Today, the girl I've loved for the past two years finally expressed her innermost feelings for me. After a brief make out session, she asked me to "never leave her side". When I got home, my mom told me that my dad got a new job. I'm moving to the other side of the globe in two weeks. FML

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Honestly, if you love her, and are old enough to understand what love is and stuff, don't move.Of course if your under 18 then yeah....sorry

From my own personal experience: it's for the best.

Damn. Sorry to hear that man. That truly sucks.
Sorry to say that such a fledgling relationship is not likely to withstand being so far apart. Even the best relationships get strained from being in different cities let alone different countries

Move in with her.

Hopefully the move isn't permanent? And on the bright side, your dad has a job :D In this economy, that's always a good thing. She probably wouldn't wanna make out with a homeless dude and now that won't be a problem for you! Just trying to make you feel better, I hope every thing works out for you

aaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww1 OH NO! dude that sucks. well, absense makes the heart grow fonder. or less faithful. whatever i don't know you poeple.

Hahahahahahaha! What are you, 10?

oh wow.
This is the first FML to actually make me go "wow.. fuck.. that sucks" out loud.
im sorry. I agree with #5 too.

Don't fucking move dude, you'll regret it. I say this from experience.

@ #6 I would say the opposite, lol. Being 1000 miles apart from my girlfriend of over a year for just a couple weeks puts a huge strain on our relationship. Stupid college breaks, lol.

Sorry to hear that you have to move right after that conversation. D:

fuck.

omg! i'm sry OP...good luck!

Forget the girl, you're moving to the other side of the planet, and that is awesome! My family moved to Spain when I was 11, and we lived there for three years. That will always rank as one of the defining moments of my life. Now you're getting the same opportunity. Don't spoil it over a chick.

You'll meet new girls, you'll experience another culture, and you'll have a damn interesting time if you don't let this bug you.

:(

If you're young enough to have to move across the world with your parents, then you're not ready to "never leave her side".

And I agree that experiencing a new culture in a different part of the world could be a great opportunity for anyone.

"Today, I've finally found the words to confess my feelings to this guy I've known and loved for a while. It was magical and I asked him to never leave my side. Apparently he's moving to the other side of the globe in two weeks. FML"


If you have even the remote possibility to stay do it or you'll regret it, possibly forever.

everything happens for a reason, whether it be good or bad, a significant or insignificant one, whether you know the reason or you don't. Life is on your side man, let things play out... move, if its meant to be, then you'll see her again.

Seriously, listen to me. Listen to FPsLife. Don't listen to the people who are telling you to stick around so you don't regret it for the rest of your life.

If you stay, you'll have maybe a few months, hell, I'll give you a couple years, of fun with this lover. Then you'll break up and all you'll have is heartache. And you'll feel like a dumbass for not taking the present travel/culture opportunity when you could have.

I've had both love and travel. I'm not still with the only girl I've ever loved, and thinking about her was painful for a while and now it's simply nothing. And I don't live in Spain anymore. But I cherish that time of my life every day, and I always will.

stay, if ur 18 or more

I'm very sorry to hear that. You must be going through a lot.
Though I understand you're having a "fuck my life" moment right now, it's not exactly that black and white.

You're not screwed, not even as screwed as you think you might be.
There are ways to preserve your relationship. They require commitment and dedication, but you seem to have demonstrated that already.

I think that while it may be tempting to act hastily due to the overwhelming emotional aspect to the situation, there's no need to.

My best friend has mattered to me in the way you seem to be describing for over 5 years, when we lived on opposite sides of the world.

It hasn't changed my feelings, even though it can get trying.


It's important to understand that though this may cause speed bumps, it's not that destructive.
You may choose to see other people while you live abroad but make a sort of commitment to each other.
You know those, "If you're not married and I'm not married when we're 25, we'll marry each other" deals?
Well, you can pick a simple thing like agreeing that maybe a year or two from now, you'll meet up for a date. No matter who you may both be seeing, you're going to spend some time together. Even if you're not physically intimate at that future meeting, you can at least stay connected and schedule another and another.


If things do last, then you can always move back for university, or grad studies etc.


It's not over yet.

I know a couple where the girlfriend's dad was posted in the Gulf....and her boyfriend was in Toronto.
They stayed strong for 2 years, despite her not being there...and when she came back after 2 years, they're quite happy together.


Work out a schedule.
Promise to buy calling cards and give each other a ring every Friday or Saturday and talk for an hour or two.
Use Skype, Windows Live and other forms of voice chat.
Update each other with pictures on Facebook as regularly as you can.
Once a week, stay up at night so that you're online when it's daytime for her, and vice versa.
Write letters to each other, because having a tangible piece of someone can help.
In these next 2 weeks, pick out your favourite perfumes and colognes and wear them around each other all the time. When you leave, take her bottle, and give her yours.
When you move, and you write to her, spray a bit of the cologne onto the card and ask her to do the same. Smell is the sense that connects us to our memories the strongest, so every time you get a letter, you'll remember her and the times you've shared.
When you go shopping, make it a point, every week or two weeks, to buy her something. Be it a bracelet, a charm, a locket, a pair of shoes, so that way she's not only in your thoughts, but you can feel a bit better about being so far because you're not just passively remembering her - you're actively doing so.
If you pray, you could pray a great deal for her. That's an amazing way to connect with a person.



But don't let the grief and sadness and hurt rule your life.
That will cause you to react very negatively to this move and may impact things like your education and health in ways you may never have even fathomed.


In this recession, it's lucky that anybody has a job. Imagine if in a few years, you couldn't go to university (for undergrad or grad) in the same place because the tuition was too high and you had to part ways then? In my humble opinion, that would just be awful.

If you find that your parents won't let you stay with near-by relatives, take the trip. Seeing the world is one of the best things that I have done.
This is really a tough situation.
If you do stay in town, don't pass up going across the world. Visit your parents. Perhaps, bring her?

How old are you?

Haha, that's funny, naive juvenile relationships haha.

most people will fall in love in their life. but if that person just happens to say "I love you too", then you're the luckiest guy in the world.

Follow your heart. Not us idiots . :-)

WOWWW mann..... i am totally going thru tha same thing. my parents are moving to a different state tho. im 18 and i really want to be ther 4 her...... people tell us wat shud we dooo?? help me out on this

Ouch, that really sucks. Maybe you can work something out? Good luck!

Awwwwwwww.
I'm sure you'll see her again someday.
If you move to England, we'll get drunk to help you forget lol.

You don't sound like your old enough to truly understand what love is. What she said to you sounds very twilightish. If you guys truly "love" each other like that you would be able to move out and do something about it. But you might be liek 15 or something

Considering you are living with your parents you are most likely under eightteen. I hate to say it, but I doubt you truly know what love is. This comes from experience, don't cry wolf every time you see an attractive nice person. You'll meet other people. And who knows? Maybe you'll move back one day and you two can actually be together and date. Still sucks though.

One month later...

