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By tinderruinslives - 19/08/2016 21:41 - United States - Denver

Today I found out that my boyfriend still has Tinder and actively uses it. I guess it wouldn't be that bad... if I hadn't moved halfway across the country to live with him 3 months ago. Now I don't know whether to bring up the subject and get kicked out, or pretend like I don't know. FML
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If bringing up his actions will get you kicked out, then the relationship with you is not important to him. If you aren't important to him, then why be with him? You deserve better, OP.

For me, the main important thing is respect. If he doesn't respect you (and he doesn't) it's not worth it. Respect yourself first. That's what I've learned.

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If bringing up his actions will get you kicked out, then the relationship with you is not important to him. If you aren't important to him, then why be with him? You deserve better, OP.

For me, the main important thing is respect. If he doesn't respect you (and he doesn't) it's not worth it. Respect yourself first. That's what I've learned.

I was in a similar situation and I made my bf delete it in front of me along with whatever else he had on his phone that didn't need to be there

blackrose1996 11

Find a new place get it lined up then bring it up

Pretending you don't know just to avoid losing your home is not a healthy relationship. You can casually ask him about it. Be careful not to accuse him of anything. For all you know he uses it to talk to people when he gets bored. Or maybe he gave his account to his brother or friend.