Today, I asked my boyfriend if he'd still like me if I shaved my head. He told me it wouldn't matter to him, and I called him a liar. Then he said, "Well my mom died of cancer six months ago, so I'm sort of used to it." FML
I agree, your life sucks (8629) - you totally deserved it (54100)
On 07/18/2009 at 10:55am - misc - by Lars (woman) - Canada (Saskatchewan)
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YDI , You're his lover , you're supposed to be there for him when the going gets tough .
How could you not know his mom died ? You obviously don't care about him enough .
THINK BEFORE YOU FUCKING SPEAK . I hope he dumped you ; Or is planning on it . Yet ,
girls like you expect guys to be perfect for you . =/
#38 - On 07/18/2009 at 3:12pm by ElliexMarie
(+2)Why are you replying to comment number 1? Your post has nothing to do with it, you dumb attention whore.
(0)wow, you're an ass. somehow that's the way you find things out about your boyfriend/girlfriend. only 6months, i wouldn't be willing to talk about it right away. i love how people like you jump to gun so rudely.
#73 - On 07/18/2009 at 5:56pm by HELLOASHLEYLYNN
(+1)YDI for asking for an honest answer, and then calling him a liar. Fishing for compliments much? If he'd said he'd dump you, what would you do then? Idiot.
#75 - On 07/18/2009 at 6:14pm by jjenniferr05
(+1)#38 How do you know she's been his girlfriend for 6 months? Might've been shorter.
#80 - On 07/18/2009 at 6:29pm by arienh4
(0)It's stupid questions like this that make girls drive us guys crazy. Why do so many girls ask dumb questions like this?
Y [totally] DI. Seriously.
(0)well, honestly i kind of think it was a low blow on his account. she didnt know, so it wasnt really fair for him to be an ass about it. or be so insensitive. yes, its really sad that his mom died. but it wasnt fair for him to tell her like that.
for those of you who are saying that "why do girls ask dumb questions" it could have been a joke, you dont know the whole story, what if they had just seen a girl with a shaved head and the conversation came up?
and for those of you giving her a hard time about not knowing, well, maybe he just handnt told her, or it hasnt come up untill now.
still, i think its lame that he told her this way. it was unnecesarry, i bet she felt totally horrible after she asked him.
#119 - On 07/19/2009 at 5:40am by naenae_twit2
(0)Maybe he felt that calling him a liar was a bit insensitive, too?
I think the "don't ask dumb questions" bit was really good advice. Seriously, it is. Girls have a tendency to play games like that, until the guy says something say can be feel offended by. Your guy will realize that he has been trapped, and he won't like it. It's really bad for a relationship in the long term.
(0)How exactly was he insensitive? By answering her question honestly?!? The OP didn't mention him yelling or breaking up with her. He merely stated that he was used to it from seeing his mom like that.. nothing insensitive about it.
(0)You are actually right, at first I thought that it is stupid of her not to know, but I thought about it after I read your comment! good job for being smart ! :)
#133 - On 07/19/2009 at 4:54pm by candicejamie1994
(0)YDI for being a cunt about him saying he would love you. Geez, you must think so highly about your boyfriend. I am not going to YDI for you not knowing about his mother--that might have been a sensitive subject.
#160 - On 10/20/2009 at 8:32am by ManUpFucker
(0)I'm with #50 on calling 38 an attention whore read that 38? attention. whore. you. and your pictures ugly with your typical "myspace picture" not hot
#163 - On 03/01/2010 at 3:27am by brutal_banger
(0)I think the op was fishing for compliments. she also seems a little vain considering she thinks he'll dump her if she had no hair. some girls have no idea of a personality/look balance in a relationship. not being rude or anything. =/ just be careful what you ask next time?
(+4)Wow. You're a pretty awful person. You didn't know that his mom had passed away? And, why would you ask him a question and not believe him when he gave a good answer? What were you expecting him to say?