"Today, the girl I love dumped me for another boy. One month ago, when we finally got together, I had to run away from home so that I could stay with her and wouldn't have to move off with my parents. They now live in Rome. FML"

Some of you people give really shitty advice. Isn't it obvious from his weak conception of love that OP can't be more than 16? I did that shit too when I was 16. I'd make out with a girl and think it was love. Every 16 year old does that, and it's all stupid.

It's not like they're longtime boyfriend/girlfriend. They're crushes who finally revealed their true feelings. That's all. This will disappear like a fart in the wind a few weeks after the move anyway.

If you're old enough to be in love, you're old enough to get your own place and job. Unless it's just infatuation....

Go with your parents. If this in indeed true love then you 2 will find each other later in life. If not then at least you will get some great goodbye sex.

#30... he said he's loved her for 2 years then finally made out with her. It's not like they kissed and "ZOMG I's in love!"

Sorry man, that really sucks.

if you're old enough, don't move!

#6 made me laugh. hey OP, if you have the urge to write about this later in life, you could always use #20's essay about your situation.

This happened to me 4 years ago. The only thing is i never got to tell the girl how i felt. At least you'll have the time together instead of moving halfway around the earth to wonder "what if"

aww you poor thing :( im so sorry, but i believe that everything happens for a reason...maybe something good will come out of this...maybe

Damn, that sucks.
But you can keep in touch, right?
I mean, if you really love her then distance shouldn't matter.
But I don't know all the details.

sounds like the perfect excuse to get your little guy wet

I've loved and lost and all that shit. It fuckin' sucks. I had the opportunity to change my life drastically to continue to be with her, and I didn't take that opportunity. I regretted it a lot at the time, and for a while afterwards. Now that I have a "clear head", do I still regret it? Hell yes. I love the life I have now and the people I have in it, but the "better to have loved and lost" maxim is 100% true.

Never give up on love, no matter the reason. If the love is right and good, it will change you more than any traveling ever could.

awwwwww :(

You have an amazing opportunity here. Don't blow it for a girl.

THATS SO HORRIBELEEEEEEE!!!!! T_T

#20, you're so dramatic

#2 that makes no sense

Wow #20. That was eloquent. I think that wins best and most helpful comment on here, lol. Brilliant ideas. I might just use some myself...

#30 stfu you have no idea what their relationship is like

Horribly shitty as it is, it sounds as if you're moving whether you like it or not. So think about what this girl means to you - if, as some claim, you're just in the I'm-a-teenager-in-love phase, then it won't take you too long to forget about her. If not, then whatever you do, make sure to keep up correspondence. Email, Facebook, even old-fashioned letters (they can be very romantic). If you ever lose the connection between the two of you, it'll be far harder to reestablish it when (if) you come back. Don't give up!

awww :( thats so sad!!
sorry. that sucks alot.

That sucks. It happens, and you don’t have to like it. Tennyson was the one who said the whole thing about it being better to have loved and lost, but the Tommy Lee Jones character probably had it right when he said in response, “try it” (yes, I just quoted “Men in Black”).
On the bright side, you can probably get some good making out done in the next two weeks.

Make good use of these two weeks!

Aah, I feel your pain. I found the love of my life and a month later I moved half way across the world. We may be at other ends of the world, but we are still together. We go through rough times like every couples, but I know we will last until we are of age to join eachother. I believe that if you two love eachother enough, it will work.

#30 I'm on your side.

awe=[

Don't say they're not in love. They could very well be 17, but that doesn't mean they're not in love. The OP says he's loved her for two years, and chances are he probably knew her before that. I think it's definitely possible to be young and in love if you know the person. Even if it's not exactly love at the moment, the relationship could definitely grow into love and now they might not have a shot at that.

OP, I'm very very sorry. I literally "aww"ed out loud. I couldn't imagine that ... ugh. I'm so sorry. I just have to agree with #51, and say make very good use of these last few weeks. Spend as much time as possible with her.

What have you been doing the past 2 years?

Love will always find a way.

Somebody say, "Awww..."

Good luck man.

:)

Long Distance relationships work. I'm in one. :)
Good luck!

ahh thats so bad, a really similar thing happened to me,this guy i like loved, is movie away, and we were gunna be together but now we cant, and its the worst feeling knowing that im not gunna be with him.

i completely disagree with #30, u dont kno that they are not in love, you dont kno their situation, i fell in love with a guy an im 16 and it wasnt cuz we hooked up or anything, it was more then that

That blows, seriously, one of the few fmls I've felt genuinely sorry for. I think people here have all got good points, but staying or going or making this long distance has to be your decision, I mean you're the only one who knows the details and really knows how you feel. And I know that long distance relationships almost never work out but I think me and my boyfriend are testimony that every now and then there's one that actually makes it. We've gone through a year and a half of being apart, with a much smaller distance mind, and it is ridiculously hard sometimes but for me it's been worth it. I'm not saying it will work for you but if you absolutely have to go and at the same time know you'll regret never trying to be in a relationship with her maybe it's worth a shot. Just a thought. Good luck, and I'm sure either way (whether you stay or go) you'll get something amazing out of the experience, or at least something valuable.

yeah this fml acually makes me sad, cuz ive been going through the same thing for the past week trying to figure stuff out, the problem with my guy is he doesnt like to give in to love, or show he cares to many people because hes ben hurt before.. but i really an sorry it can be really hard situation to deal with, i jsut think u should do w.e u can to be together if u feel like that..

dude i live abroad too, it sucks but it gets better

at least she will never forget him

That sucks really hard. As far as psychological testing has proven, for the vast majority of cases, absense does not make the heart grow fonder-- in fact, the opposite, "Out of sight, out of mind" seems to have been proven true far more times.

Of course, you guys might prove to be the exception.
Best of luck.

I agree with #8, but also kind of know where the OP is coming from. I might be moving 1,000 miles away in the summer. :/
I'm really, really sorry.

dude
bang her while you still have a chance

My sympathies. But you know, I agree with #20 and it sounds like they're speaking from experience. I am, too. If you want it to work from halfway 'round the earth, you can make it work. It's not going to be easy but if both of you really care, it can happen.

Plus, if you are a minor (and it sounds like you are) you can just move back to an American university in a couple years. Good luck to both of you.

Should have told her sooner.

Oh man this is one of those depressing FML's......I feel for you man........

My advice, fight for her if you can. But don't destroy your life over it. You can always return when your older.

this sucks but im gonna have to say move. i had a very similar thing happen to me where the guy im in love with and i finally figured out our feelings for each other right before i left for college. yeah i sucks that i never get to see him. but we still just talk regularly and keep up. if you're meant to be together, you'll see each other later in life and everything will work out.

wow,
story of my life.
forget the "if you love her let her go and she'll come back if its meant to be" bullshit
if you really love her, don't move.
trust me, LDR's are brutal

If you're in highschool (or younger...) then you'll get over it. Plus, you just started really dating her. Who's to say it would even work out?

That sucks.

