Today, 3 days before my wedding day, I found out that my fiance is sleeping with one of my bridesmaids. I just cancelled a $200,000 wedding. I would go into more detail, but I have to help my family (who flew in from Poland, California, and Massachusetts) book flights back home. FML

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That sucks. It really does. And he's a douche.



But seriously... $200,000?!?!

thats a major fml

Why would your bridesmaid do that to you?

That's soo major FML. ) :

i dont get it, they might as well stay the whole time, u can throw a fuck my life party

Aw, I'm so sorry! That sucks :(

At least you found out before the big day. Still, that's horrible! :( Hope things get better for you soon

omfg that's terrible.
it's ok, karma will come around and kick her in the ass soon enough.

Oh goodness hun, i'm so sorry! Better to find out now he's a cheater than later i guess. Good luck with life! Cause right now your life is pretty fucked... :(

aww that really sucks :(

you should make your bridesmaid and ex-groom pay for it alll !!!!

after you finished bitch slapping them both, of course!!

ahhhhfuck. :(

I feel terrible for you, but $200,000???

Karma can be cruel but is always fair. They'll get what they deserve, times two!

Wow. Make your cheating ex-fiance and slut-ass-bitch ex-bridesmaid ex-friend pay you back. What douche bags. Lying scum deserve each other... you can do better!

I like the way #6 thinks! I agree!!

make your fiance pay for all of that!

what a piece of shit.
make him pay.. literally!

I am really sorry, this is the worse thing that can happen for a bride to be. But do not despair, their are still plenty of good guys out there! I agree FML!!! Good luck with gathering the peaces of your broken heart, and getting a fresh start!!

WOwwwwww...this is one of the most digusting examples Ive seen. What a douche.

i agree with #6 throw a party dont let that money go to waste!

I'm so sorry =(

At least their reputations are ruined!

Damn, that really fucking sucks.
That stupid bridesmaid is a whore.

I feel so bad for you. Hopefully, things will look up for you.
Better now, then never I guess. Still, no one should ever have to go through with that, especially just days before the big day. Good luck.

use the ring to pay for some of it?

You should make him pay for everything. Asshole. At least you saved yourself from a marriage with a total jerk.

I agree with #1 and #11.
And I don't think $200,000 dollars is too much to spend on your wedding. Weddings are expensive. You have to pay for the venue, the photographer, the DJ, the dress, etc. It all gets very expensive.
I'm so sorry this happened to you. This sucks big time.

return everything, but keep the ring. throw the party anyways and have fun, then make him pay you back the $$. keep the ring. you never know when you'll need to pawn it off somewhere.

I am from Twitter, you might know me. I heard about the situation, I would have canceled the wedding too. I hope you will get refunded. How, would anyone feel if the guy they were going to marry had been going with the bridesmaid. I would be hurt, and I don't think I could go through with a wedding. Take as much time as you need. You may forgive him, but he's probably going to do it again, again, and again.

Well HOT DAMN, Fuck your life to the 100th degree! At least now you can throw a kickass bachleorette party with the leftovers.

$200,000?
If you were going to throw away that much you deserved it.

who in the right mind actually clicked "you deserved that"? how in ze hell?

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damn lady i feel so sorry for you. i'll kill that asshole for you

What a horrible, horrible experience. I am so so sorry to hear that, but glad that you found out before you tied the not. A lengthy divorce is much more than the wedding. I hope things get better.

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She was going to piss away $200,000 just to make herself and a few friends feel good when she could have just had a small wedding - that would have been just as magical - while there are starving people in the world.

I hope if she tries to throw a expensive wedding again the same thing will happen.

Just because she was going to spend 200K doesn't mean anything about her as a person- especially since it was clear that her family was going to be with her and were flying in from everywhere.

Seriously, this is a big fml.

Dude, you have a good point. That's a ridiculously expensive wedding and a huge waste of cash. She or her parents must be loaded to be able to throw that away.

Reminds me of a similar story only reversed rolls. I had a guy friend about to get married to this girl who I knew was up to no good, I told my friend about it and he didn't believe me at first but then became suspicious of her and hired a private eye. Well he ended up marrying her and at the reception he got up and said he wanted to make an announcement. He started off saying I would like to take this time to thank everyone for being here, especially his wife's parents and grandparents and all of their friends and family, and most importantly I would like to thank the father of the bride for paying for this elaborate wedding. So to thank all you for being here I got you all a gift. I would like all of you to reach under your chairs and remove the envelope that is taped under it, but do not open it until i say so. He then went on to talk about how he had hired a private eye and then asked everyone to open their envelope. In the envelope there were pictures of his wife and best man having sex, with a note that said see you with the lawyer tomorrow you cheating whore. He then said F*** all of you I'm out.

Yeah, I can think of a LOT of better ways to spend that money. Weddings should be about love and commitment, not pomp and circumstance.

