yeah, you can't do that to a guy if it's a coffee date, it's like a business meeting, not a DATE date

I dont understand what you were expecting.

I agree with #5. If you were just talking about work and stuff nothing is going to happen.

Ask him out again but be a little clearer/talk slower this time. Pretend last time was about job opportunities but that you like him now. He could not have been sure if it was a date and not wanted to look like a jackass by assuming it was. He probably wants a clearer signal that you like him because he's insecure.

well I asked him on a date, and suggested coffee since we are both busy. he picked the starbucks IN the hospital (where we work). I guess I should have figured he was steering the get together away from 'date'.

That sounds like a horrible date. He was probably trying to find clients.

I don't get it???

Another Case Of 'Stupid FML Syndrome'.

Lmao :)

soo why did you make seem like a business date?