Today, my girlfriend who I love very deeply dumped me two times, over the phone. The first time was to dump me. She then called me back a couple hours later explicitly to dump our friendship. I was just friend dumped. FML
I agree, your life sucks (18884) - you totally deserved it (1408)
On 12/19/2009 at 2:48am - love - by musicyman55 (man) - United States (California)
yeah...its always the mans fault of course. Men are such fuckin animals...
no woman can ever be a cheating/lying bitch. Theyre just too pure for that
(/sarcasm)
#32 - On 12/19/2009 at 8:28pm by greenltrn2003
Sure! it is always the men who do the bad things and broke the poor litle girls heart... we, men, are pure monster, have no emotion and just want to make girls sad!
(/sarcasm)
Definitely! We only exist as sex crazed demons who want nothing more than to make women feel miserable... Well that's what my GF's mom seems to think....
My ex was "pure" with another guy. Guess I caused that too?
#59 - On 02/18/2010 at 1:32am by boltaction1
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She'll find someone better than this clown. He probably cheated on her.
#4 - On 12/19/2009 at 10:18am by MacOSXpert
Wow, never really heard of a "friend" dump... Guess she wanted to cut you out of her life completley!
#3 - On 12/19/2009 at 10:13am by Starfire22
Least she didn't use "we can still be friends" to break up with you
#44 - On 12/20/2009 at 8:02am by time4coffee
Seriously dude, how could someone that you "love deeply" (apparently) hate you enough to do that. I'm assuming that she never really considered herself to be your gf and that your "deep love" creeped her out.
Even if she did consider him her boyfriend (it did say she dumped him, after all), his "deep love" still might have creeped her out.
Has it occurred to anyone here that boys aren't the only cheating lying whores around??
The OP might have been a sweet and loving BF, but the GF might have been cheating on him and losing interest, then decided to cut him off.
Ugh...this reminds me of daily high school drama. You get dumped, and you hate each other, only to end up being friends again after sometime. Give the OP a week, he'll probably post another FML with a similar story.
Not taking sides.
#8 - On 12/19/2009 at 10:33am by xxreikoxx
She's probably doing drugs and had a nervous breakdown. Now the voices control her life.
#11 - On 12/19/2009 at 10:49am by Person1233
never get in a relationship. you will almost always be hurt at some point. sorry this happend to you my friend. ---,---'---@
#15 - On 12/19/2009 at 11:50am by GrimGothicAngel
why nvr? proly dont date for awhile till ur ready for a commited and intimate relationship. but u NEVER kno when tht is (thats how u use the word never lol.....inside joke if u dont get it) XD
#57 - On 02/02/2010 at 1:07am by FizzyMtDEW
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just tell her how in love u r with her, and give her flowers! girls LOVE the romantic type ;D
#16 - On 12/19/2009 at 11:54am by higurashil0v3
At least you're still acquaintances right? Or did she dump that too?
#25 - On 12/19/2009 at 2:21pm by MysteryJoker
It's way worse to be friend dumped, then relationship dumped! Im sorry! :(
#27 - On 12/19/2009 at 4:30pm by pancakegremlin
Aww, I'm sorry. That really sucks. Losing a friend is the worst thing ever.
#36 - On 12/19/2009 at 11:16pm by marsjunkiegirl
most girls are jerks, I think. They never seem to choose the right guys and end up dumping them for it.
I kinda did that recently :/ I broke up with a guy and said I'd be friends with him then a few days later I decided we shouldn't be friends. what happened was that he was trying to hard to get me back and it made me uncomfortable. maybe she felt that way too?
it was pretty cruel, but the whole "let's stay friends" thing very rarely works out anyway...unless it's a mutual breakup on good terms, which this clearly wasn't since you're "deeply in love" with her. so while it seems terrible now, she really saved you a lot of heartache, because if she was still in your life, more than likely you would always hold out hope to get back with her only to have it crushed every time she dates another guy.
it probably wasn't her intention to do this for your sake, but really, it's kinda better this way. keep your chin up, you'll be alright.
#45 - On 12/20/2009 at 10:44am by fretforyerlatte
I'd rather dump someone for a valid reason than for no reason at all and at least try being friends, but that's just not going to happen. Sometimes it's for the best if the friendship takes a break after the relationship's done, at least until the broken heart has healed. In this case, it seems as if the pendulum swings both ways.
We don't know why the OP was dumped in the first place.
#46 - On 12/20/2009 at 12:30pm by xxreikoxx
thats funny, the same thing happened to me only im a girl and its was with a guy. ironic.
#47 - On 12/20/2009 at 7:42pm by bieberfever8
no girl just duz that for no reson...YOU did sumthin 2 deserve it
#52 - On 12/29/2009 at 9:58pm by CaramelQUEEN33
Are you kidding? My friend was dumped four times by the same girl because she kept cheating on him, but then realizing that the person she was cheating with was cheating on her, and trying to get back together with him for the sole purpose of being able to say 'No, im not single' so she didn't sound as pathetic as she really was. Then, when he found out about all of this he dumped her and she got really mad and started crying and yelling at him and saying how mean he was. Explain that to me.