I agree with everyone. A 200k wedding when kids in our country are starving and people in our communities have no homes is stupid. Your ex is a giant douche.

you could have the wedding then have a kid, cheat on him (make sure the kid is his though), divorce him and make him pay $$ child support ;] and $ for the wedding since he cheated on you in the first place <3 and for the ring.

#39 - what a way for a friend's "fml" to turn into a "fhl". that's pretty awesome.

Yeah I'd just throw another bachelorette party without Skanky McHobag the bridesmaid. Even better, a $200k bachelorette party!

@36
by your example, should we all feel bad that we live in homes and have beds to sleep in, and go starve ourselves?

or feel guilty when we spend $100 on something?

Poop, could you please think before you type a response? There's a difference between being comfortable and superfluously spending $200,000 on a single day.

$200K sounds like a lot, but think about the fact that she flew family in from California, Massachusetts and POLAND. The tickets for that alone could have easily been thousands (Tickets from Poland start at around $400-$500 a piece), and it shouldn't be selfish for the bride to want all her family there, if she paid for them to get there and their accommodations, it's even generous. Weddings are expensive now a days, and with the prices I mentioned before, there's no doubt it would be ridiculous. Just because she was having a $200K wedding doesn't mean she is a bad person and deserves what happened to her. A lot of people also assumed that because she spent $200K on a wedding she was spoiled, rich, deserved this, etc, but not one thought about the possibility that she could be rich and also donate large amounts to charity in addition to spending $200K on her wedding. It sounds like some people are just jealous that she can even have such a nice wedding so they make her out to be a bad person.

Sounds like a good case for litigation against the bridesmaid TBH.

That really sucks... you should have married him anyway, pretend you never found out... fake it for a little while... gather up the proof that he's cheatin and then divorced him. alimony. you're gonna wind up without him, you should at least make money from his ass-ness.

Sweetheart, you're a lot nicer than I would have been. I'd have gone through with the wedding, gathered proof of the affair over the course of a few months, and took every last dime his sorry ass ever made in the divorce.

I would spend 200k on my wedding, too. Anyhow, sucks to be you. Hope it all works out.

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i'm fairly sure 2 people would be drowning in their own blood via slit throat right now, if that were me.

and for #52....i've heard of this happening before. don't be such a cunt rag.

too sad to be funny =(

fuck it man, dont have a wedding just have a big family and friend party....unless you're too depressed....but i wouldn't let the money go to waste

You should've kept the wedding on and dumped his ass at the altar. Make him and that twat bridesmaid pay for what they did. If you're gonna lose $200k you might as well embarrass them and get something out of it.

Edit @#39: Fucking awesome. Fucking awesome man.

#56

It's unlikely that a judge would side with you if you already knew your fiance was cheating, and then proceeded with the wedding anyway.

Everyone who is trying to tell someone else how to spend their money needs to stfu. If you want to live in a country where you get zero say in how you earn and spend money, move to China 50 years ago. It is not fun.

why has anyone clicked on the "you deserved that one" button. are you people serious?
im so sorry. i hope your ex fiancee and ex bridesmaid get this given back to them ten fold. that is so degrading and horrible to put you through. i hope everything for you turns out to be absolutely wonderful and that friends and family are there to pick you back up and let you know that you deserve a million times better than that.

Yet another reason not to get married. But you totally deserve it for spending that money on that wedding.

Why do girls have to pay for weddings anyway?

Hey can anyone please answer my question: What does TSH and YDI stand for? Thanks!

yeah man! a $200,000 wedding gone to waste...what a BIG time FML..."all the men in the house"...FUCK the bridesmaid.

Yup, that one does suck. But here's something to make you feel better.

51% of all marriages end in divorce. The other half end in death.

So smile!

I read a true story about a similar situation. The groom was suspicious of the bride so he hired a private invesitgator months before the wedding. Turns out, she was sleeping with his best man. He kept his mouth shut and went thru the week of pre-wedding festivities, faking it. I forget how much her dad paid for this wedding but it was something crazy, anyways they said their vows and made it over to the reception where the groom took the mic to say a few words to his new bride. He started off thanking everyone for coming and said that he had a little gift to show his appreciation to them. He asked all the guests to reach under their seats and retrieve an envelope. It contained a photo of the bride screwing the best man. He then walked out of the reception and had the marriage annulled the next day.

Most epic fail of all. My condolences and I hope things truly work out for the best

sorry to hear that man - there is a better girl out there for you...

You know, I was feeling sorry for you until I realised you're the sort of hideous person that puts money above all else and still managed to brag to the rest of the world how rich you are while you're looking for sympathy.

I don't care how much you want to spend on your wedding but putting it in your post is just bragging, showing off and trying to make others feel bad. You deserve everything you get.

Bad luck, of course, but it could have been much worse.
Just imagin you discover that three days AFTER...

to #66- jealous? sounds like it to me.

If you need to pay $200.000,- to make your wedding work, imagine what it would've cost you to make the marriage work.