I just told this girl I love her last week, and she told me she loves me too... And I'm moving out of the country in about 3-4 months to follow my dad... So yeah, sucks more for you. 2 weeks is not enough to do anything together :(
Oh well. Make sure you break it to her properly, and not make it too hard for her.

Hope everything works out for ya. :)

That is the saddest thing I've ever heard!!! :(

at least you wont be around for when she cheats on you

fuck...hope something works out for you man...

i feel sorry for you, but then again, you've liked her for two years and you didn't make an initiative which impacted her enough to confess her feelings to you earlier, so in a way you deserved it.

i'm with 30, you have an amazing opportunity here. take it! don't look back, and don't let infatuation stand in your way! plenty of fish in the sea.

I'm just going to say what everyone is thinking and if they're not they SHOULD be.

Yeah f'n right.

#74, his dad got the job
he didnt have a choice

Well thats just sad.
I wouldn't move if I was you. Even if you weren't 18, things can be worked out.
You could live with relatives or so. You should tell your parents how you feel about leaving.
If theres really no other way, I'm in a VERY GOOD relationship with my girlfriend since over 2 years, I live on the other side of the globe as well.
So it is possible, in my opinion the distance has brought us even closer. If its true love and you're meant to be with that person, there will be a way.

Good luck!

well u no what they say "love stinks" plus #2 u wrote a whole freakin essay lol i was to lazy to read it all i saw was gulf nd some other stuff but yeah im pretty sure u was right... maybe

67 & 77 - totally!

30 - true, but too practical for my tastes! :)

#20 You're absolutely right! ;D

aww thats so sad :( if ur old enough get a place of ur own or live with a close friend or family member.

damn. what heartless beings said "you deserved that one"? that's horrible. good luck

go live with her if you're old enough.

ok who are the asswipes that put u dderserved that f-ing jerks

Get married.

i do feel bad for OP and will say that since he's been in love for her for the last 2 years and it turns out that she fancies him after all, his life is indeed f***ed for right now. but i totally agree w #15 and #30 that you seem a bit young and and passing up this kickass opportunity with your parents for puppy love isn't the best of ideas. young kids are fickle. trust me.

#77, ur a dick.

when you guys are back together a few years from now, it'll be like a nice story, you having to leave right at the beginning. at least if you go now, there won't be any bad feelings since you two just started.

if she DOES start dating another guy while you're gone, what girl wouldnt drop the guy to get back with her highschool/college sweetheart that had to leave suddenly to the other side of the world against his will?

if i were you, though, i'd do everything i could to stay with her. stay at a relative's house, move out on my own, stay with a friends' family......... And if the relationship doesn't end up working out, just hop on a plane and go live with your parents! Few people get that opportunity after a breakup so it'd be great.

But all worst-case scenarios aside, I hope everything works out!!!

93: He does have a point though, you must admit.

At this point and time, there's 556 assholes that hit "you deserved it".

distance makes the heart grow fonder

8 and 13 had it right...

#2, obviously this guy has the same experience as you. OH NO

so does that mean that I can have her?

My guess is the people who say this dude doesn't understand love HAVE NEVER BEEN IN LOVE EITHER. so shut the fuck up you don't know the OP and his situation

grow up #100, this is the internet, not the fantasy world that you live in.

This one is just sad :( worst timing ever.

that's horrible.. you have really bad luck. :P

if you're over 18, you could choose to stay on your own which may or may not be a great idea. Otherwise, just suck it up and say goodbye. Just make sure to take her virginity with you. ;-)

If you have an aunt or an uncle stick around, your rents will most likely take you back if stuff goes south. I am assuming your under 18 btw. I am in my late 20's and people who tell you you are to young to know what love is are bitter about something or havent read any shakesphere so screw em. Explore your options cause there are always some(other family a close friends family etc) ...unless your like 12 ... then yea you are to young hahah

i'm still with the girl I liked when I was 14 and I'm now 20. So love has more to do with maturity than age.

I actually just cussed out loud when I read this...to me personally this is by far the story that most deserves a BIG FML...because I know exactly how horrible it feels!

But honestly if you actually truly do love each other then you'll make it...just move back as soon as you can...

I'm German, my husband is American...we met, spent 3 weeks together and then I had to go back to Germany...I didn't see him for 14 months...then I moved in with him and now we've been married for almost exactly 1 year...so it's definitely do-able if you truly have feelings for each other...

This isn't funny, it's depressing. I come to this site to laugh!

that's really sad ):

if you're young enough to have to move away with your parents, then it doesn't even matter.

that is quite tragic, i feel for you man

i'm so sad for you.
refuse to leave haha.
i dont even know what i would do.
im sorry!

omg, that is seriously so effing sad. you just have to keep in mind, if things are meant to be..they will work out. somehow, sometime, someway.

stay strong man.
:(

take her with you

#95: it's the principle of the matter. not whether or not he has a point.

Let her go. There's billions of girls out there and your new life on the other side of the world will give you much more value to your life than a female will.

that almost happened to me.
but then i stayed and now my family is on the other side of the globe.

i agree with #8.
you truly are perfect for this site.

AWWWW!!!!!! dude that sucks!!!!!!
Happened the other way around for me. Girl I liked moved like 50 miles away.

this is the biggest fml i have ever seen. it would suck to move so far away and not be able to see your friends ever again D:

Similar thing happened to me, i got with a girl who id liked for about 2/3 years, a month later she said she was moving to Devon (about 400 miles away). It's a shit feeling, i know how you feel.

#122, that's so sensitive and informative, rofl.

Hahaahahaha.

Also, this story really sucks. I feel bad for you.

this is the first fml that i actually thought was fml worthy. wow that's terrible. i feel bad for you

aww thats sad

Ouch. This is like... A dramatic movie when you find true love and you are forced apart. This blows. :( Sorry.

No offense man, but if you aren't old enough to handle responsibilities like living without your parents, then you probably aren't ready to handle the huge responsibility that comes with a true serious relationship where something like love is at stake.

knock her up

awww sucks. sorry to hear that=[

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Get a webcam and Skype/ooVoo/iChat, and video chat her!!
Best regards,
S

Oh my god im so sorry!
Lol... #129 though.. ehy not a bad idea

it appalls me how many people have said ridiculous things like "screw her while you're still here".

And love has no age. There is no definition for it. Each person's love is completely unique and should be cherished and respected.

I'm not going to offer advice, because this is your life to live and whatever response you make to this will work out in the end.
if it were me i'd scour the internet and enter every contest involving free airmiles, man. then you could visit.
my sympathies. best wishes from the interwebz for this hard time.

lol #129 has a point u could always leave a legacy on this part of the world (unknowingly) an make a new one on the other at half the price! :D but still man that really sucks now u just gotta pray she will look ugly in a few, gl to yah

#2 youre a dumbass
its not for the best...the same thing happened to me in Dec 07
next thing i knew, the girl was making out with another guy when a pic was put on facebook

i agree with #1. Wow, that realy fucking sucks, well u have mine and 35,488 other people's sympathy. I'm sorry, good luck

good.. now you can concentrate on other women..

