By Anonymous - 10/08/2012 05:29 - Europe
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Forget the comment about losing the weight, that was just mean, however you might want to make sure next time that you aren't giving your neighbors a show via your windows.
I think it would be easiest to just shut the blinds. Or you could annoy him and keep them open.
On the bright side, only needing to lose 30 pounds before he/she thinks your hot isn't that bad. If that note inspires you to get into better shape it may lead to a happier, healthier life. This is of course assuming you are overweight and this person doesn't just like anorexic girls.
I'm just glad people aren't complaining about me using "your" for "you're". I haven't slept in a long time, my grammar is usually good. On another note, I was 6 feet 150 pounds, and this girl I knew over the internet was into thin guys and told me to lose weight, and in 2 months I lost 17 pounds. Maybe I just have a lot of willpower, but I was close to underweight and I lost 17 pounds in two months. If I was overweight I'm sure I could lose 30 pounds in a month easily. I just ate less, walked more, did some aerobic exercises and always went to bed hungry. That was my biggest trick. You might be annoyed being hungry all day, but if you start to get hungry an hour before bedtime you only need to be hungry an hour a day. You're not hungry while you're asleep, and the time passes in the blink of an eye.
Hey bat, I am six foot two and weigh in at 190 pounds, if a woman tells me to lose weight cause she likes skinny guys, theres a major issue, I don't even wear a 36 in waist jean size, if you lost 17 pounds at 150, you have a health issue, plus your a guy so losing weight is easier for us than for most women. And it's not about the pervert watching, it's about how comfortable you and your partner are, I personally only date girls who I can't drop in my boots and lose them.
Batman, it's not just the difference between guys and girls losing weight. Having never been heavy, you have no idea what it's like. You were very thin to start with so you obviously have a high metabolism. The bigger someone is, the slower their metabolism gets and the more energy it takes just to do everyday things like walking to the bathroom or getting dressed. OP, who cares what they think of your body! Someone obviously finds you sexy enough to be sleeping with you. Note person has to get his/her thrills by peeping. Sounds like they have the problem. Leave a response message in your window, "At least I'm getting some instead of sitting alone, in the dark, watching a stranger live. Get your own life."
You say willpower but most would say low self esteem to force yourself to change your image for a person that you have never physically seen or been intimate with is pathetic. I'm 5'8 and weight 155 lbs but if my balls and dick shriveled up into a big fat pussy like yours did I would probably lose 30 lbs. What you going to do when she is bored of your look and wants a guy that can defend himself against a grade school kid and one that she can feel safe with . It seems she wanted to see how secure you were with yourself and your obviously a push over. You don't seem to mention if she liked what you looked like after losing weight. Also not mentioning her after your first sentence so I'm assuming she seen how vulnerable and insecure you were and moved on for a man
Changing your body for anyone is not a good idea, no matter how close you are or how long you've been together. A haircut or color is one thing (like, I begged my fiance not to shave his head until after our wedding just in case it doesn't look right and the photos immortalize a bad hairdo); but losing weight or making permanent changes like tattoos or surgeries? If the person you're with doesn't like you now, chances are nothing you can change on your body will fix that.