@66- Apparently you don't understand comedy. Or anything, probably. She put the 200,000 in there for EMPHASIS. Do I need to use smaller words, or do you understand? It wouldn't have been that big of a deal if the wedding was only 7000. And if you're saying something for EMPHASIS, you may as well say the truth. Notice how she said she had relatives coming in from poland? Also EMPHASIS. She didn't say that cause she's racist and wants everyone to know she's white. It's EMPHASIS. Do you understand now? Ohkay, that's a good boy!

It'd take many people a decade to earn what you were going to burn in a day.

Fuck YOUR life?

to all of you who are bashing this girl for having a $200,000 wedding......how do you know her parents and or grandparents weren't saving all that money her whole life so she could have an awesome wedding. people really do that so that their daughter can have the wedding of her dreams. plus at least she was putting that much money into an economy that blows AND giving work to people who i'm sure are otherwise slow business-wise right now.

That's a major FML! This guy's a rotten idiot!! Hope things get better for You now that You butt-kicked him...!

@#63: Yeah, we read that story too. It's located 30 posts before yours.

See the bright side... now uve got $200 000 to spend on a world wide trip!!! go on holidays!!

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHA!

Oh, and 75? I bet some of that is non-refundable.
Which makes me laugh harder.

After you're finished with everything, just send them the bill.

Who the fuck spends 200,000 on a wedding? And since you CAN spend that much on a wedding, should we feel that bad anyways? Life must have been hard having everything you wanted always.

Uh.... #41? Not "everyone" is saying the wedding's ridiculous. And it's really not.

To the OP, I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope your family is understanding of the whole thing.

$200,000?

i think it's best that this is off, even if it's in such horrible, hurtful circumstances.

kinda sounds like you guys were looking for a wedding, not a marriage.

$200,000?! I'll marry you for $200. :)

Don't get married man. Thats a one way road to intense failure.
She is going to fuck someone else somewhere along the road.

To all the commenters bitching about the 200 K wedding - well, it was not just "a" wedding for her, it was THE wedding, the first, last and one-and-only wedding she wanted to have during her life. She probably wanted it to be memorable, at the best restaurant or hotel, best clothes, food, limo, photographer and everything, plus she probably added the hotel and travel costs of all those relatives invited. Everybody is free to choose how to spend the money they have earned.

It's a sad story, granted. The guy is a complete dick for sleeping with the bridesmaid, however if you feel the need to mention the monetary losses arising, then he probably wasn't the one anyway, anyone who's lost their soulmate wouldn't think the money significant enough to mention imo.

Who are we to judge?

nie dobze = (

Wow seriously that's messed up. Wtf kind of bridesmaid is that. And they thought you'd never find out. I'm glad you found out now rather then later when you had kids it would be harder. Seriously be happy. He wasn't the right man for you and god was just trying to tell you that. Wow sorry and thibgs will get better

He still cheated on her no matter how much the wedding costs.
Everbody who says she deserved it is just jealous because she happens to have more money--that is not the focus of the story, it is just for emphasis. If that's how she wants to spend it then fine, but that does not mean that she deserved what happened to her. Are you all saying that she would not have deserved it if she had a small wedding that cost only a couple thousand? That is stupid.

Why would anyone say you deserved it?? If you want to spend $200,000 on a wedding, do it!

I hope your fiance and bridesmaid rot in hell.

I think the real crime is you were going to have a $200,000 wedding. Are you kidding me? How fucking ridiculous is that? People with their heads in the clouds sortof deserve the jerkoffs and two faced friends they get.

That's an excellent way to put it, #80. I couldn't agree more.

Aww i'm sorry :(

Wow, look at all the inconsiderate dickheads bashing her for having an expensive wedding. The wedding is very important to women, it's supposed to be the happiest day of their life, so yeah she wanted to have a big one. It's her right to do so, what gives any one of you assholes the right to tell her that she isn't allowed to have an extravagant wedding? Huge lol at all of you talking about starving children. Why do any of you have internet when that money could be used to help support the starving children? I seriously doubt any of you are donating funds or out there volunteering, so before talking shit about a woman who just wanted to have the happiest day of her life be the best it could possibly be maybe you should stop being such huge fucking hypocrites. Also lol at the person who said she was bragging. She stated it to emphasize how big an FML it really is for her.

That really sucks that that happened to you, hopefully you are able to get a refund for at least some of it.

you should have let him get it out of his system. or better yet, join in the fun get some 3-way going. ...

See, now THIS is a FML story. None of this lame arse high school "boy doesn't like me" crap drama.

This sucks. Groom's a complete arse, and I hope you take a piece out of him for us.

She should get together with Obama to put forward a new stimulus plan. It would appear that she can afford it. Sorry he cheated on you, but don't you think spending 200000 on a wedding is compensating for or masking some underlying problem? I've been to beautiful weddings with very happy couples that are equally memorable for a fraction of the cost. Bigger != Better.