Ouch. That's what happened to me once. Except I was 5. And I don't remember kissing anyone...

Oh the irony.
I loled :/. Aside from that, if she really meant everything she said, then although she said "enver leave my side" she'll understand where you're coming from.
If she doesn't...
Then...
Well, you have no choice now, do you?

Oh dude that sucks. These stories should make me laugh, but seeing this just makes me sad. I know the feeling, its crap leaving it all behind. But if you can get that girl, there's always someone who can be almost as good.
It not the cards you're given that make your life, just how you play them.

Oh man, that really sucks. I'm sorry :(

that really sucks. awwww :[

Holy shizz yo. That really blows.
Here's your options.
1. If you're not old enough to live away from your parents then you must go with them. If this is the case; at your age love isn't really that true anyways. Even if you feel passionately about it at the moment. Trust me. I've been there.
2. You go with them (no matter your age) andhave a long distance relationship. As in: no contact whatsoever. Maybe if you could fly back for the summer or whatever. However this would put a lot of strain on you and it wouldn't be too hard to stray from faithfullness, as horrible as that sounds.
3. You stay with her and a few weeks, a few months, a few years you might just break up. You can't predict if someone is a "God-made match" for you. This is definately worth the risk if you're matture enough to handle it, because for all you know, this could be your true love.

That's all I got for ya. Certainly hope you read this. *knods in respect* have a good life.

Everyone who said it wasn't a big deal is supremely disgusting. No matter what age, love feels the same (regardless of how long it lasts), and losing it feels just as shitty. Shame on you.

:( im sorry. That reeally suckss.

#144 WINS

No matter what age, love is ALWAYS worth trying.

And mistakes also happen at any age, so that's no excuse.

Take her with you :)

awwe. thatss sad. if feeeel badd =[

if it's true love, it shouldn't matter how far apart you are; things will work out ;)

#2 sucks.

Those of you who actually think this is love are incredibly stupid. It's quite obviously infatuation.

And even if it was love, the chance to venture to the remote corners of this planet far outshine it. Love ends, but the memories of travel and adventure will stay with a person permanently.

usually i dont like people who write essays on FML but #20 definitely is right. :) Good job #20!!!

I know how SHE feels... I've pretty much been in love with this girl for a year, and I JUST found out she may be moving accross the country. Fuck my life.

Dude, that's brutal. Good luck with, well, all of this.

dude... im so sorry... that might happen to me too that trust me. it hurts like no other. im really sorry i hope everything works out for you...

You have two weeks... Spend a lot of time horizontal and superimposed. (that is, if you can't picture what I'm talking about: fucking).
Find a nice girl in the country you're going to. Knock HER up (if you really feel you need to). Let's face it, if you want to escape child support, best not to knock up an american girl if you ever plan to come BACK.

And keep in touch with this girl... you never know what the future holds. You might end up dating her after college or something.

Bone the shit out of her as many times as you can for these next 2 weeks. I'm dead serious too.

Way to wait two years, dipshit.

aww i know how she must feel...
the love of my life is leaving in 7 months to join the marines.
good luck, but the stress just might be too much.
take it easy, and just see where things go.

My boyfriend and I had been dating for 4 years when I moved to Germany. It was hell then and we ended up breaking up. I tell you this now, Though I loved my boyfriend there is always another person. If not maybe you will meet up later down the road and have things rekindled. I had that happen and am happily with my boyfriend again. it however is too much strain to keep the relationship going over sea's especially with time differences. It hurts but it will heal. I feel sorry for the girl though.

dude that sucks thats terrible!! shit dude im sorry

OHMYGOD. i feel so bad for you ! i moved about 2 months ago .. i still havent made any friends

I'd say don't sweat it. There are over 3 BILLION females in the world. You'll find another one. You'll be fine.

To those who are saying that he's probably too young to understand what love is and won't be able to stay with her anyway because she was just a crush...

Okay, one: you don't actually know how old he is. Two:

When I first started high school, there was this guy two years above me, who I had a really huge crush on, but I didn't do anything about it because I had been through some things before that and I didn't really trust guys all that much.

A year later, I realized it wasn't just a silly crush when I got the urge to rip out his girlfriend's throat whenever I saw them together. I finally told him how I felt at the end of my sophomore year, and he told me he'd felt the same about me since the first time he met me, but I didn't seem interested in him. (I had made a point of ignoring him so I wouldn't have to face how I felt about him)

He dumped his girlfriend. I dumped my boyfriend. We started dating two weeks before he graduated. Had it not been for that, I probably would have never seen or spoken to him again. Five years later, we're still in love and still together.

i am SO sorry! if you guys really love each other it can work... that stinks about the two week notice.

that SUCKS
I am so sorry :(

Oh yeaaaah, #165, that's a sure sign of love. Wanting to go all Oedipus Rex on your crush's girlfriend. Yep, real sexy there.

haha... u got 2 weeks dude... hit it and quit it... easy route... best route... like a boss

awww, i'm so sorry for you guys :(
i wish you both good luck!!

hahaha sorry man, that is so my luck though. you almost have to laugh to keep from crying at that point. best of luck though.

omfg. awwwh, sweetie, thats horrible. move in with her.

movie in with her or try to keep in touch as much as possible and go to college near where she is

The people saying you need to move in with her are being stupid.
All relationships fail, until you find one that doesn't.
If you build a life around one person, you'd better marry them, because if the relationship fails, so is the foundation of the life you've built.

You never know who you are going to meet when you move!

Wow, Either the boss, or the parents are silly bastards.

Who can prepare oneself to "move to the other side of the globe" in only 2 weeks ?

I'm so sorry for you OP. Well, my fiancé is only 500 km but we cannot see each other very often, once a month, less sometimes. But it makes our love stronger, and I hope that with that much distance between you, it will be even more powerful.

I hope the girl will believe you didn't know you were moving too.

And I'm with #41 for the rest.

i feel like im the girl.
this guy i really care for and have been crazy about for two years is possibly moving because his step-dad could get a job super far away.

if its you and me, please tell me.
i'll ask you tonight.

yo man thats bull, tell your pops to piss off and stick around home

That sucks... it was rather inconsiderate of your parents to bring up moving without any warning.

:( I'm sorry. But I would leave & try to stay friends with the girl, if you move back & you two get together. But if you were to try and stay without your family, the relationship could end up not working out, and you would be heartbroken & alone.

Don't give up. I haven't even kissed my girlfriend of eight months yet - she moved back to America (I live in Australia) a week or two before we realised how we felt about each other. I'm not even going to see her til june next year. But hey, honestly. It's worth it for love. And if she really feels the same, she'll wait for you. Good luck (:

Trust me. Don't leave.
Find family or a friend to live with.
Just don't leave.

1. dont leave
2. run away
3. tell ur parents to not leave (tell them the story)
4. if its true love try it out. get a job, save money up and move in with her at 18 ^^

either way it sux bro i feel bad 4 ya

omg i'm so sorry for you!

honestly, if you two love each other as much as you say you do, you can make it through the long distance

I BELIEVE IN YOU!

