Today, everyone was telling me a girl I like wanted me to ask her on a date. I approached her, and asked if it was true. She said yes, but only because she wanted to reject me in person. FML
I agree, your life sucks (20207) - you totally deserved it (978)
On 11/11/2009 at 7:49pm - love - by WhatWentWrong (man) - United States (Florida)
You know, every day I ask myself just how low can my own gender go....I think they've managed to reach lower than the fiery depths of hell at this point.
Gotta respect a b!tch that's evil enough to be mean with the old 'in-person' style, or is it that she just wanted to savor the pain she inflicted?!?
Agreed #1, us girls sucks. Thats why I only have about two girl-friends and a bunch of guy-friends.
#36 - On 11/12/2009 at 4:20pm by Sun_Kissed18
Meh, she knew and surely it was awkward for her, at least she was kind enough to get him over her the quick way, less pain for him in the long run... Beats some situations I've been stuck in
#40 - On 11/12/2009 at 4:45pm by youreanidiot
Girls are so ridiculous. She went out of her way to be mean to this poor guy. OP, forget her and move on, definitely NOT worth it.
#2 - On 11/12/2009 at 3:09am by the_BLADE13
We don't know that she was trying to be vindictive and isn't every other fml about how people are rejected via IM, or text, or school newsletter, etc? It sounds to me like this girl didn't feel like getting ogled by a guy who wasn't getting any anyway. She's letting him move on instead of letting this become a different fml 20 years later when he finally proclaims his love and she's forgotten who he is.
#24 - On 11/12/2009 at 10:17am by pleasetryagain
comfort yourself with the fact that she'll most likely end up fat and miserable and emasculating to whoever marries her. do you really want that?
Sure, you can make that assumption, but it's just as likely that she's a total babe who'll only get progressively more attractive until she hits her mid-thirties and by that point she'll have already established an easy, successful lifestyle for herself.
#23 - On 11/12/2009 at 10:07am by wienerwagon
Well, see, the thing of it is, if she continues with such a bitchy and high-and-mighty attitude, she's going to end up miserable in the end. Or constantly wringing divorces out of any poor saps who vie for her attention.
#46 - On 11/12/2009 at 9:15pm by DameGreyWulf
She was tired of you staring her down like a dog in heat. Next time don't pretend you have Superman x-ray vision and look away once in a while.
#5 - On 11/12/2009 at 3:22am by nokillnobeepbeep
She lives in a bubble that will pop on her 20th birthday. Only women who can laugh with everyone else as opposed to at anothers expense look good past that age. Inner beauty eventually shows. It only kills well when it is directed towards good things. Fuck that bitter bitch and get to know women with smiling eyes.
slap her and tell her to fucking chew her food. trust me, solves everything
#9 - On 11/12/2009 at 3:51am by portlandrima
ChokeThaBitch. [:
Or... "Oh. Well, then, I'm glad we're here, cause I wanted to kick your ass in person."
#10 - On 11/12/2009 at 4:03am by SusanaSaysRawrxD
But now you don't like her, so really it's all resolved. Or it had damn well better be, because that was a stone-cold nasty thing to do to you. While I know a couple people who would kind of have that coming, they're all extraordinarily evil, and I can't make such a determination about you. So FYL, but not really because you dodged a major bullet with that crazy ho.
#11 - On 11/12/2009 at 4:29am by pope_suburban
Since she told everyone SHE wanted you to ask her for a date, then you can just tell everyone YOU rejected her.
#12 - On 11/12/2009 at 4:30am by WonderBlunder
Haha. What a bitch. Be thankful she didn't go on a date with you, dood.
#14 - On 11/12/2009 at 5:35am by blastvortex
I don't think she was being a bitch. I think that she knew you liked her, and knew that she wasn't interested, and wanted you to ask her so she can just get the rejection over and done with, rather than let you think you have a chance for a long time while you build up your courage. She probably didn't actually ENJOY rejecting you, but she just wanted you to know where you stood with her.
Of course, she could have handled it differently, but whatever way she handled it, you still probably would've put it on FML. Since there isn't really a "nice" way to reject someone.
And I don't know this, either, maybe she gets her kicks out of rejecting guys, in which case, she's a bitch. But I'm inclined to think that she just wasn't comfortable with watching you hope you have a chance when you didn't.
I dunno, I think she could have told him that she had heard he was interested, but that she didn't have feelings for him. Setting him up to think that he was going to get to go out with her is just cruel. Granted this is probably high school, so straightforwardness and tact are not high on the list, but still. Were I in that situation, I probably would have just told the dude or done the "have a friend tell him thing," because see again high school.
