Crazy bitch psycho who can't move the fuck on.

Grow up.

I agree with Number 1.

The brick wins right?

"Who can't move on"? No time had passed! They were still together! And the OP caught him in the act!

The brick is certainly a bit much, but I don't blame the OP for being hurt and upset about it.

Crazy Psycho Bitch Alert!
Seriously, YDI. Your ex boyfriend dodged a bullet there.

I agree.
It's a fuck his life. I dated a girl like you.. I still get teased about it.

so...you threw your brick through his car window when you thought he wasn't home... you actually thought his car would come home without him one day?

Lmfao. I think so.

in soviet Russia u don't throw brick, brick throws u!

he wont have to because his now ex-girlfriend might possibly be in jail for the next 3-5 years

If this were the bf posting this FML from his side, I would say YDI YDI YDI YDI YDI YDI YDI YDI YDI YDI!!

So no YDI 'cause it was the gf & she got arrested? sexist.... She deserves it.

Wow, you're not a sexist douche or anything...

Well, if your partner were sleeping around, it increases the probability of contracting an STI, which could then be given to you.

Plus, we girls are possessive. We don't like sharing. And having to have the guy divide their attention between you and at least one other girl makes you less special to them individually. Just another one of the bunch.

Just like guys don't like sharing their girls.

why do girls always post as "we" and share their opinions and ideas with us like all women do. not all women are possessive my girlfriend is really chill and that makes me want to stay with her. a lot of women on fml act like they are all the samea

wow...jesus
I can tell youve been hurt but maybe you should see some support groups or something. Resulting to murder isnt really the best idea. Obviously she didnt take it lying down but maybe if she didnt give hints of being a psycho bitch he wouldnt have been seeking other women. Just as men might seem as the worst kind of ppl to you there are some women that do the same shit...try not to put so much on gender. Everyone isnt the same.
if this doesnt alter your mind in the slightest way...be a lesbian and protect another female from being hurt by a man

I agree with #13 and #10 I really hope I never meet anyone like you. Seriously you sound unstable.

be a lesbian? are you serious, a) homosexuality is wrong and B) women shouldnt have to be protected from men

#29, A) You're a Fucktard, and B) I'm going to disagree out of spite just because of point A.

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A fucktard? you got me, case closed, well done, you win.

The dude shouldn't have cheated on you. If he wants you to respect him, he must respect you in return. The bastard got what he deserved. Hope he got some scars out of it.

Are you serious? There is nothing wrong with homosexuality. Sure, the comment about you becoming lesbian was uncalled for, but being gay is not a sin! It is not a crime, an abomination, the bringing of the apocalypse and whatnot. It is not a choice. It is simply something that about 3% of the population are, and live with.

And sometimes women do need to be protected from men. Thats why we have restraining orders.

This feminazi, er, feminist bitch replies on every thread involving crazy chicks doing something stupid. Jesus. What is wrong with you? Girls are not entitled to do something as fucking absurd as throwing a brick through the window just cause a guy is a cheating asshole. Being a woman gives you no special rights. Especially not the right to fuck with someone's property like that, that's uncalled for. A guy wouldn't retaliate like that on a cheating girlfriend, or at least I hope not. Eat shit, you feminists, that's not equality, that's you being a bitch because you think since you have tits you can get way with it. You want complete and total equality, then don't do stupid shit like this and maybe men will respect you more.

If the OP had done nothing, the guy would have looked like an asshole, and who knows, maybe she could have actually found someone better than him? Now she's ruined her chances of finding a guy anytime soon, cause nobody is going to want a crazy, impulsive bitch like that. Learn to control yourself and maybe your life won't suck so much. You deserve it a hundred times over.

If this was a Guy, you'd probably say "OMG you deserve it asshole" Being violent about relationships just mean you're crazy. How often do you see stories about guy's who broke people's car windows/vandalized due to being cheated on? Not often.

If it hadn't hit someone it would have been you cheering for her being bad ass. Yeah I think she is entitled to being pissed off. Her boyfriend cheated on her. Now he won't cheat. It's called a crime of passion. =). lol. She was just betrayed. I think if she had run faster we wouldn't be having this conversation. The only thing I can say is don't cheat and you won't have to worry about bricks of justice.

