By Anonymous - 19/09/2018 13:30
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"You are female? Then anything bad that happens is your fault. If you'd engaged with him, I'd be saying you should've just ignored him, engaging with him was encouragement."
i mean i understand hating him for that but at same time. you could have been nice/decent and said hi back. all the guy said was hi. its not like he started asking a next to impossible quiz type question to get the mood going. and if you didnt want to talk all you had to do was politely say hi get through basic questions but then say im sorry im here with a friend etc etc...so yeah.
Or, she could've done what she did. Women don't owe men their time.
of course they dont, but being a bitch isnt called for at least not for someone trying to be nice or flirty. its not like they're taking away precious time from someone when they're just sitting there drinking it doesnt hurt to say hi how are you...granted i guess its not as bad as the guy that said hi to one bitch and she went off on him yelling sexual harassment and threatening to call the cops. but saying nothing almost as rude. mind you in his shoes i wouldnt want to touch someone like that with a 10 foot stick. lol. although i can understand if you're shy or antisocial but a simple wave is so much simpler to them.
Just a "hi" used t be a common courtesy, but now it is so age and gender filtered that nobody can just reply with a simple acknowledgement of "hello". Did he say he wanted anything more that made her think he was hitting on her, or was a serial killer? I just wish we could all be nice to each other and not have to be intentionally rude. Rubbing the junk, however, deserved a shot with a taser!
If girls today weren't so uppity and roll their eyes at every "hi" turned to their direction, perhaps guys wouldn't be so angry or desperate as to resort to such idiotic measures. Sadly, it's not OP's fault, but I believe most guys are just tired of constantly being rejected simply because they're male and interested.