#70 - Yeah, you're right. If she didn't spend all that money, it wouldn't have mattered if he cheated.

#93 - Yes, a woman's wedding day should be the happiest day of her life. But it shouldn't be due to all the money spent on it. Maybe I'm old-fashioned, but I always thought that the happiness should be because of the fact that two people who love each other are getting married?

A wedding shouldn't be about the money.

(And like I said before, there's a difference between living comfortably and throwing $200,000 away on one day.)

...personally i think it's great that your bridesmaid is willing to service your man. she can be of great leverage to your marriage. but then again...i am a mormon.

how many polish does it take to throw a $200,000 wedding?

A: none

On average, US couples spend $20,398 for their wedding. However, THE MAJORITY OF COUPLES spend between $15,299 and $25,498.

Throw a party using all the stuff from the reception with your family and friends that are there for the wedding. Call it a 'I'm single and fabulous shower'.

Sorry about that, love :( it's happened to some of us.

I don't think you should get an FML for having your $200,000 wedding canceled. Go buy a Ferrari...

Well maybe if you didn't spend $200,000 on your wedding your ex fiance wouldn't have cheated on you for spending all his money.

K-I-S-S
Keep
It
Simple
Stupid

I just realized how unclear my last post (#100) was. It was aimed at the people trying to say it wasn't expensive

Her wedding was kind of ridiculous... I still feel bad for her, though...

@#97 You aren't very bright. It's not the money that makes her happy, it's the experience. The higher price lets her have a better experience which includes not only joining her life together with the man she loves but also having her family and friends there to witness it and then also having a fun time about it. Stop acting like the money was the most important part to her, if that was the case then she wouldn't have cared much the wedding was canceled since she could still have had a party. Her fiance cheated on her, that's a FML. The money was to emphasize the FML. Finding out the love of your life plus having spent $200k for nothing is a much bigger FML than just finding out he was cheating by itself.

There is no difference between spending $200k in a day and living comfortably when you are going to be a hypocrite and call her out for it when you do nothing to help anyone yourself. It's still money that could help the children, plus you could be volunteering. Telling someone they are bad for spending their money that they have the right to do whatever they want with on their special day when there are starving children and better uses for it when you don't do shit to help those causes yourself makes you a hypocrite irregardless of the sum spent.

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Oops the last sentence of the first paragraph of my previous comment should have said "Finding out the love of your life is cheating on you plus having spent $200k for nothing is a much bigger FML than just finding out he was cheating by itself.". Didn't realize until it was too late to edit it.

Sorry #105? If it cost $175,000 to get her family there then it's understandable, but as her family didn't come from the moon I somehow doubt it.

If you're in love, and your family are all there, it's incomprehensable to me how a $200,000 wedding can be any better than a $25k or even $30k wedding (which to me is still excessive).

As I said before, she didn't deserve it at all - nobody does, I just think her priorities are fucked up.

Kocham cie ;)

Aww I'm sorry.. Also to all the people that say she deserved it.. It doesn't matter how much money you have or how you spend it, nobody deserves that. If she wants to spend 200000 on her wedding who are we to say anything about it. It's her choice. Also she could be an amazing person that donates to charity and whatever. You can't just be like she deserves it bc of this one thing bc we don't even know her..

awww...that sucks

:(

You might as well just marry him. A divorce would be a lot easier than canceling the wedding. Plus...alimony!!! :D

How come so many people are saying the bridesmaid, and only the bridesmaid, is a bitch? I have a hell of a lot more sympathy for her than for the groom. She's not the one about to get married to someone she's been lying to for God knows how long.

Thank you, #31 and #110! Even if we believe $200k is way too much for a wedding (and to be honest, I do), how about some compassion for someone who had something so traumatic happen to them? No amount of money is going to make up for that. The 443 people (as of when I wrote this) who said she deserved it are despicable.

#114, it's not that we think she deserved it it's that regular people don't give a shit about the problems the rich think they have in life. It's hard enough just getting by and these paris hilton whiny ass bitches think that they're important enough to waste $200k on in a day...people are starving and can't feed their families. Why should I care about this bitch's "happy day?" Where's my Ferrari and huge house? Where is my bailout? Where's my happy day? Wahh waah waah!!! The guy is a douchebag and the girl obviously a stuck up rich cunt with no concept of the value of $.

I love how everyone's like, "OMG that bridesmaid is terrible".

Not saying she's not, but hello! The fiance is that one who was getting married! Why does the woman always get blamed? The guy's just as much at fault, and he's the one who supposidly loved and wanted to get married with the OP. He's the one who should have to cover the costs!

hI. I found out yesterday that my fiance is ENGAGED to another woman, and I found this out because I went on weddingchannel.com, and put his name in, only to find HER name come up!! F MEN!!!

Major YDI for spending 100 times what should be spent on a wedding.