We seem to find them on the ground a lot these days. I've got some lying on the ground near the garden, actually.

They're not that hard to find.

XD

Half of the fun is planning the revenge and getting your friends and any of the boyfriend's (or girlfriend's) relatives in the mix. There is a good chance that he/she will still be emotionally attached to you and you can mess with his/her mental stability with some well-placed words, actions, and of course evidence.

Or you can do what the OP did and ruin the fun. You might as well have made a makeshift Molotov cocktail and set the car, the cheating bastard, and probably yourself on fire and rid us of this situation.

She threw a brick through his car window. At the very least, this is vandalism which is illegal. She specifically tried to do it while no one would see because she knew that it was the wrong thing to do. Yes, cheating is wrong and he is an asshole for doing it, but instead of just dumping his ass like a sane person would do, she resorted to violence. She deserves this because she cannot control her temper.

how did she deserve this? lol i think threads like this are handy for developing an internation "who to avoid dating" list. someone needs to get on that shit. haha

I know, right?

Really? You're saying that you can't believe they went to the police? She threw a fucking brick! There is no way that is right. I agree, cheating is completely wrong, but you don't go and throw a damn brick through someone's car. Obviously she has a screw loose and he realized that and wanted out. He probably tried to get out but she freaked out and he couldn't finish with the breakup because she went all psycho. Is that really that far fetched of an idea as to what happened? She threw a brick! It probably hurt them since they were in the car. Of course they are going to go to the police. For one thing it does cost money to fix that sorta thing. And another, they probably were injured in some way. She totally deserved this one for being a dumb bitch.

26, are you totally retarded or just mostly? They went to the police BECAUSE THERE WAS ASSAULT. That's against the law and carries jailtime, you total moron.

Uh...

It's quite possible that the guy just cheated on OP because he found another girl to his liking? It happens. 0.0 The brick was waaaay excessive, and they had every right to go to the police, but I don't think he cheated on her because she had a screw loose.

No... "Today, I was making out in the backseat with my new girlfriend. Things were going great. I was digging her and she was digging me. Suddenly, just as I was about to try and take it further, a fucking brick came flying at the damn windshield. Glass came showering down onto us. Apparently, my jealous CURRENT girlfriend mistakenly thought we were inside the house at the time."

Ex-boyfriend who cheated on her? I'm pretty sure a lot of the people who write FMLs leave certain details out. Ya know, the ones that make them look bad.

..

...ok whatever the only way to know for sure is to ask her now hmmm?

yeah what a PHYCHO

Just because you can spell doesn't make you smart, you feminazi. Stop polluting the internet with your bogus opinions. Nobody can possibly justify throwing a brick through a window unless they killed someone related to you. You're the psycho, you cunt.

That would be battery..this is assault which is just the threat of injury.. Also how do you know the other girl knew anything?

P.s. You and the op are crazy bitches

This FML is from *France*, idiot. You're referring to American legal terminology.

Super win.

That doesn't matter in this case. It's still assault whether she knew her boyfriend was there or not.

And the boyfriend who wanted all the barbie dolls on the playground? Cheating is not a good thing. Minus the brick, she was still hurt. Now he knows how it feels.

Agreed but maybe...she could have checked to see if anyone was in the car.

No man cheats. Well "men" cheat but a true man knows how to take care of a woman, and that means not taking care of several. This is not meant to be sexist. While bricks through windows seems like an odd way to show her anger, a better way would have been not to get caught but seriously, he's not going to cheat any time soon is he? A brick through your window and into your asshole head might just have been the wake up call that whore and he needed.

Wow, grow up. Calling me names is not going to make your penis grow any larger or get rid of your acne.

Did I say he deserved it? Nope, don't think I did. I said he should be ready to accept the consequences of his actions if he's going to cheat.

Maybe you should learn2read a little more clearly, unwedge the massive stick up your ass, and get a brain, dumbshit.

