Is that her “work?”

Maybe that’s how she met OP?

I doubt he would take her on a first date where she works unless is a really nice upscale restaurant

I was suggesting that maybe her job involved going on dates.

That is a type of job. Some say it’s been one for a very long time.

Fair enough and I just meant that it would be tacky to take someone on a date where either one works

I would be a smartass and just join their table and say to my wife so hows work going hun. And just see what she says. Depending on her job it could just be a lunch with a client. But I don’t want to speculate.

Don’t do the threesome with her “best friend”. It’ll end badly in a year.

expecially with the previous post https://www.fmylife.com/article/today-after-almost-a-year-of-having-threesomes-with-my-best-friend-and-her-husband-they-both-c_299025.html just above this

I seriously doubt you went there because you missed her because of your work schedules. Why would you go there knowing she would be at work anyway? I think you knew, went there, caught her out because you were stalking her because you doubted her loyalty, and now fabricated some "victim" FML to get sympathy. All features of a possessive person who is there reason for driving her away in the first place. YDI

... unless you personally know OP, that's just a lot of assumptions

Why is it not believable that someone would go somewhere that reminds them of the person they love because they miss them? You are just rude

So...I mean were there obvious signs of an official date? If you just said you guys work a lot maybe it was her meeting a client or spending time with a coworker? I’d say if it’s up in the air like that don’t jump to conclusions but definitely keep a watchful eye

That’s an amazing coincidence that the first time you go to this place she’s on a date. What are the odds?