#2 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:04pm by Polka_Dots
(+1)Yeah seriously. How long have you been dating like 3 days? Wtf? How would you not know that about your boyfriend?
Clearly you are the type of idiot who asks people out based on looks and doesn't even bother to get to know them beforehand.
#6 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:07pm by genius_man16
(-2)@ Geniusman16: I've seen a lot of your posts, and I've noticed that your posts can be one of two:
1) Very intelligent and well thought-out
2) Totally narrow-minded and downright rude
Although most of your comments are in the 1st group, that comment belonged to the 2nd group.
People don't go around on their first date telling their boy/girlfriends that their mum died of cancer. Yes, clearly this boy and girl weren't going out for long, and that's why she didn't know. It was just unfortunate that she said this.
#12 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:16pm by divineinstrument
(+1)#12, you are absolutely correct: for the first part. Geniusman sometimes (rarely) does seem to have intelligent remarks and this is one of them (to be honest: most of them are incredibly ridiculous).
OP: YDI for not knowing about the guy beforehand and for being so obsessed with looks that you can't believe a guy who likes you for reasons other than your looks (for what that is I cannot say, cause clearly there is not much there). DON'T FISH FOR COMPLIMENTS!
#17 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:24pm by helpmeiamblind
(0)Yup. What the fuck type of girlfriend doesn't know his boyfriend's mum died six months ago. When I have a death in the family, I tell it to everyone.
(+3)#17 - you're right on so many levels that I have nothing to say... except that you're right.
While I don't understand how the OP could NOT know this about a guy she CALLS her boyfriend, I guess it could somehow happen. But the whole asking-a-question-there's-no-good-answer-to is SO annoying. Why do girls do that?
(+2)#12 my point was not to say that people should go around telling people their mom died on the first date. My point was that you should get to know someone BEFORE the first date. Or at least before calling them your Boyfriend. Knowing that their mom died would seem to be something that you would find out. But maybe that's just me.
#51 - On 07/18/2009 at 4:01pm by genius_man16
(0)Alright that's fair, i feel bad for being rude to you now... but yeah, in answer to your question, it is just you. A lot of people do meet other people in a club/bar or something, so don't actually know them before they start dating. You may not agree with it, but that's what happens.
#59 - On 07/18/2009 at 4:54pm by divineinstrument
(0)#35 - Some people are obviously more private than you? Not everyone goes around yelling about the tragedies in their lives.
#76 - On 07/18/2009 at 6:16pm by jjenniferr05
(0)#76 You're completely right.
His mom probably died before they started dating.
My ex boyfriend, i didnt know his younger brother died until one day I went shopping and saw a woman with 7 kids each of them looked like they were Just born 1-2-3-4-5-6-7 (im serious) and i was telling him about it in the store pointing it out he agreed and told me his mom tried to do that. I looked at him confused and asked tried? said that his mom had a kid after him but died when he was younger so now its just him and his brother that was a year younger then the one that died.
Just because someone died dont mean they have to tell their bf/gf right away. It's not going to be on their mind 24/7 most people try to block stuff like that out. And just dont want to have sad conversations like that with their bf/gf.
#93 - On 07/18/2009 at 8:44pm by tab_ga1990
(+3)I hate it when girls ask questions like that, either you call him a liar if he says yes, and if he were to say no you'd get pissed at him.
(+1)i agree completely. im a girl and i HATE it when i heard other girls asking boys dumb questions "would you still like me if i got fat?" like wtf, stop trying to get a compliment. its annoying as hell.
also YDI for not knowing such a significant detail of your BOYFRIEND's life.
(0)It's called a loaded question. I don't know why girls do that, I guess they have a quota for how many times they have to get pissed at a guy per year.
Also, OP sucks for doing that.
(+1)#57 I couldn't agree more.
I cannot understand why girls ask loaded questions, there is no possible outcome that is good from doing so. It's just stupid.