Hey, you know what else calling you names doesn't do? Apparently it doesn't make you realize how much of a dipshit you are. So the consequences of cheating involve getting a brick thrown at you? Please. That's like the saying the consequences of walking down the street involve getting run over. You deserve to be run over because you walk down the street. Sound irrational? Hm... I wonder why? You're an idiot, and maybe you should learn how to type correctly before telling someone to learn how to read. And you realize that you also called me a dumb shit, when you pointed out that calling names does nothing? Hypocrite. Good God, you are made of industrial strength stupid. You should have been aborted.

Oh, boo hoo. Write a novel about it.

How exactly did I type incorrectly? That's also hilarious, coming from the dumb fuck who can't understand a simple comment.
"That's like the saying the consequences of walking down the street involve getting run over. You deserve to be run over because you walk down the street."
YES, DUMB-ASS. A consequence of walking down the street is getting run over, it is NOT the same thing as deserving it. My lord, you need a brain. But I'm sick of explaining it to you, it's never going to sink into that thick lump of dough sitting in your head.

Oh, oh, I guess I should be offended because of your schoolyard insults that you throw at me in a desperate attempt to insult me and defend your intelligence (or lack thereof).
I should have been aborted, really? But leaving people like you in the world to dumb down the rest of us would be a much bigger punishment.

You are an idiot. Accept it. Every post I see from you is just a bunch of irrational bullshit with no logic to be based upon. Get over yourself.

Witchcraft is right, obviously you don't know what "consequence" means, nothingtogein.

Consequence:
1. Something that logically or naturally follows from an action or condition.
2. A result or effect of some previous occurrence.
3. An unpleasant result.
4. The relation between an effect and its cause.

She never said the guy deserved it. Accepting the consequences is a whole different thing. Stop calling people names when the only dipshit here is you.

Nothingtogein obviously can't understand cause and effect. Apparently, in his world, someone is a "dumb whore" for pointing out what action caused an effect.

One more example, since you don't seem to get it. Women used to be executed for having bastard children and not admitting it. Do they deserve it? No. Do they need to foresee and accept the consequences of their actions, whether they be rational or otherwise? Yeah.

If you cheat, you might receive bodily harm. It's frequent enough that someone could foresee it, but they choose to do it anyway. Is it acceptable to throw a brick at someone for cheating? Not really. But it happens, and it's common knowledge.

THANK YOU, Intoxicunt and Mushrooms. :]
You explained it perfectly!
Read their posts carefully, nothingtogein, and hopefully you'll get it.

Now, it's been explained every which way, understand yet?

THANK YOU, Intoxicunt and Mushrooms. :]
You explained it perfectly!
Read their posts carefully, nothingtogein, and hopefully you'll get it.

Now, it's been explained every which way, understand yet?

Before you jump down my throat for accidentally posting twice, nothingtogein, I'm having internet problems. :]

So am I, no worries. I think it's the site that's being weird.

My ladies, being witty again! In other countries people get stoned (mostly women) for cheating. And in the past women were subjugated. Was it right? No. Did people do it? Yes. So why do women who resort do something about being treated like shit get the crappy end of the deal? She wasn't trying to hit him, she was upset, understandably. I acknowledge it was not the best action. While admittedly it sucks to have shit thrown at you, think of it this way, the whore he was with got hit too so thus you can be happy knowing a woman got something thrown at her too. Kidding.

You cheat you hurt someone. And physical pain is a lot less than a sense of betrayal that will follow you for the rest of your life. And Op did get something bad happening to her, she got assault charged brought up against her. But she also stood up for herself. Now he knows not to cheat.

Agreed. Call her psychotic if you want, but I think immature applies more appropriately in this situation - she wasn't trying to hurt anyone, she just wanted to fuck up the dirtbag's car. She wasn't out for blood.