Oh and to everyone who says 'this is stupid, he doesn't love her, he should move and forget her'. Well.

Yeah, staying would be a bad idea. It could really fuck up this person's (who says they're a he?) life. It COULD turn out that she doesn't love them, or that they don't love her.

But nobody can judge one's feelings other than that person. I'm only sixteen and I'm in love. And you can say what you want, but my girlfriend has stuck with me through a hardcore eating disorder, compulsive self harm, alcoholism and attempted suicide. And after that attempt failed I realised how amazing life actually could be, and that I didn't want to die - because I had her. Love saved my life. Think whatever you want to think; I know perfectly well I sound like something out of a bad teen romance novel, but, well. Those plots had to come from somewhere, didn't they?

Why can't the be in love? Come on, two years is a LONG time for a teenager to feel this strongly about one girl. Besides, they could be eighteen or nineteen and still financially reliant on their parents. I have friends in that situation.

And even if they are only sixteen or seventeen, don't be so quick to condemn someone else's relationship. Yeah, maybe you got hurt, maybe someone fucked you over or you fucked them over, but that doesn't mean it happens so everyone else. These guys aren't you.

Distance can be something really healthy in a relationship. Yes, my girlfriend and I don't get to experience physical contact - but from that we've grown a relationship based heavily on love and trust, not clouded by hormones. It means if we have to be apart for long periods in the future, we'll be better equipped to cope. It means she knows there's no pressure on her, sexually, because if I've survived two years without sex then I can survive another year or two.

Of course, there's downsides; not having ANY physical contact is hard, and it's awful seeing someone you love depressed and not being able to physically reassure them, or vice versa. And it's of course a problem that, not seeing each other every day, we don't ajust to small things, habits or mannerisms that might irritate the other person.

But I'm willing to ajust, and so is she. That's what love is about.

And I seriously suggest talking to your parents about this. I doubt you'll be able to stay - but if you explain the situation and make sure they know how long you've felt this way about her, that it's romantic and not just a physical thing, maybe they'll be able to work something out? Your dad might be able to go over there early and leave the rest of your family wherever you live for a couple of months. Or, maybe you could stay with a friend for that couple of months.

That way, you get to spend time with her, test the grounds, and find out if it's worth trying to sustain the relationship over that distance.

I mean, I know they're parents, but they're people too. They're in love and they've probably been in love with people before this, who didn't return it or who they lost, for whatever reasons.


Oh and everyone stop hating on #20, s/he has some brilliant points.

Also, stop telling OP to use it as an excuse to have sex with her. That's not how you treat the girl you love, and if OP really does love her, they'll know this.

wow....me too.....

All depends man. My fiancée is from Mexico and I'm from the UK. She's currently in France and I'm in London. We talk every single day for several hours via webcam and always try to see each other every now and then though once we spent five months apart. We're getting married this April and she's coming to live in London in September. What's my point!?
It can work out if you both want it to. All the best!!

ahhh im sorryyy! that soo sad!

#151 EXACTLY....the voice of reason

Damn. 2 weeks. That sucks.

Ahah. As if travels did not end. XD

I know why you call yourself frozen heart. ;)

aww sorry about that.

#20 and 185/186 said it best.
That's soo sad though! I really hope you two stay together. If I was in your situation I would be so heartbroken, I hope it all works out for you guys :(

Don't you have family you could live with? And DO NOT tell your parents that it's because of a girl... tell them you don't want to upset your schoolwork by leaving, or leave all your friends. Only tell them about the girl as a last resort. Parents see teenage relationships as being petty and meaningless, so if they know the only reason you want to stay is because of her, then they might not let you stay.

That sucks. I know how you feel though. :[[ Been there! Military life for ya.

thats no good son. if youre still living with your parents, i highly doubt you know what true love really is, but i feel for ya. and how fucked up is it that your dumbass father wouldnt discuss that shit with you in the first place?

and #20 can eat a dick.

happened to me..twice. if this is right, it's right. if it's not, have fun finding a girl on every continent.

do what Elvis did, take her with you.

dude that sucks so badly. i would hate to be that poor chick.

dude that actually sucks like fuck.. i say move in with her or stay with a mate, so you can still be with her

I'm guessing you're under 18, in which case this might just be infatuation, rather than love.

suckss
sorry dude

where you moving to??
lol
could be an exciting experience

it took 2 years for the chic to divulge her true feelings? wtf?

1,518 "you deserved that"'s
how the FUCK does he deserve that??!!?!

Aw man that sucks!

Aw man that sucks!

Dude, im so sorry to hear that. That really sucks!!

Yeah, that really sucks, but believe me, you're not alone. I've been with this guy for just under a year now and my parents only let me see him 4 times (naturally I did so without their permission a few times), but he lived over an hour away from me, and in Germany...

But this past Monday he moved to Georgia. Yeah. So now we've the Atlantic Ocean and over 2,000 miles apart.

I feel your pain.

man that totally blows. same thing happened to me eleven years ago minus the girl though. Parents said we're moving to the Philippines, lost all my friends and a sweet ass childhood. Then my parents ended up getting divorced while overseas... At least you don't have that going for you?

I'm sure it will be a good experience though, living overseas in a really new culture was really fun. hope for the best!

Sorry to hear. :(

How old are you? You don't have to go with them. If you're old enough, get your own place. If you're not, see if they'll let you stay with a local relative, aunt or uncle or something, cousin, grandparent, neighbor, friend, whatever. Moving sucks, especially if someone that important is involved.

Fuck that... fuck that game. whatever there are over 9000 girls in the world, go find another

LAWL #215... Yea dude, Sux4u. She shouldn't have waited so long to tell you how she felt! 'Spose you could move in with someone nearby.
- S.

That sucks. Try and find some other guardian to stay or.. stay at her parents house?? >

you're not too young to be in love. i'm still in love with the person i fell for when i was 14, seven years ago. it didn't work out and it never will, but there's something about a first love that doesn't go away. fight for it, man.

man... :( sry... but there are plenty of fishes in the sea...

get her pregnant

When it comes to love I really do believe that things happen for a reason. Best of luck (but congrats to your dad - it could be worse.)

DUDE!!!!
that suckssss

Just be glad your dad is employed.

Wrestler, shut the fuck up. One of a kind? Even reading this thread you can tell it's not one of a kind; dozens have admitted to facing similar situations in their lives.

You. along with 80% of the twats in this thread, are stuck in a cheesy romance movie. The Notebook isn't life, nor is it a good source of advice for life.

That's horrible. I'm so sorry.

Damn.


yeah, that's all I've got.
Damn.

ahh im soooo soo sorry.
i know exactly what you`re going through because im going through the exact same thing right now haha
i live in canada and he moved to africa cause of his dads job,, that was a year and 4 months ago. we`re still talking, and somehow managed to keep it going, and hes coming back soon. but it was really really hard, and i wish you the best for whatever you do! hope it works out!!

wow.....a real fml.
Depending on how old you are, you should consider staying where you are at now. If you're too young to do so, I'd say.. you'll have to move on.... or you can keep in contact with her until you're old enough to live on your own and see where it goes.

best of luck to you

Dang...that's rough...