#115 - On 07/19/2009 at 2:52am by Shadow_Sniper
(0)Yeah, the OP totally DI for being a bitch. Even if his mom hadn't just died, she was being a bitch. She gets no sympathy from me whatsoever.
#138 - On 07/20/2009 at 1:40am by regalarius
(+2)That is really sad... Although didn't he tell you before?
I guess it's like one of those moments where you forget that kind of stuff, and then embarrass yourself bringing it up later.
Also you attention grabbed. You wanted him to say something good, and then called him a liar.
Contradiction...?
#4 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:05pm by SiLveRStaRLIGHT
(0)how did you not know that his mom had cancer let alone not even knowing that she had just recetly died... wow some girlfriend you are
#7 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:07pm by kmpiersall
(0)well you deserve it, why would you ask him a question if you're not going to believe his answer?
#8 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:09pm by jenny_ticktock
(+1)Wtf? He's your boyfriend, shouldn't you know his mom died from cancer? How long have you been dating, two days?
As a side note, I hate it when girls do that. They ask if you'd stilll like them if XYZ. If you say yes, they call you a liar. If you say no, they get pissed off.
Not all girls do it, but I know too many who do.
(+2)That's what you get for digging for compliments. Guys hate being quizzed like that, so YDI whole-heartedly.
#13 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:16pm by cpatrick820
(+1)YDI for even asking a question like that to your boyfriend. Obviously he does care for you, and you shouldn't be with him if you don't trust him enough to believe that
#14 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:19pm by nedthehead
(-1)I think people are being stupid about the OP not knowing. Most people don't find out stuff like this about their boy/girlfriends until maybe the fourth date or something. It's not her fault for not knowing, just because she hasn't been going out with this guy for very long.
Still, I think you deserve it, OP. It's stupid when girls ask unanswerable questions like that.
#15 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:19pm by divineinstrument
(+2)What the fuck kind of a bitch are you? YDI for sure. Not only for asking an extremely stupid and LOADED question, but when he said it wouldn't matter to him, you called him a liar!? You were basically looking for an excuse to bitch at him; if he says he wouldn't then all he cares about is your appearance, but when he tells you it doesn't matter to him you call him a liar. Fuck. You.
#18 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:26pm by strangersdk
(0)just to play devil's advocate.... anyone ever think of the possibility that when OP called him a liar, it wasn't in a mean spirited kind of way? Just kind of a joking "oh your so lying haha"
She never said she yelled at him or anything.
#21 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:29pm by BrightSideGuy
(0)YDI. You're a bitch, period. He would like you even if you didn't have hair and you're still an ass to him.
#19 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:28pm by geesquared
(0)Wait, so his sense of what it means for a girl to be attractive was affected by his mom's makeover?
That's a bit strange.
But YDI for asking a question where you either call him a liar or get pissed
#22 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:32pm by AlwaysRejected
(0)Why would you even ask such a stupid thing in the first place ? are you planning on shaving your head ?
Did you want to know if he loved you for your looks ? of course he does, looks are a part of who we are, even if we like to pretend they are not.
(0)I agree. the OP definitely deserves the Fail award for this one. Sux2bu
#24 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:33pm by Chr0nicdreamz
(0)really? you came up with Aw he seems sweet?? Apparently you're not getting the point here.....Sure hes a nice guy....but shes a moron!
(0)How do you not know that about someone you're seeing exclusively enough to call them your boyfriend?
While calling him a liar was a cunt move, you're an even bigger cunt for doing it after a trap question, making it obvious that there was no right answer in the first place. Guys are better off without girls that do that.
#26 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:35pm by Nakedsquirrel
(0)oh, gawd... that sux... how could u not know tho? neways i put FYL because i woulda called him a liar if i didnt know either... :-/
#27 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:44pm by Nacirema20
(0)I would have said the same thing, tbh. But...probably joking...and idk if you were joking or not.