So you agree that destroying someone's property is acceptable because you can't maintain a relationship? Jesus witchcraft, you're dumber than I thought. Physical retaliation, like a brick through a window, or vandalism, isn't a logical consequence of cheating. Going into the situation, he wasn't thinking "Hm, my bat-shit crazy ex might throw a brick through my car window, but I'm gonna do this anyways." Who the hell would think of that as a possible consequence? Nobody with a rational mind would consider that a normal reaction to being cheated on. Being yelled at, sure. Being broken up with, of course. Having shit talked about you, definitely. Being assaulted or having your shit damaged? Hell no. And I'm fully aware of what a consequence is, thanks for the vocabulary lesson, assholes, but having your car trashed or having a brick, for fuck's sake, thrown at you isn't a normal occurence when you cheat on someone. Unless that's just something that I missed out on since I'm not a psycho cunt. Shit like that doesn't normally happen. So therefore, it's not really a consequence, if it doesn't normally happen, is it? Idiots.

So you agree that destroying someone's property is acceptable because you can't maintain a relationship? Jesus witchcraft, you're dumber than I thought. Physical retaliation, like a brick through a window, or vandalism, isn't a logical consequence of cheating. Going into the situation, he wasn't thinking "Hm, my bat-shit crazy ex might throw a brick through my car window, but I'm gonna do this anyways." Who the hell would think of that as a possible consequence? Nobody with a rational mind would consider that a normal reaction to being cheated on. Being yelled at, sure. Being broken up with, of course. Having shit talked about you, definitely. Being assaulted or having your shit damaged? Hell no. And I'm fully aware of what a consequence is, thanks for the vocabulary lesson, assholes, but having your car trashed or having a brick, for fuck's sake, thrown at you isn't a normal occurence when you cheat on someone. Unless that's just something that I missed out on since I'm not a psycho cunt. Shit like that doesn't normally happen. So therefore, it's not really a consequence, if it doesn't normally happen, is it? Idiots.

Did anyone say it was a NORMAL occurrence? A consequence is ANY result of ANY action. No one said it was logical, but he should have known that if he were to get caught that SOMETHING BAD would happen to him. Not necessarily a brick, but SOMETHING. I never said it was acceptable throw bricks or that he deserved one upside the skull, but that he should have known that there would be consequences of his actions. Shit happens. Cheaters could get their cars keyed, their tires slashed, their windows busted out with a baseball bat - all possible consequences.

I'm done with you.
You obviously have no brain to interpret what we were trying to say to you, and thus there's no point in my trying to explain any further. You've already had four people try to explain and describe it to you AND give examples, and you still don't understand. Obviously you lack the ability to learn.

Go ahead and reply to this and spew more of your idiotic bullshit, but I'm through with you. I'm not even going to bother to read the brainless crap you will continue to write. As it is I've only been skimming your brick-wall-looking paragraphs filled with illogical blather and mindless insults.

Haha, you make a huge attempt to sound smart but epicly fail when you don't even understand the simple point I'm making. So because 3 people agree with you, you're right? Good logic. Majority doesn't rule, I do, cause I'm not a fucking idiot like you. Plain and simple. Yeah, don't bother reading this, obviously you don't understand my point in the first place. Good job though. Enjoy life standing behind a counter.

I am going to reply because I think both sides are being taken out of context. Yes NothingToGein, it is not a normal circumstance to launch bricks at people. But how can you sit there and say the man cheating is Op's fault. She did not deserve to be cheated on. If she was being psycho before the brick part then why didn't Boyfriend break up with her. She must have had something going for her if he wanted to stay with her even while cheating.

The guy could have just broken up with her like a nice person would have. Sure the excitement of cheating is often a lure, but the fact he cheated on her should not be overlooked and makes the Boyfriend just as much a psycho as Op. Also Op did not mean to hurt someone, she got her punishment, she was brought up on assault charges.

Here is what we don't know. How long the relationship was? They could have been together for five years, which is long enough for them to be considered married to each other. Who the girl was? Perhaps she was younger or thinner than Op, or Op had a past with her (though this is unlikely due to the wording of the FML) or Op had hoped to marry Boyfriend. While it is not normal to throw bricks and destroy property, depending on how long Op was with the Boyfriend her whole way of life could have been destroyed. She has just had someone who loves her decide she is worthless. Yes I do not condone hurting other people in retaliation unless you were raped by them. But the Boyfriend has taken something far more valuable from Op than a broken window (unless he got scars on his face or has sever medical injuries--it was also someone who might not be able to throw hard). Her sense of self was destroyed. My mother spent ten years trying to deal with the distrust and depression that came from my father cheating on her. We do not know how long or how important Boyfriend is to her life. So while we understood your ranting NothingToGein you also don't take into context that both sides have been wronged here. Op will have a nice story to get pity from people and Op will be in prison or pay a fine. But Op also has to deal with the loss of someone she loved, the discrepancies now in her life. Perhaps this is the only time she has ever done something like this. And if not then Boyfriend should have broken up with her sooner. That would have gotten him a pity vote. But seeing how bad long term relationships destroyed by stupid cunts and pricks, I think Op did the right thing--while illegal-she was trying to stand up for herself. She just needs to learn more positive ways to do that.