I mean, it's certainly not as though you don't have any options in terms of how to work around this obstacle, but still...shit. I feel for you.

Dude, when i read that, i actually had an emotional reaction, which for me is rare. The girl i love has said she doesn't love me back. If i was lucky enough for her to change her mind, and then i had to move halfway around the globe, i literally don't think i could go on living.

wow, this is a real fyl...

I see Wrestler learned his high school vocabulary from playing on XBox Live...

I'd enjoy your time with her as much as you can. But I wouldn't close yourself off to all the things that a new place can offer you.

that honestly really sucks..
but im thinkin' everything happens for a reason w/this 1 there r plenty more fishes in the sea ;)

You friggin cry baby...

Find a new chick and quit being so sensitive.

You loved her for 2 years... and she has loved you for 1 day.... am I the only one who sees the disconnect?

get over it.

that really really really really really sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
like a lot. where are you moving to?

192, i bet you don't =) seeing as how i don't consider myself to have a frozen heart..it's just a cool name.

and yes, travels end, but people change and move on. i consider an opportunity to travel the world to be a bigger opportunity than staying behind for a chance at love. there are billions of people in the world, but when is the OP going to get a chance to move to the other side of the country like this? once you've settled down with someone it's a lot harder to just pick up and move whenever you feel like it.

awwww. i'm so sorry.

aww that really sucks:(

Long distance relationships can definitely work; it's certainly not easy, but doesn't every relationship have its challenges? Distance is another factor that you will have to learn to overcome with time, strength, and patience if you so choose to.
Visiting each other whenever you can will, of course, help as well.
#20 is absolutely amazing, and i agree with most of it.

that sucks :[

Awww, thats so sad :(

#1 he's obviously under 18 or this wouldn't be such a big deal.
yeah #242 is right.
sorry though. that does suck.
#207.. maybe by the fact that he waited two years =/ lawlsss

i feel the exact same way. my situation is a tiny bit different though.
i met a guy a few years back and after about a year i started having feelings for him.
last valentines day i invited him over to my house and after a romantic evening, i confessed my love for him, and he did the same. i was indescribably happy. so satisfied with my life. it was like all my problems disappeared that night.
then it hit me. i was moving to paris for university in three days.

but we've been keeping in touch and we've made plans to visit each other a few days every month. so far it's worked out pretty well. our love has never been stronger.

just hold on. keep in touch. it will work if you really want it. :)

LOL DAMN # 20 LEAVE AN ESSAY. sorry to hear that tell your parents about it and try to live on your own or with a family or close family friend near by.

hey,
ik how you feel
i live in china
i moved here from the states a year ago
it sucks for a while
but a lot of people pull off long distance relationships here
where are you moving to?

OH MY GOD I'M SO SORRY! IF YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TALK YOUR PARENTS OUT OF IT OR TAKE HER WITH YOU! I AM SOOOOOOOO SORRY. FIND A WAY TO MAKE IT WORK OR YOUR LIFE IS OFICIALLY F****D! =0

I really hope this works out for you. I hate things like this happening :(

Oh, My, God.
That, is fucked to the max bro, like
woooooowwwwwww
fuck your life

awwwwww dude thats not cool....

Wait, your moving into another country and you just found out two weeks earlier. I call BS because it doesnt really make sense.

OH MY GOD SCREW YOUR PARENTS AND STAY OVER AT HER HOUSE AND YOU CAN FUCK HER EVERY DAY

that sucks man

man.. i hope this ain't your first love...

Cuz if it is, love just isn't meant to be..

wish u the best of luck man.. tough shit.

That's so sad! I'm sorry :(

OHHH! Man do i know how that feels.

LA > India....its almost litterally....around the globe.

my god i would shoot my dad....

that is so sad

One of my best friends is getting married to the guy she started dating when she was 15. It's true that a lot of high school relationships don't last, but you shouldn't automatically assume that someone who is under 18 can't experience love but only infatuation.

seriously whoever says he cant be in love because he is too young wake up people fall in love at 16 everyday and get married to that person, stop being so pesimistic he may be in love have some sympathy

seriously whoever says he cant be in love because he is too young wake up people fall in love at 16 everyday and get married to that person, stop being so pesimistic he may be in love have some sympathy

find out what your girl wants and if she's willing to try an LDR (long distance rship) then go for it, if not she taint worth it hun!!!!!!!!!!!

Damn bro i feel bad for you, and if you live with your parents and
under 20 i would stay with them if your older then 20 then take a risk
if your sure shes right bro

Wow that suucks i kinda know how you feel.. but just saying a long distance relationship from across the globe might b a problem unless your dad like gets really rich and you can fly a lOT.

slightly depressing

=/ Gahh! Thats horrible. Hope she's alright with you leaving o.O .. If she gets very Emotional D; then think up of ways to stay! o.O I'm not the greatest at these.

Run away with her :D! ... That is if you have enuff monay O.o

Good Luck~

first FML that really touched me. although a lot of people say that a long distance relationship will just NOT WORK, i still say give it a shot and really put your heart into it. it's better than nothing.

talk to her a lot over the internet. write letters. send presents. get a webcam, so you guys can talk face to face. visit her at every opportunity. it'll require a lot of patience and dedication, but you've loved her for 2 years... why not longer?

good luck.

P.S. who are the 2,590 assholes who said "you deserved that one"? if i could, i'd punch every one of you in the face.

im sure the girl will understand. once u get to college, meet up with her again.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
fmylife.com makes me feel better about my life
so entertaining.

Tough break =[

Eh. Make it work. Me and my gf live a good distance apart. We have been together for over two years :3

Aww ... :o poor dude ..

time to say goodbye
to your parents

It's tough being a kid, isn't it?

Arnesh is that you? How's Canada?

#269 wicked comment I agree with that.

damn, man! if that happened to me, i'd run away and move in with the girl.

i say fml on the girlfriends part

i say fml on the girlfriends part

This is a FML for both parties.

jesus, that's horrible. i'm really sorry dude. :/

FUCKING SWEET NEW PUSSSY WOOOOOO YEAAA EXOTIC PUSSY CHOCOLATE LOVE!!!!!

I feel your pain.... similar thing happened to me. ;-;

awwwwwww im so sorry

thats suck dude...............o well there is always phone sex

neverending sleepovers for the win

no but when you make a pit stop ask to go to the bathroom and dart home and make love to her knock her up and be like yeah now i can never leave you

#269

#151 who the heck do you think you are to say he's not inlove??
he said he loves her for 2 years! who the hell r u to say the contrary?!?
u obvioulsy never been inlove

get her e-mail or get skype or gmail video chat...

Awh you poor thing.

wow that really sucks. hope you and your parents can work something out.

