By Newgenmom - 18/12/2020 19:02 - United Kingdom
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Well there are two sides to this coin one side is children can be very rewarding ,loving, awesome experience on the other side of this coin our parents who took on more responsibilities than they realized they knew how to, thus they think children are stressful. I myself didn't want children because I had had a bad childhood and bad parents but I did have children and I would not know how to live without them it has been the best experience of my life I just raised them in the opposite manner that I was and everything turned out great 🙂
As someone with three kids; yeah they're freaking hard, but another persons child isn't something to go by. I can stand my kids because I'm raising them the way I think they should be. Whereas my sister's or friends children I can't stand for more than an hour. That being said, if you really want kids you'll have them either way. You can't exactly compare parenthood with watching someone else's kids, especially if they're fucking monsters! (Sorry sis! ;) )
It's a pro and con situation. I love my boys and I wouldn't trade them for the world. It is a juggling act to keep all the pieces of the puzzle together and it is a choice you have to decide if it is worth it. My first was a little prince and my second is my little demon. Hope you figure out the path you want.
I'm a mom of 4 girls and I totally understand this! I absolutely LOVE my kids and don't regret having them, but its also super hard, as a parent I don't hate my kids, but sometimes I really hate the "job" that parenting is and thats ok! I think so many people sugar coat it to be the best thing ever when infant it isn't the best all the time! I will say tho that other people's children seem to annoy me a lot more then my own! I have two sisters who absolutely 100% do not want kids and I will always support them for that because it just isn't for everyone 😊