Who the fuck cares if she was going to have a 200,000 dollar wedding? I'd have one too if I could afford it. Her being cheated on by a huge douchebag is what the problem is here. And if you think she deserves that then obviously you need to go find yourself a fucking soul because apparently you don't have one. Some people have money and some don't. It's the way the world works. If you don't like it then go out there and do something about it instead of sitting on your ass and bitching on a freaking website.

<3 i'm sorry!

I think the problem is not necessarily just the guy, although he is a total asshole. The problem is also that women, in my experience, do not have any sort of "asshole detectors" when it comes to guys. I'm a guy and can detect a douchebag almost immediately, just by tone, body language, etc. If you went out with this guy for years then got engaged to him, then you can't be real bright. It takes me minutes to see if someone's an asshole, it takes women a breakup, cheating, or whatever. Why do you wait for his axctions to tell you there are many warning signs that a guy is a douche just like there are many sings a chick is a bitch even if she seems smoking hot or wicked nice, etc at first.

a $200,000 wedding? That's disgusting, honestly. That's the price of a decent home.

That's 4 times the annual income of the average family.

hey 103, usually, the woman's parents pay for the wedding. It probably wasn't his money. Moreover, had they married, it still wouldn't be mutual money wasted. In a marriage, legally, what each party brings into the marriage is their own, and what they earn together is mutual. and OP, I generally don't like prenups, but in this case, I hope you have one so you can recoup your losses. I'm sorry for you.

Look on the upside. At least you have the right to get married, for better or for worse. :)

obviously some people have never been married.
weddings are EXPENSIVE, and rightly so because its supposed to be the day that defines the rest of your days with your new love. my parents wedding was just as much.
you should make that whore bridesmaid and your ex fiance pay for all that. fuck them!

consider it this way. at least you aren't wasting your life with that looser.

how can anyone click on "you deserved that one"

i don't get how anyone would say that you deserved this.
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Haha this is stupid how everyone is complaining. Since when was it a rule that only lower and middle class people could post their FML...? I say if the people who rightfully earned this money want to have themselves a party for a day that's DEFINITELY a reason to celebrate, power to them, and if they can afford it in this economy they must be doing something smart that we aren't. You honestly have NO idea whatsoever that they don't donate a lot of the rest of their money to charity. They earned it, they can do whatever the hell they please with it. Nobody, absolutely nobody, deserves to be cheated on, especially not because they make more money than you.

Also, #115, your Ferrari and big house are just waiting for you to EARN them. :) So quit bitching.

Not every rich person was born into it. Money doesn't just magic itself into our wallets, obviously.

Wow. Well $200,000 is a good chunk of change. Fly out to Vegas with your BEST (and TRUE) friends and ENJOY THE SINGLE LIFE. Be thankful. God did you a favor. He was not the right man for you. Take your $200,000 and use it for good. Go enjoy your life. The REAL Mr. Right is waiting darling!

Lol #39 thats the oldest urban legend in the book!

But like everyone said...at least you found out before the wedding. $200,000 is a shitton, but its nothing compared to the money, time and heartache of a divorce. Pawn the ring and take yourself on vacation!

$200,000? Seriously? Are the wedding favors gold bars? How can you manage to waste that much?

I planned the wedding my dreams for $20,000 ... in a big, expensive city too. You probably are a bridezilla and he just couldn't stand you anymore. Big surprise.

I would've gone through with the wedding (at least half way) and dumped the ass at the alter.

What could you possibly spend $200,000 on anyways? Sounds like you are both materialistic pieces of crap. My wedding is coming up, and I'm cooking all the food for the 200 guests, asking for volunteer photographers, and if I have to spend more than $2000 on it total (including the dress), I will be in debt. So I don't feel sorry for you and your selfish life.

To be honest, I thought of the same thing #134 thought of. This story needs more details.

125> If your wedding is THE day that defines the rest of your life with your partner, something is very wrong. It should be about the build up of trust and commitment, not an ostentatious party.

136, My wedding is about the same price range, for the same number of guests. Don't worry, it is easy to get a location, and caterer for that.

Hopefully you will sue him for half, right?

aww this is so sad
that is a major FML !
im sry that happened to youu

Duuude, that sucks. Your former fiance' and bridesmaid are horrible. And hello, even if the poster is a bridezilla, no one deserves that.

#136 - Just because she has the money and you don't she is selfish? >.>
From the tone a good chunk of these comments have, I shouldn't go out to eat at Red Lobster because children are starving. Are you kidding me?! Some people can afford things and some people can't, it's life, build a bridge and get the fuck over it.
For the OP, I am sorry this happened to you. You definitely don't deserve it.

200k wedding? Good to see priorities in order.

Red Lobster = $200/day
Wedding= $200,000/day

Quit with the false analogies. It's two VERY separate things. All it points to is extremely poor money management skills. The #1 issue couples fight about is money, and I'm sure this ex-couple was well on the way to that fight, if they hadn't had it every step of the way to the altar already!