That's really sad dude.

awh, i feel really bad :( maybe you can stay with family or something..but that might hurt your parents. thats a fml indeed

dont feel bad, atleast she loves you. And if she really does love you and you really love her, then I'm sure you'll some how make it work. love is more then just being together and sex sex sex. there's something binding about it. And if your love is binded, then it will work.
or it won't work, and you'll move away and never see her again. because you'll find someone even greater than her.

Dang, That sucks.

this happend to me too! it sucks i feel your pain exapt he didnt know i loved him... he was my nieghbor and moved away 5 years ago he said he would come back i havnt seen him since. i hope you work something out i didnt and oh gawd i would give anything to tell him how i feel at least she told you!

Long distance works if you truly work at it, I have a friend who has one. He is on the East of Canada, she's on the West side of Canada. :) Save up money, and if you can, take a visit. If she loves you a lot, she should be able to understand your feelings of being apart from her too. Support each other, talk to each other often if things arise (Skype is great for that).

I agree with #15 if you're yound enough to have to move countries with your parents then its unlikely youre ready to "be with her forever" and if you tried it probably wouldnt work out.

dude dont worry about it.....there will be plenty of other girls out there!! plus i was with a girl for 2 years throughout junior and senior year of high school, and instead of going away to college and getting a scholarship for the sport ive played all my life, I stayed in town to be with her, and 5 months later she fucks some other guy and breaks up with me!! Worst decision ive ever made and i regret it everyday..... just move and find someone else!!!

man dude that sucks...really feel bad for you

i would fkin cry everyday 24/7 if i were you

oh wow... that's soo sad. i hope you at least fought about moving, and didn't go in silence.

okay it doesn't matter the age. if you're in love, you're in love. if you're not, you're not.
it doesn't matter if your 13 or 30. it happens.
my best friend is a year and a half younger than me, she's 14, and is madly in love with her boyfriend of 18. and he loves her too. they even are having physical relations and he's not leaving her. he's moving out of his house to be with her.

so don't tell me anything about too young to love.

If you have some family close to where you are living now and they are willing to let you move in with them then convince your parents to let you stay. But make sure you actually care about this girl enough to do this.

That's a bit heart breaking. :c
I hope it works out well for you...

screw all this destiny bs. there's not enough info for people to give good solid advice but never let people tell you that "if its supposed to happen... you will meet her later on in life." no. if you make it happen, it will happen. if you let "destiny" take care of it for you, you're giving up control over your own decisions.

personally, i would stick with the girl. analyze your thoughts with a sound mind. make sure you would be willing to take a bullet for her. really think long and hard. make sure its what you want and do whatever you need to accomplish your goal.

Maybe you should explain to you're parents that you can't

I can totally relate to this... Even though it seems bad @ first, It'll turn out so much better, trust me. =]

awe this made me want to cry...
i'm sorry hun.
:(

Geez, that sux. I feel your pain dude. ;(

Just reading this one makes me sad. FYL indeed. ):

Okay, wtf is with all these retards saying it's for the best?
It's not! It's because his dad was too fucking stupid to look for a job in his own damn city!
I fucking hate retard asshole prick fathers who drag their family away from everything they love for their own selfish reasons!
Goddamnit! Haven't you ever been in love?
Don't move with that prick!

I feel you pain boy, My girl left for the same reason... I think about her everyday. it still hurts. My teacher told me you shouldn't be sad that it ended, but be happy that it happened.

and I have to agree with Pissbomb (#314) I blame parents for not looking for work in the same city. I lived in the same city since I was born and I'm darn greatful of it. But I guess in your case it dosn't work that way for everyone. but it is what it is

-Billy

well. hopefully u move back:D

aww that's sad :[
depends how old u r for wat u shoudl doo
if you have to go, then go u can try and keep in contact tho
if she likes you enough she'll be fine witth that

AWW ! that rly sucks man

awwwww... i feel 4 u

Yes because it's just that easy to find employment in an economically ravaged city where you can't even find a minimum wage job, much less one to support a family.

It's a shitty situation, but I'd rather have a good job and have to move somewhere else than stay where I'm at and be unemployed/so underemployed that I could not support myself or my family. I'd rather it didn't come down to it at all, but if it did, I don't think any of you would actually stick around and be flat broke.

ouch for the girl. your life is so fucked.

Dude that stinks if u guys were in love u 2 will find eachother

That's just so damn sad. :/

Awwwww I feel for ya dude that sucks

:..(

Oh my god! This is horrible!! Like actual tear goin on here!! So sorry

Oh my god! Honey, I'm so sorry. I hope that soon you will be able to see her & be with her. That really sucks, but hopefully you can see her as much as possible. :]

how the new life? dude, reading this almost made me cry, i'm not even kidding. u finally found true love and then some circumstance outside ur control tears it up...damn...

u gotta move back soon!!! continue to love her like u have been for the past two years! if she's that passionate about u, then she should be no different. i'll cry for real if u move back and then see that she has a new bf...thats a major fml...

The people telling you to leave your gal for a "world trip" are idiots. It's not like now is the *only* time you'll ever be able to see the world. I'm *not* telling you this gal is forever, but I want to make sure you aren't thinking that this is the only time you'll ever get to "see the world" either. It isn't, if you really want to "see the world" you'll find a way.

If you're still dating seriously after two years, it's probably pretty serious. The average time span I've seen for a lot of people is dating for one year and then getting married (and these are "adults", though granted the divorce rate is pretty high.) No one can tell you if this is the one. Only you can. If you don't know, you don't know. And even if you know, does she know what she wants?

Anecdotal evidence is anecdotal...but I did end up marrying my high school sweetheart. We met his freshman year and were very good friends (best friends) for quite some time. We dated in our later years of high school and were engaged before he was 18. We're still completely in love (not to mention best friends) and it's been almost 10 years now.

Like I said, it's only anecdotal and only worth that much and of course there are plenty of stories that are the opposite of mine. But there you go.

I appologize for calling the aforementioned people "idiots". I'm used to posting on sites with looser rules and an audience that generally isn't offended by much.

I recant to say. "The people telling you to leave your gal for a "world trip" are not offering good advice in my opinion."

Again, apologies to everyone!

slap yo daddy and be like oye cabron were not moving

i feel you man
fyl, fml, i hate this kinda shit

IFFY. FYL.

Just remember that nothing can stop love dude.

i just found buried treasure.. ARGH!

Oh that's so sad. But if you really care about each other then you'll find a way to make it work even though it might not be easy.

You're fukk'd.

I've now read three of pal5017's comments and have officially concluded that he/she is very lonely.

wow...i come to FML to laugh a little
but this... wasn´t funny at all...
this actually made me sad... it really sucks..im sorry

I don't even know what to say...I guess i kind of know how it is, except I never got to meet the guy...So that makes you worse off and I'm really sorry to hear it...

Here's to all the people who say to take the experience; That it would be better than the heartbreak a few months or years later: It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Sure, travel is great. But it even more fun when you're with someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. And who are we to judge his capacity to love or even his judgment or taste in girls? I know how it feels to be doubted...and I hope that you prove all the people who posted negatively, wrong. Good luck..

