter telling me he wanted to marry me. One of my kids had shoved it under my printer and I didn't find it until after he had moved out. FML
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He was ready to commit, and you didn't managed to clear things up before dumping him ? Well, you must have messed up the dumping pretty bad to not even give him a hint or a chance to tell you directly he was ready to commit.

ydi for not having sausage rolls for lunch last Tuesday.

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That sucks badly. FYL

It's better than a wedding at gunpoint.

I'm sorry, but who breaks up with someone for not sharing their feelings? Not everyone has to be an emotional pussbag to feel emotions.

im really sorry bout that! 

You don't know what you gooot, till it's gone, gone, gone. xD

The whole "being in a relationship thing" kinda means you have to feel the same way about eacother. Why be in a one sided relationship..

*commit! FML Staff, could you fix it? :)

He was ready to commit, and you didn't managed to clear things up before dumping him ? Well, you must have messed up the dumping pretty bad to not even give him a hint or a chance to tell you directly he was ready to commit.

Exactly what I was thinking. You didn't tell him why? He didn't point out that he had proposed in writing?

1) You're an idiot for having children. 2) You should have talked to him about it. You deserved that.

I think the dumbest thing on this site that I've ever read is, "You're an idiot for having children." So...kettle calling the pot black, I guess.

What the fuck? She's an idiot for having children? That's like saying your mother is an idiot for having you.

I think he means having children before she's married. Which I agree with.

Did it ever occur to any of you morons that the kids were from a previous marriage? Hence the kid hiding the letter because perhaps he/she didn't like mom's boyfriend? God, a lot of you are thick.

Did it ever occur to you that was implied? God, a lot of you are thick.

agreed with 5. and more then one child when ur not even married to him yet... and u broke up with him cuz he didn't share his feelings? not everyones tht open

did it ever occur to you that you were dropped on your head as an infant? God, you're really stupid.

stfu she just burned yo ass

YDI for being a bi*ch.

Yeah, did you just not explain why you thought the relationship wasn't working when you broke up with him? This seems pretty avoidable if you were able to communicate at all. For that matter, who writes a letter like that? Just be a man and say it.

dont you mean be a women and say it?

some ppl really just suck at vocal expression my mum always writes letters to me when she wants to apologize for something big or whatever it gets really annoying but I've learnt to put up with it. I think she just finds it immensely difficult to tell me straight out, for some reason *shrugz*

Yeah, did you just not explain why you thought the relationship wasn't working when you broke up with him? This seems pretty avoidable if you were able to communicate at all. For that matter, who writes a letter like that? Just be a man and say it.

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Who's to say the children are illegitimate? Maybe the children are from a previous marriage.

Or from a father who somehow died?

YDI for being stuborn enough to think that he didn't share the same feelings towards you.. well now it's up to you. it's not like he died, so move your damn butt instead of writing on FML. To all who say YDI because of the illegitimate children you seriously need to mind your own fucking business.. as if your backyard was immaculate.

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Having children in a previous relationship (possibly marriage) doesn't make her a whore. You can love someone and think they are who you will be with indefinitely and then it falls apart years later. There's no way of knowing.

Her previous husband could also be dead, in which case the Bible states that a woman really should be married right away. So all of you fundamentalists in the audience here can shut the hell up.

why is everyone sayin she is a whore because she has kids...wat if this kid is 16 years old...the dad has been dead for 10 years and now she is trying to find someone else. or is that still too early for you guys? you kids make it sound like women are two things, either a virgin or a whore.

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How do you know she didnt have the kids with him? Even if she didn't how do you she commited easily, thou dont know how long they have been together do you? No you fucking twat.