#35 - On 11/12/2009 at 3:19pm by pope_suburban
That's true, she definately could have handled it better, she could have thought about it a bit more, and that wasn't the best way to go about it, but her motives may not have been as bad as everyone's assuming. And maybe she just wasn't smart enough/sensitive enough to come up with a better way. I'm not saying she was completely justified, but that doesn't mean she's as big of a bitch as everyone's making her out to be.
Also, we don't know how the rumour started. Maybe she started the rumour on purpose so he'd ask her out, or she could've just told her friend, "I wish he'd just ask me out so I could get it over with" without any intention of her friend to pass that on.
Oh God. The same thing is happening to me except I'm asking my crush today. This is exactly what I fear...
seems kinda nasty, but we don't have all the facts. Maybe he is a creepy stalker type person yes they exist, believe me:( and it wasn't so much of a she wants you to ask her out, as she wants to talk to you (so that she can tell you to back off), and he being creepy stalker who thinks that he is actually good enough inspite of his disgusting ugliness, and pervertedness,, and being a compelete moron, took it the wrong way. (sorry, same thing is happening to me, and Im getting fed up. and yet, when I tell him to back off I'M the b*tch because for some reason even though he is ugly, stupid, and completely, disgustingly perverted, with no descernable charm, its not his fault that I'm not interested in him! I'm just being a stuck up jerk. and for some idiotic reason, he takes everything the wrong way, thinking that im interested in him when im not. So when I tell him we need to talk, or when someone else tells him we need to talk, he seems to think that it means that I want to be with him)
Or the girl is just a stuck up fool.
#18 - On 11/12/2009 at 8:53am by damnrosi
I don't know, but since he's accessing the internet, that's one illusion that's going to die soon.
#34 - On 11/12/2009 at 3:17pm by pope_suburban
I agree with this girl. I knew guys in middle school that had a huge crush on me but never said anything and were just acting weird and stared a lot. I couldn't just go up to them and say "I will never date you" without prompting, but they never gave me the opportunity to turn them down- effectively ruining friendships with awkwardness.
#22 - On 11/12/2009 at 10:06am by pleasetryagain
Damn that girl is a bitch! You should have slapped her right in the face because that was fucked up.
#27 - On 11/12/2009 at 10:54am by SilverStrs5
and this is why I hate my gender, they make so many stereotypes. a lot of women are just rude, cause they are always battling to be the top women being a jerk to one another. me I could care less.
my male friends joke about women drivers at me, and I have had my license 3 year longer then them and have not had an accident.... they've all been in 3 or 4.
Wow girls can be such bitches. Just ignore her, she doesn't deserve a nice guy anyway.
#31 - On 11/12/2009 at 12:47pm by weddingbelle09
That's harsh man. Hwy would someone do that to another human being, just doesn't make sense to me sometimes the way people treat each other. What have you ever done to her? Honestly, she's obviously cold hearted and doesn't deserve you, let alone anyone.
Pure bitch and you have lost nothing, this skank thinks the world revolves around her - next time you see the bitch tell her exactly that!
#41 - On 11/12/2009 at 5:48pm by yourkiddingright
what a bitch!! you should take her hair and strangle her with it!! xO ppl like that irritate the #%$! outta me!!!
#42 - On 11/12/2009 at 6:08pm by xoluvinshayxo
This is one of the most horrible things I've ever read. OP, that sucks.
#43 - On 11/12/2009 at 6:20pm by FATTY_MCDOOGLE
Maybe she rejected him nicely. Like the same exact thing happened to me today. He was really nice about it and maybe it's better that she tells you the nicest way possible in person than tell everyone "no, i dont like him." Think about it. It may sound harsher that way.
Sick burn dude. That was really good. You got to get her back by hashing an elaborate scheme of making her fall in love with this foreign exchange student who is supposed to be a Duke and European and make him totally reject her in person.
#47 - On 11/12/2009 at 10:11pm by unbreakablehoes
shes probably a whore anyway, she'll be all used up soon
#51 - On 11/13/2009 at 4:08am by KCID_GIB_ATTOGi
You lost nothing. They way it was worded, "everyone was telling me a girl I like wanted me to ask her on a date" made me think you were excited, and she just crushed you. =( FYL, OP
#52 - On 11/13/2009 at 7:36am by CheshireHalli
You should have invited her on a date without asking anything. You just embarrassed her with the question. YDI
Hey everyone, this is the person who posted this. No I'm not a creepy stalker, I'm a normal person. Today, the girl who did this asked my best friend on a date. My best friend is pretty popular, so a lot of people manage to follow what he does. After she asked, he only pointed and laughed at her, at which the point where everyone proceeded to turn around and laugh at her as well. I feel better now.
#54 - On 11/13/2009 at 6:19pm by AFunnyUsername