If you have to spend that kind of money to "have a picture perfect day", you're in for a rude wake-up call about the actual MARRIAGE part of being married! The wedding should be enjoyable and create lifelong memories, yes, but it simply does NOT cost $200,000 to have a wonderful wedding. At some point, they're just trying to buy happiness that they CLEARLY don't have.

Also, did it occur to any of you people that she found out three days before because her ex couldn't handle getting married to her so he let some details slip or flat out told her? Coincidence? I think not.

I can't believe people actually think she deserved this. You have no idea how this girl lives her life. She could be a way better person than all of you (and considering how callous all of you are being I don't think it would be hard). She just put 200K into an economy that seriously needs cash flow right now. This is what capatalism is people, you earn it you get to spend it; if this is what she wants to spend it on then who cares? We need more people that have the money to spend it like her. Just because she has money does not make her deserve less happiness.

I am so sorry for you...It sucks and that guy is a prick along with your whore of an (ex) friend.

My condolences. I know it's a trite comfort, but better to find out his infidelity now as opposed to when you have spent more of your life with him. No one deserves what happened to you, and I'm sure he's worse off for the loss of you.

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FAIL

i call bs, $200 000 isn't realistic for a wedding.

The venue, photographer, dress, etc. wouldn't cost more than $100 000 tops, and thats a REALLY expensive wedding... 200k my ass

better 3 days before than 3 years after...

$200,000? I'd go with the others and say you deserved to lose that much money, for wasting that much on a wedding in the first place.

So sorry this happened to you! I've heard of similar situations but the person then turned the wedding into a benefit. Why lose all that money? Still throw a fabulous party but ask for donations for a charity you support. They'll be stuck with the bad karma and you'll get all the good (times 2)!

Alright, its horrible that everyone is focusing on the price of her wedding. If she can afford it, great for her.
I'm so sorry about your wedding. Thats absolutely awful. :[

#155 (and others defending it). There's a difference between AFFORDING $200,000 and being so ostentatious that they feel the need to waste it on one day. Only a very small minority have been harsh enough to think she deserved it.

regardless whether the wedding cost 10K or 20x that amount, it still sucks to be in the position that she's in. i can't begin to fathom the stressing thoughts of something like that even happening a few days before my wedding day. either way, i suppose it's better to find out sooner than later.

good luck and hope things get better!

This is terrible, and I am incredibly sorry that those people would be so inconsiderate of your feelings and break your heart so badly.

I once saw a news story on women who had been scorned by their fiances (either by being left at the altar or by being hurt like you have been) who have their receptions anyway. They have a big party, invite all the people they care about, and show the men who hurt them that they are stronger without them.

It might make you feel better. I'm very sorry something like this happened to you.

KOCHAM POLSKE<333333333 =D
but that sucks.

polska krolojeeee!

Dude... you are short 200K and 2 worthless people... That means you are back on the market and a lot smarter...

make them pay back the deposit and donate the rest of the money

okay the money is not as important as what happened to her. and so what if its expensive, its her special day

who fucking cares about the money, if she has it to spend then go for it! better than people with tons of money who are cheap. anyway....he is a douche bag and so is the lil bridesmaid. fuuuck them

):

Awww im sorry, Im polish too andmy dad cheated on my mom and ditched her when she was conceived sooo i kind of feel your pain.

WTF....that guy is so horrid.

Fuck you... loved it!!!!

Who the hell spends 200k on a wedding? You could've bought a nice house for that! I spent $100 on my wedding, even though my parents were willing to pay for a fancy wedding. Why? Because spending a bunch of money for one day is stupid as hell.

It will come back and bite your ex and the bridesmaid in the ass one of these days. Karma is a bitch!

Sounds like an excessive wedding. Wouldnt have hurt so bad if u woulda swung by vegas

#157 We don't know whether she could afford it or whether she pulled out all of her own money. Either way, it's still a lot of money to lose, no matter how much you have. 200k doesn't just become worth as much as 10 bucks to us regular folk because the spender has a lot of money.

How long have you been with your fiance?

let this experience make you stronger

why have 1100 dumba$$es voted that she deserved this???

Fact is her friend was f*cking her fiance. That's 200k worth of bullshit right there.

I have a plan

I'll hold, You punch both bitches in the face.

At least you didn't marry the moron.

uh, SUE THEM?

if you're going to waste that much money on one day you may as well try to earn some of that money back!!!

Karma.. Karma.. Karma.. $200,000 might be a little steep but he will pay for it by the end of his days. Keep your head up though, plenty of fish in the sea ya know? F that guy

yea....i'm not sure i believe this...
if you had to run out and buy back tickets for your relatives and didn't have time for details, then you probably didn't have time for writing that in the first place.