EDIT: BOYFRIEND will have a nice story to get pity from people and Op will be in prison or pay a fine. But Op also has to deal with the loss of someone she loved, the discrepancies now in her life. Perhaps this is the only time she has ever done something like this. And if not then Boyfriend should have broken up with her sooner. That would have gotten him a pity vote. But seeing how bad long term relationships destroyed by stupid cunts and pricks, I think Op did the right thing--while illegal-she was trying to stand up for herself. She just needs to learn more positive ways to do that.

I never said she deserved to be cheated on, EVER. Your argument makes perfect sense, but let's just clarify that nowhere did I say she deserved to be cheated on. I said she's a bat shit crazy psycho cunt or something to that measure. Her boyfriend is a total douche'bag but, like I said before, throwing a brick is a bit much. About an eight on the crazy scale. Unless you are in a gang, play sports, or fight MMA, you really shouldn't have to go around day to day worrying about being injured. I've cheated and been cheated on. I never got my shit broken or destroyed, and I never retaliated when I was cheated on, even though I saw the guy who knew I was dating her every day during school. This girl took things way too far, thus she deserves any jail time, fees, or whatever comes her way. The dude doesn't deserve anything more than being slapped, broken up with, and yelled at, and kicked out of the place if they live together, which I doubt, since she said she drove to his house. More likely, it's a high school relationship gone wrong, and she took it way too damn far. I'd sue the bitch for all she was worth if that happened to me.

Then I don't think you understand. If you don't mind getting cheated on because you have no right to complain when you have done it to people, then how would you know what Op was going through. This might have been the love of her life. If anything you deserve a brick through your window for cheating. It's a prick move, you can't justify it just because you don't mind (or care very little).

"I've cheated and been cheated on."

Just because you've been cheated on does not make cheating okay. And if you were cheated on, and you knew how it felt, why would you do that to someone? Even if she did it first, be the bigger person. I'm not pretending to know your situation or your circumstances in which the cheating took place, but I just can't see ANY situation where cheating would be okay.

You're going around calling people names (I've seen you in several FMLs and you always seem to be attacking people for simple opinions, and calling them a ton of ridiculous and profane names), yet you're the douchebag cheater.

Yeah, it was a dick move, a few years ago. The relationship ended because of it. When I got cheated on, I was extremely pissed, cause I had treated that girl very well, and not cheated. Of course I was angry, about as much as my former girlfriend was when I did it to her. But nobody threw shit at anybody, because we were mature enough to handle it with a shred of decency. It doesn't matter how much you love them or not, you just don't break shit, especially someone else's stuff, to vent your anger. This is coming from someone who spends his free time punching people in the face and getting punched back. There's so much you can and want to do to someone who pissed you off that badly, but you just don't. Just cause I held myself back doesn't mean I didn't care. The bitch just needs to learn some discipline and self-control.

And, gummibhers, i cheated on one girlfriend, junior year, dated a different girl senior year, and then got cheated on, even though I was extremely good to her. I did deserve it, yeah, karma's a bitch, the whole lot. I was an asshole to my first girlfriend. But would I deserve a brick through my car window? No. Just like the girl who cheated on me doesn't deserve to have any of her shit destroyed, even though she acted like a total bitch. It's a stupid move, it sucks, it hurts, but ultimately you just end up screwing yourself over, no need for the victim to take things further, nomatter how they feel. I've been on both ends, like I said, and cheating doesn't warrant a criminal act. It's that simple.