Atleste you can say you've had a girlfriend :( I'm 15 FML

You know what, man-listen to your heart! If you always obey your parents, you'll regret it. Even if the relationship ends on a bad note, you'll learn from the experience. And that's what life is, a bunch of crazy opportunities, decisions, and experiences. So sit back and enjoy the ride, man. You never know where life might take you.
much

awww, ):

damn, dude. thats fucked up, i know the feeling of being without someone you really love. it sucks to find someone like that, and have to be away from them. but, i do believe that if you really do truely love eachother, then you guys will work things out. People say that long distant relationships dont work out, but hey. How do you know until you try? You dont have anything to lose, but a lot to gain. You guys can wait for eachother, and you still have the web and the phone. Sooooooooooooo do that until you can move back, besides im sure if you beg enough your parents will have to send you back sometimes for a visit ;D

dude! don't move! move in w/ a relative or a friend or a hobo. idc. don't leave her, she'll be crushed if she truly loves you.

awww like when i moved to China~

Total YDI by default if this person chose to leave her.
*wtf*... it's love... I sincerely hope he didn't leave. And if he did... SHE gets the FML.

I think this is fake. If not, sux for u

That's sad dude I feel for you

im so sorry thats really fucked up

get her pregnate so that she would always have a part of u with her

jk btw

Well that fucking sucks, i feel so bad for you..if i were in your place i'd probably refuse to leave, no matter what my age. I know what long distance relationships are like and if i had even the slightest chance of avoiding one i would..no matter what it made me or made me look like..but they are possible, im only 15 and i've managed a 3 year long, long distance relationship...and we wont be meeting for another 4 years to come...it's fucking hard but if you love her truely, it's possible :)

Still tho, i'd like threaten to kill myself if they tried to make me move lol, anything is better than moving away!

wow if that happened to me then i would rather die maybe cuz im the kind of guy that falls in love with a girl and devotes himself entirely and ends up obsessing over her *sigh* i feel you man.....not literally though...i have my boundaries lol...but if you could go back in time you should've told your parents and they wouldve understood and you could go be with her even though your parents are far away....at least your parents relationship with you wont be broken by long distance :D and i mean my parents are freakin control freaks but if i had to move away from the one i love then that would be the only time i would go against ANYTHING to be with her except cookies ^_^ i love cookies....especially Oreos...but err....yea...if both of you truely love each other then it could be done...hope your girl doesnt meet up with someone else that......yea better not think about that until its all too late and then you end up with the good ol' shotgun and blast the dude who's with your girl....just dont get carried away...DEATH IS NOT FUN! =_=

been there done that dude, my advice do whatever it takes to stay, i was 17 when i had to leave my ex in germany for a move to argentina, i can honestly say, it sucked n i'll always regret it

cry cry thats so sad omg that sucks

Wow I am so sorry.... what happened? Did you make the two weeks the most amazing you would together or did you make promises to eachother..? What happened?

i know it's kinda late to suggest this now, but you should have moved in with a friend or something.

Hey Everyone,
Thank you all for the sympathy (and whatever the other comments were). It's been a really long time since I looked at this, and it's nice talking about whats happening. I think the first important thing is my history with this girl.

This isn't the first time we dated. We went out for a year between 8th grade and Freshman year, before I did some stupid shit, and caused it to end. But throughout the next year, I never got over her. And I could tell neither could she. This year, only five days after our original anniversary, she spilled her heart out and we got back together. I may only be 17 now, but I've never been more sure of anything in my life. We've been going out for 5 months at this point and we've never been happier. Mostly because I haven't moved yet.

My dad has been chosen to be a diplomat in the Southeast Pacific, as he's currently working in the Administration. Because it took him a while to decide if it was truly best for our family, he wasn't able to be announced before the senate went on recess. Therefore, I won't be moving until January at the latest.

This girl and I have had many conversations on what the best thing for our relationship is. Friends on both sides have said that an open relationship or breaking up altogether would be the most "fair to both of us". I honestly don't think that's the truth though. One of my friends once told me that "If someone can make you feel happy and larger than life anytime you even think about them, what good is it to let them go so you can look for someone to take their place". She really does make me the happiest guy alive.

Because I'm entering my junior year, I still have two more years of high school. This girl has told me that since my school year will cause me to get our a year later than school here, she is willing to take a gap year in order to live with me in the country before going to a college together.

Who knows, a lot can happen in two years. I'm not sure if we'll be able to last, but why not try?

Thank you all for your advice, sympathy, and help through this rough time,

J.

that shit is bananas... b a n a n a s

Sorry dude that sucks! where are you moving maybe Sweden?? ;)

Dude that sucks! I was in America for a year as a fes and got in love with a girl that lives in the US. She goes to college now and I'm back home... this sucks

Love hurts. Choke on your tears and drown in your sorrow. Do you know how much I would give to be able to hold the girl I love? I would surrender anything, ANYTHING to come knocking at her door. I don't know what your problem is. You had two weeks to be in love. If I was given two weeks with the one I loved, I wouldn't care if I had to be burned alive at the end.
No longer the tender whispers dancing in your ears, huh.
Funny how people on this site know my pain better than my best friend.

Dude

Never heard of a long distance relationship? And don't bother saying they don't work; I'm in one and it works perfectly.
www.lovingfromadistance.com
Proof that they work and there are people there to help you out and give you advice.

mann i feel sorry for you, but aigh..take the girl with u? stay no matter what ur parents say? run away from home? do anything to stay, dont leave her alone. never.

You still live with your parents, and after one "brief make-out session" she asked you to never leave her side?

Grow up first, get some experience since you probably are like 16, which means for the past 2 years if you've been on this chick's proverbial dick than you probably have never had a girlfriend..... So....

Oh and if your over 18? quit crying and be happy for your father and get your own life started away from mommy's wings.

dude that happened to me too :( i feel for you. try to get your parent to let you go back for christmas or summer and tough it out the fest of the year. thats what i ended up doin.

omg wow!!! ): im so sorryyy

you're lucky, i've moved 12 times so far. because my lame parents dragged me around the world to.

and there is nothing as untrustworthy and fickle as teenage "love." you probably mean lust or obsession.

That sucks! Sorry to hear it. Long distance doesn't work either, really. FYL.

wow....im sorry. i thought i had it bad, but wow was i wrong. i hope it works out! :o]

oooooooooooooooooooo. I am sooo sry that sucks. that happened to me... i had to move away from my boyfriend. And I loved him sooo much :( Try and stay with a friend or move in with her :(

That was TRULY a FML. You obviously had something with this girl... Sorry to hear that man. *pat*
In related news, how do you feel about kidnapping her and taking her with you so that you will not leave her side?^^

Bryan Z has a point. Since you obviously must have moved I can only hope you two worked it out together. Young love, it makes you want to cry.

Aww thats messed up. I feel sorry for you.

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