However, his mom and his gf are different. While it may not bother him to have lived with his mom without hair, it may bother him to have a gf with no hair. So, maybe he was lying. It sucks that your trap question lead to that response though!!! Awkward and sad :(
(0)Seriously - any boy that doesn't mind it when you shave your head is a keeper. I shaved my head a couple of years ago, also partly because my mom died of cancer, and although back then we were only friends, the fact that he supported me and didn't consider me a freak of nature is just another sign of how awesome he is.
I want to assume the best and say when you called him a liar it was a joke, but to echo #20...YDI for loaded questions.
#29 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:47pm by kayceeisms
(0)My ex girlfriend asked me the same question once. i guess its a loyalty thing
#30 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:48pm by DWdizzy
(+1)thats what you get for asking a question with no right answer you fucking bitch.
if he said it mattered you would flip a shit.
he said it didn't, meaning that he likes your personality more than your looks, and you bitch out at him.
fuck you, and fuck girls like you that think this is ok.
#32 - On 07/18/2009 at 2:56pm by guitardedman
(0)You're his GIRLFRIEND and you didn't know his mom died of cancer?
Sorry, but YDI, that's terrible.
#34 - On 07/18/2009 at 3:07pm by moleSG
(0)Woah #28, did you even understand the problem? Your perception of relationships is frightening!
#40 - On 07/18/2009 at 3:17pm by amandawins
(0)#40: How is my "perception of relationships 'frightening'?" I understand the problem, that her saying that lead to her finding out that his mom had cancer, thus was bald from the chemo, and then died from it. So her saying "You're lying!" was pretty much foot-in-mouth. Is there a deeper problem that I'm missing here? Does he, too, have cancer? I'm not seeing your point.
Moms and gfs ARE different. Just because a guy is "used to it" and not bothered by his mom being bald doesn't mean he would be with his gf being bald, even if he says it. Whether she was joking or not, maybe he WAS lying. We don't know what he's really like.
(0)It's the whole second point that I don't get. It's the emphasis on whether moms and gfs are different - of course they are. It seems really strange to read that fml, and even consider the acceptability of being bald or not - it's just not the point. By pointing out that the two relationships are very different, it puts the emphasis on the bf's perception. What would he say - oh, no, my mom died of cancer, and she looked fugly without hair? Obviously, looks do matter somewhat, but if a haircut deserves a serious relationship discussion, then fyl.
#67 - On 07/18/2009 at 5:28pm by amandawins
(-1)I don't see how this is an FML. But I hate most of the comments from people on this one so I'll comment myself :3
It sounds like he wouldn't have a problem with it, so he obviously isn't obsessed with looks - good thing. To those slating her for apparently fishing for compliments and caring too much about appearance... all she asked was for his opinion. Believe it or not, there ARE jerks (you guys) out there who would dump someone over something like that. Luckily for her, he's not one of those guys.
Also to all the people slating them for not knowing about his mother.. maybe they've only been dating a couple of months and he hasn't told her yet? Not everyone knows EVERY little detail about their boyfriend/girlfriend in the first week y'know. If it was only six months ago, chances are it's still a touchy subject. Maybe she hasn't thought to ask why his mum isn't around, it's not unusual these days - and most people I know would wait until they're told incase it is because of cancer or something. He hasn't wanted to tell her yet so stop slating her already.
Sheesh.
(+1)Firstly - you have no more of an idea on the subject than we do. So stop slating us and being all high and mighty.
Secondly - I can understand if it was a short way into a relationship - but surely after a month or so they would have at least breached the subject, if not met parents? Dunno.
#45 - On 07/18/2009 at 3:34pm by moleSG
(0)You're full of shit, #41. People are slating her because she first took the immature low road of asking a loaded question, and after her boyfriend gave the (guaranteed to be) wrong answer, she bitches at him like all girls do when they ask loaded questions. It has absolutely nothing to do with guys being shallow, because shallow or not, the answer is wrong and the girl feels like she's earned the right to chew him out for whichever negative trait his answer indicates.
