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By never gunna happen anyway - 06/05/2016 07:23 - United States

Today, like everyday, twelve years and one marriage later I am still in love my female best friend... She knows it, but my husband and her boyfriend don't...fml
I agree, your life sucks 279
You deserved it 53

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How does she feel about you? I'd say it's now or never, you either embrace it and get with her or get over it :/

silverwolffox 8

Do you mean even making contact? Because from what is read it isn't even suggested that they are sneaking around the male partners backs. And a good friendship shouldn't be abandoned just because of such feelings.

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How does she feel about you? I'd say it's now or never, you either embrace it and get with her or get over it :/

insecurewife07 3

You suck. What you should do is stop seeing each other entirely. If you can't do that then leave you're spouse.

silverwolffox 8

Do you mean even making contact? Because from what is read it isn't even suggested that they are sneaking around the male partners backs. And a good friendship shouldn't be abandoned just because of such feelings.

Tell your husband. You don't have to tell her boyfriend, because that's her responsibility. But you owe your husband complete disclosure if nothing else. If you aren't going to act on it, and also love your husband, it will come down to whether he can accept that you also love someone else, and never told him, even if you never acted on it. If he can't, he has every right to a divorce, just like you would if the situation were reversed. If you never loved your husband, you've got bigger issues to own up to.