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  Just_A_Tree  |  20

Tell the dude that Jesus stated

"Thou must leave the number of a maiden on the roster, for thou to taketh the maidens number from the roster without her knowledge or consent is creepy."- Personal Space/ Privacy: 3:16

  Just_A_Tree  |  20

The only time I'd take a girls number like this is if we were long time friends and I didn't have their number. I'd then text them soon after and ask if it were alright and that I'd delete the number if it weren't okay with them.

Other than that, this sort of thing isn't flattering, it's creepy. You put your number on those in the trust that it won't be misused.

  Marcella1016  |  31

Hmm maybe I'm the only one looking at this differently. Honestly, it depends on their age. If they are adults, YES, it is extremely creepy. If they are kids, though, say middle or high school, it seems fairly normal to me. Shy kid, may have talked to her a few times, always wanted to call her, didn't know how to ask for her number, etc. If they are kids, I see it no differently than him sending his friend to talk to her friend to find out if she likes him. It's a ridiculous, roundabout way of getting things done, but that's the way kids act.

  Wolfparable  |  22

Not sure exactly I've heard stories before say you are supposed to report anything strange so they have a record in case it goes any further. Personally I think for her safety she may want to report him just in case and yeah definitely block him and tell him to leave you alone

By  arachnophile  |  13

What a creep! Is that something you could talk to your church officials about? If he's doing it now you might not be the only one he's bothered. I can see why someone may think they deserve immediate access to others in what I assume is considered a closer/safe community. But that doesn't mean you're not strangers. Sorry, OP :(