The cancer thing only made it worse. Trap questions are about as juvenile and snotty a woman can get without starting a fight right off the bat, and most guys naturally despise women who do that. Fortunately not all girls are like that.
It's pretty obvious you're a veteran compliment fisher and trap baiter, seeing as you defend the practice.
#86 - On 07/18/2009 at 7:05pm by Nakedsquirrel
(0)Actually #86, you don't even really know if she was intentionally asking a "loaded question" or not, she could have quite easily have been joking. Not ALL girls who ask questions like that are asking loaded ones; sometimes we joke around too.
I'm also not defending her, since for all I know, she COULD have been asking an annoying loaded question.
#111 - On 07/18/2009 at 11:39pm by XOfiestypixie
(0)To that end, I have to ask, where's the humor in asking someone if they'd still like you if you shaved your head?
It's hard to entertain the idea that it wasn't a loaded question and just playing around just because of all spontaneous silly things to ask, that's not particularly amusing. (I'm easily amused, also, and would have given an equally silly response to a question that wasn't a blatant trap.)
#117 - On 07/19/2009 at 3:39am by Nakedsquirrel
(+2)questions like that is why man hate women .... YDI , and if i were him i would have beaten ya ass silly
#42 - On 07/18/2009 at 3:22pm by fat_bastard1
(0)I agree with the majority once again, how could you not know that your boyfriend's mom died of cancer? Even if you weren't dating long and you don't go into every single detail about your lives, and you were only dating a week or so you should at least know something like that. Sorry but I think YDI.
#46 - On 07/18/2009 at 3:34pm by loverslanex3
(0)You're all bitching about the question she asked? She was just trying to be a tease, trying to be cute, nothing wrong with that!
OP, YDI. You don't call a guy your boyfriend after two short movie dates, you call him your boyfriend when you know alot of details about him, and your dates are implied... if you have a boyfriend and you don't know that his mom passed away so recently, you are a horrible girlfriend!
(0)YDI for not knowing your boyfriend's mom died of cancer!
#49 - On 07/18/2009 at 3:46pm by Lovin_Her_GI_Joe
(0)yes FYL,
but why would you ask that, even if you wouldnt believe him?
typical GF trap for the Bf?
glad it finally explodes in someones face,
not tryin to be mean,
but i hate that kinda manipulation
(0)Maybe you haven't known him that long. But YDI for being a bitch and asking a question like that. I don't like you even if you have hair.
#55 - On 07/18/2009 at 4:33pm by doloreshaze
(0)For all the people in here saying the OP deserves it and that she shouldve known, did you ever think about the fact that they might not have been together then?
(0)Uhhmm hi, its not manipulation, its a cute flirty qustion, I ask my boyfriend " what would you do if I.." Questins all the time. There not loaded, there fun. This one just sucked. FYL
#63 - On 07/18/2009 at 5:05pm by prettykitty123
(0)you're a terrible girlfriend..you should hv known about tht..
plus only stupid girls ask questions like "will you still like me if ____________________" and then get mad when he gives you an answer..whether he was honest or not..
#65 - On 07/18/2009 at 5:20pm by southparkfan92
(0)My question is...why would you ask a hypothetical question just to start an argument? If he said no, you would've called him shallow, and when he practically said yes, you called him a liar.
Don't ask random hypothetical questions if either answer doesn't satisfy you.
#66 - On 07/18/2009 at 5:22pm by chinchilla
(0)Why do girls ask these things? Its like Dane Cook W.W.Y.D.I?
#69 - On 07/18/2009 at 5:32pm by vcjesusfreak
(0)Damn girl, why ask a question when either answer is going to piss you off? You must either new dating him, all about yourself, or insensitive to not have any idea about he mother. YDI, even without his mother part.