OHMYGEE. that sucks. soo sorry.

some people have no heart...or brain

the fact that you took the time to record this event on this site is probably the reason he was cheating on you

at least you did it before you got married then after

okay children let's stop arguing over the amount of the wedding. weddings are more important to some people and they want to make sure it's perfect. there's no reason to judge. be mature and realize every one has the right to spend their money on what they want... besides look at the big picture... her life is fucked.

hey girl, i hope you dont let the bad comments get to ya, if they wanna concentrate on the money instead of the biggest FML smile and say: you POOR things, lol. i mean if they want to comare to the african slums for example, they (and I) would be the rich ones, hypocrisy cheers me up, cause it shows the true emty self,( and envious to boot). you must be so heat broken and dont give a shit about these comments (i so hope so) but if not, try to look at the bright side, hun, and be happy you didn't marry him, in adversity is when you know where your real friends are.

what woulda been epic is to somehow take a pic of them bumpin uglys and put it underneath all the chairs at the ceromony. then be like "ohh yeah, look underneath the chairs for your thank you gifts!!!"

maybe he was sleeping with her because she knows how to spell canceled right?

wow thats really screwed up. i thought my life was effed up.FYL :\ sorry

Oh man, that is so bad. F*** that guy for making you go through all this.

#190 needs to pull the stick out of her ass. Both spellings are accepted, the one she used is extremely common. Or it may even be a T-Y-P-O. Ever heard of it?

if ur getting a wedding that expensive, you should buy wedding insurance (yes they actually have that)

200k? Why would you spend so much? Jeez.

@190 - Or maybe she's British, jerk

@103 ....... if you read her parents paid for the wedding. dumbass.

Her finger just slipped and accidentally typed an extra '0'.

i am nearly crying for you. i am so sorry this happened to you. it is ridiculous how things like this happen to people who almost invariably do not deserve it. i hope that you find someone much, much better.
good luck!

# 39's is amazing...

that's so sad though! you def. didn't do ANYTHING to deserve that.
i hope things work out for the best though and you find someone who is WAY better than him. your ex and your bridesmaid are horrible. just remember karma... they'll get their payback :)

#39 is awesome! That's exactly what i was going to tell you! You totally should have done that. Humiliate them AND get your awesome party. Priceless.

Anyway, I'm sorry for you and hope you'll be ok soon. Don't worry, they'll have what they deserve.

Talk about sour grapes if I've ever seen any, calling somebody you don't even know a horrible person just because she spent $200,000 on her wedding. As long as it's rightfully her money, what's the big deal? Yes, there are kids starving all over this country. How is her spending money on her wedding taking away from these kids? And how many of you self-righteous posters are actually lifting a finger to help change that? I'm very much a socialist at heart, but this kind of jealousy is truly ridiculous.

And of course she will be devastated that the man she loved and was going to marry turned out to be a cheating manwhore with a woman who is obviously very special to her, being a bridesmaid. Having $200,000 at disposal for a wedding isn't going to change that.

You know, it's better you found out before than after.

I've heard people get married to cheating partners while everyone at the wedding but the person cheated on knows.

Sorry to hear that though.

holy cow.... what a d-bag

KILL THEMMMMMMM.

you have poor judgment skills, pick better friends next time.

Wow, if you were willing to spend $200,000 on a flippin wedding then HE is really lucky that he got out now! Just imagine how much money you'd suck out of him after the wedding.

Good for him!

Why does everyone assume she was spending his money?
And why is she automatically selfish because she can spend that much money.

People need to get over themselves. Just because you don't have money in this shit economy but she does is no reason to bitch at her.


Sorry to hear about your problems. :(
At least you didn't have to go through with it before finding out.

I agree with # 6 Throw a big giant FML party and get over the bastard! Buy a divorce cake with the groom laying a pool of Red frosting and stab him with a cocktail knife!!

What the fuck are you doing blowing that much on a wedding? Idiot.

My parents knew a family that spent $400,000 on a wedding.

I think $200,000 is over the top. I also think the ex-groom is douchetastic.

Rather before than after the wedding right? Haha, it sucks, but at least there's always a bright side... Or uh, Maybe a less dark side?

call him, and say fuck you asshole, you can have my fugly bridesmaid, when you marry her, i wont show up.

That sucks.


Who wastes $200,000 on a wedding?

200.000 dollars worth of Ben & Jerry's Cookie Dough-flavoured Ice Cream after that one.

lol @ 39.

at lest you found out before you married that fucking asshole. I hope you find someone much much better and he is stuck with getting off by crazy cat ladies who have STD's for the rest of his life.

$200,000? In this economy, with all of the mass firings and such, you were going to spend that much money on a _wedding_? I think that he chose the path of least resistance. I mean, if you were going to spend that much money on _one fucking day_, I don't even want to know about how much money you were planning on burning through for the rest of your married life! When my cousin got married, he paid for a well-decorated church, a reception hall with enough room to accommodate 300 people (50 of them being dirt poor people from Jamaica), a lavish spread with lobster and other delicacies, and he managed to keep costs under $75,000. For the record, _that_ wedding took place during the dot.com boom and 60% of the costs were incurred in flying the aforementioned Jamaican relatives to America.