#70 - On 07/18/2009 at 5:37pm by containsnosoy
(0)maybe because this is fake, I'm sure he would have told her. and it just depends on how long they have been together and maybe she just forgot and said something stupid.
(0)I don't think he necessarily would have told her. If they have only been together for a month or so she may not have been introduced to her family and he may not have found it necessary to mention that his mom died. Maybe he was finally happy and getting over the death of his mom and didn't want to relive it by bringing it up to his g/f. It most definetly isn't OPs fault for not knowing. And for all the people saying she deserves it for asking a question that didn't have a right answer.. I think she was jokingly calling him a liar. Some people do play around and tease each other than way.
(0)looks like you two need to get to know eachother more. and how is this an fml. i feel bad for the boyfriend... having to bring that up. T_T hmm... i guess fyl for calling him a liar?
(0)It is possible that the OP and the guy haven't been together very long, and since six months is so recent, he is probably still grieving and maybe wasn't quite ready to mention it (until, of course, the time came up that she asked the question)..
However, to the OP- you asked a question, and you got a good answer. The dude was left with a no-win situation- if he said no, then obviously it would upset you because that would mean he likes you predominantly for your looks. But he said it doesn't matter, and you harassed him about it. I'm sorry that had to be the way you had to find out though, and I know if I were in your place I'd feel really bad about it.
(0)What do you mean do stupid stuff like this? Who on earth thinks that much before they speak...NO-ONE. Maybe their relationship is 3 days old. And it's the boyfriend's fault for not telling her. What is she supposed to say 'so any of your family died from cancer?'. I don't think so. Don't get the so many YDI's.
#82 - On 07/18/2009 at 6:36pm by Alexgoesfml
(0)I think you deserve the "Biggest Bitch" award! that was simply amazing! you really are an inspiration, you know that right?
#83 - On 07/18/2009 at 6:40pm by epicFAIL_Sometim
(0)You should probably get to know your "boyfriend" better..yeah.
#85 - On 07/18/2009 at 6:59pm by waterynuggets
(0)that sucks :( my mom had cancer too but she servived, but my question is why you were going to shave your head? are you britney spears?
#89 - On 07/18/2009 at 8:26pm by iamatacomuff
(+1)I think that FML should not have implemented the reply part on the comment board. It was just fine when people would just say stuff like "#100, what's up with that?"
Now, everybody wants to reply to #1 to get their message seen and shyt. It's annoying!
(0)My mom also has cancer. She lost all her hair again from treatment when she got worse. You kind of do get used to it. :/
#92 - On 07/18/2009 at 8:39pm by lifeislife
(0)...but if he'd said he wouldn't still like you, you'd be pissed. You just called him a liar to trick him into declaring his undying love for you, because chicks like you need to constantly stroke your own ego and revieve validation of yourselves through others. God, you give females a bad name. YDI, you insensitive bitch.
#95 - On 07/18/2009 at 9:29pm by OverEnthusiast
(0)I put both FYL and YDI.
Let's say the OP thought she knew everything about her BF because he chose not to discuss this particular topic. It's a pretty crap way to find out about it... but, that would be his fault.
But, if the OP was just ignorant because she failed to inquire about his family... then she totally deserves it.
(0)Umm fake maybe... How would you not know that your boyfriends mom died of cancer?!
#99 - On 07/18/2009 at 10:10pm by pleasedonttellme
(0)It is girls like you that give all women a bad name. Gods, don't be such a bitch. If you ask a question and he answered, don't jump over him saying he's lying if it is an answer that you didn't expect. You purposely worded that question so he was screwed no matter what he said - because no answer would satisfy you!
And it is because of women like this that I had to weedle what my boyfriend had wanted to ask a few nights ago out of him. Gods.
#101 - On 07/18/2009 at 10:25pm by BLNovelist
(0)YDI... most women with shaved heads are either battling cancer or did so in support of a loved one facing the disease. Even if you didn't know about his mom, it's a sensitive subject.
Next time you ask him "will you still date me if..." make sure it's not a hairstyle usually associated with a terminal illness.
#103 - On 07/18/2009 at 10:29pm by bandgeek24601
(0)See, now i feel like this is one of those things the MIGHT come up in conversation if you care at all about the person you're dating. I mean, 6 months is not that long ago, and obvi you werent together then, but....really, you didnt care enough to ask him about his mother....or are you just that dumb that you forgot? either way....Totally DI
(0)Huh. Well, that sucks. YDI because a relationship's supposed to be based on believing each other even when the speaker is full of it. [=
#105 - On 07/18/2009 at 10:43pm by unlucky_angel02
(0)I can't see much OP info on my iPhone, but... the OP's name is Lars. Isn't that a guy's name? I hate loaded questions just as much as anyone, but they can come from both sexes.
However I do agree that regardless of gender you should know info like this before dating him, or at least ask enough questions about his family to figure out that it's a sensitive topic. If he didn't want to talk about it, fine, but that'd be a pretty easy thing to discover in a non-threatening, get-to-know-you way.
#107 - On 07/18/2009 at 10:48pm by TheIrishJaneDoe
(0)I dislike loaded questions, even when they're teasing.
There's better ways to joke around without risking a fight.
Immediately accusing her for being a terrible girlfriend for not knowing isn't fair either though. My dad was in the army and was killed a few years ago, and almost none of my boyfriends have known about it. It's just not something I care to share. If it comes up, yeah I'll tell them, but I try to change subject as soon as possible. It's my choice for them not to know; it in no way means that they're terrible boyfriends. As was previously said, it's not unusual for people to live in one-parent households.
#112 - On 07/19/2009 at 12:55am by katharine91
(0)Why do girls ask such dumb questions? Its always the same ones. Why do they always need so much reassurence?
#113 - On 07/19/2009 at 1:01am by biguy199069
(+1)YOU DESERVE IT, not because you didn't know, because that's a really sensitive situation (and some people might not reveal that sort of thing right away), but because you're just an idiot girl who plays stupid mind games.
#118 - On 07/19/2009 at 5:32am by noshitsherlock
(0)OP, was there actually a right answer to your question?
#120 - On 07/19/2009 at 7:08am by drimpossible
(0)YDI for being a bad girlfriend. is like basic yo know about your bf/gf parents and you didnt know that thing? that her mom died of cáncer?
(0)aww thats sad for ur boyfriend
but YDI u should have known that
#122 - On 07/19/2009 at 10:05am by sucks4you5
(0)Well, on the bright side, you now know his dark secret, and have conformation that he would stay with you through cancer. The means weren't exactly planner, but this is a positive!... y'know, apart from... his mom being dead.
(0)Why would you even ask that in the first place?
#125 - On 07/19/2009 at 11:09am by AmpulexCompressa
(0)Haha. I wouldn't care if my girlfriend shaved her head either, but my mom didn't die of cancer.
#129 - On 07/19/2009 at 1:47pm by Leaveittosteven
(+1)My ex said I'll end up single if I shaved my hair, guess who dumped who? My current boyfriend doesn't care what I do to my hair, he likes it that I have the balls to shave my hair and look different.
(0).... and what kind of girlfriend are you for not knowing that???
#131 - On 07/19/2009 at 2:42pm by HelloShitty
(0)YDI for being the kind horrendous girlfriend who has to constantly "test" her boyfriend to make sure he has no flaws, and then thinks he's lying or "too good to be true" if he passes.
(0)I don't want to say ydi, cause if you're a new girlfriend, than I can understand not knowing. But it's not a yls either, cause well...Where the hell did that question come from?
(0)Loaded questions. Bane of my life. I swear it's something to do with the way the female species is wired. 'Does my bum look big in this?' Don't blame the dress, love.
#139 - On 07/20/2009 at 3:16am by buckfasthero
(0)I thought leucemia makes your hair fall, not cancer. Oh well, YDI.
#140 - On 07/20/2009 at 4:08am by kytzackh
(0)Leukemia is blood and bone marrow cancer you..
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leukemia
OP:
Why do you ask if you won't believe the answer? YDI
(+2)I hate when women ask those questions. It's really freaking immature. "Would you still love me if I had no legs?" No! I'd be out the door in a heartbeat. And the funny thing is, she wouldn't be following me.
#142 - On 07/20/2009 at 12:12pm by overdriven07
(0)#11 you really think sonthing that important wouldn't come up in conversation? and in my oppinion if you are to the I love you stage you have been together long enough to know his mom was dead and to ask why. If sonthing that important just slipped her mind then she must be a sucky person.
YDI
#143 - On 07/20/2009 at 12:56pm by ellis90009
(+1)Wow bitch. Why did you ask if you didn't trust him to give an honest answer. You are clearly high maintenance.
#144 - On 07/20/2009 at 8:36pm by irunintodoorways
(0)This is so lame and not an FML at all. You didn't say anything offensive, like "I don't blame you if you say no, it's fucking ugly and freaky when a woman's bald!" and it doesn't sound like he was offended either.
All you had to do is say "Oh I'm so sorry" and support him and listen to him. I hate all these people on here who are so socially awkward that if a conversation doesn't go completely according to plan, they freak the fuck out, don't know what to do, and hate their lives.
(0)ydi. you're a bitch for asking a question you think you know the answer to--and for asking a question that he lose either way he answered
(0)O_o
How long have you been together and not know that his mom had died?
#148 - On 07/21/2009 at 3:16pm by jackson7787
(0)"I'm going to ask you a question and then call you a liar if you answer the wrong way."
Fuck you.
#149 - On 07/21/2009 at 7:43pm by FoundManyLemons
(0)I'm with #149 - that was a total setup question of the "I've got you now you bastard" variety. And he answered it honestly. You suck. Maybe your boyfriend's next girlfriend will be a better person. I'll pray for him.
(0)green is the colour, football is the game
we're all together and winning is our aim
so cheer us on through the sun and rain
saskatchewan roughriders is our name!
i just saw that you were a saskie, haha
(0)YDI it not because of your honest ignorance about his mother's death (though depending on how long you've been dating him, maybe you should have known), but because you asked him a loaded question and then accused him of "lying" when he told the truth. ):
#154 - On 07/23/2009 at 8:14pm by NoteMyGrin
(0)Why do women like you do this shit? You ask men about their opinion on something and then shoot them down for no reason. God am I glad I'm gay so I don't have to put up with selfish injection-molded bitches like you.
(0)then why the fuck ask the question?!!!!! i agree w/ #155
#158 - On 07/31/2009 at 3:00pm by infidelboy
(0)I hate psycho bitches like you OP, asking those retarded questions and then not even believing the goddamn answer.
(0)YDI for being such an insecure bitch that you have to resort to the underhanded tactic of loaded questions to get compliments. Not because you didn't know his mom died of cancer.
Jesus H. Christ on a friggin' show-pony, you guys! My dad died, and I don't go around telling everyone I meet! Most people don't know until about four or five months after they meet me, because by that point it's a little weird if I don't go to 'visit Dad' like divorce kids do. So quit saying she deserves it for the sole reason that she didn't know.
#162 - On 01/19/2010 at 3:00am by taechanisapony
(0)well I think that she should have known that his mom died even if they weren't dating for 6 months andshe shoulnt have called him a liar for saying no so yes it kinda is her fault and if he didn't tell her then it's kinda his fault too
#168 - On 06/17/2010 at 8:35pm by blink_babe
(0)yeah I have to say you aren't a good gf if you didn't know his mum had frikkin died
#169 - On 06/24/2010 at 7:10pm by mojojojo345