He's an asshole squared (Asshole^2), but I shudder to think of what would have happened if he'd gone through with the proceedings. I'd bet in five years, we'd see a post from him that looks like this:

"After 5 years of marriage, my wife is leaving me for the lead singer from a Top of the Pops band. And she did it with a note, commenting that 'I spent too much time at work and not enough time at home with her.' If I hadn't walked into my bedroom and caught them in the act, I never would have been the wiser."

You both got off lucky.

Its important to know that you sill have options:

1. Make the brides made reschedule your family's flight, and let her have to hear what a cum dumpster she is from your family.

If she refuses . . .
2. You now have an angry mob to seck on the brides made. Assure family members that petty crimes such as vandalizing, heckling, etc., don't carry over from state to state.

And if you even cracked the slightest smile on the first two suggestions then . . .
3. Take me on your honeymoon trip!

okay seriously..she intended to spend $200k on a wedding because she could afford it.
leave the woman alone, clearly she is upset because her fiance was not faithful and THAT is the point of this fml.

the economy is in bad shape, we all know. and i understand that majority of people will want to hold onto their money in case of worse situations later. but spending money helps stimulate the economy so actually, her spending that much would probably benefit more anyway.

anyways i digress. i'm so sorry about what's happened:/

Erm... $200,000 for a wedding? You deserved that. I don't care how rich you are. You could always have put that money to better use.

atleast you didnt marry the asshole

Argh, rich people who spend so much on weddings...

Donate that to a third world country and they could build a school (or more) with it.

Oh well. At least you know that the guy wanted to marry you for your money, not for you. Good that you didn't marry him yet.

men like this shouldnt be allowed in the dating world. like scumbag hall of fame or something

this what FML is for

I would've married that bastard anyway and then divorce him and take away all his money :)

Wow some of you commenters are total f*cktards! Weddings are expensive. Don't bash her for that. Feel bad for her for what happened! I agree that her skanky bridesmaid should cover the costs. Sorry love :(

#227. Weddings are expensive, but weddings shouldn't be THAT expensive. A couple thousand dollars, tops.

a lot of times weddings can go upwards of 50k for a normal sized invite all the both families and all the friends. all because she was spending 200k does not mean she can afford to let it waste. maybe she saved a lot or maybe she was getting it out in a loan. if she was going to have several hundred people there then 200k i not hard to spend for a nice wedding. so all of you F*CKERS who are telling her she deserved are more then likely 80% males who are also cheating on their lovers right now.

Urban Legend. Fail.
I sincerely doubt that one of your very best friends, in full knowledge of how much the wedding costs, would mess about the 3 days before the wedding

Mankind is often soulless, but if that kind of person is what you call one of your best friends, thats the REAL FML.

I hope that he repays you for all the money that you put into the wedding.

what part of massachussetts

KILL THAT SLUT.

To the people saying $200,000 is too much... yeah, it's def a hell of a lot. But some people have MASSIVE families, and have the types of families where if they don't invite their cousin's wife's brother's grandma, along with every person they've ever met, then there's a massive shitstorm to pay. Or they're just super popular? Or they're paying for all the guests' flights, accomodation, etc? Can see how that'd add up. Just saying, don't judge, you don't know the full story.

Anyway. FYL to the highest degree! That's so horrible. Heart goes out to you. I hope you can get some good revenge on your ex-fiance and ex-friend.

sorry that is horrible but if you were spending that much money on the wedding id say you probably cared more about the wedding than you did the guy who cheated on you that is unless you have an abundance of money and 200k really isnt much for you then i withdraw my comment

wow.. ur a fucking idiot for making it that much money

you really let the ball drop on this one you idiot

its better that you found out b4 u got married ...woudv been alot more grief in the future ..so consider ur self semi lucky

That's awful :( I'm so sorry. I'm glad you found out before you got married, though.

God! That's terrible!
I was kinda born out of wedlock and my real dad kind of left before I was born, and this guy my mom was friends with stepped in and became my daddy. Little did she know that he enjoyed cheating. o.o ANYWAY. This kind of reminds me of when my mom and then-step-dad got married three years after my birth. A few days after their wedding, my step-dad's crazy ex-girlfriend broke into our house while we were gone and she set my mom's wedding dress on fire.

...kill his dog

#242. WTF? The dog didn't do anything wrong...

F that bastard!!! You don't need him! I agree with # 2, he's a freakin' douche for real! And that bridesmaid...drop her too! You deserve better than this. You found out about this in the nick of time. Heartache now is better than heartache later. Treat it as a blessing in disguise! Something/someone really special should be coming your way as a result of the grief/embarassment/hurt, etc., you have endured because of all this.

It is your fault if you chose a douchebag like this

Very sorry to hear about this, at least you found out before the wedding! That asshole doesn't deserve you, and you know it!

$200k on a wedding? Sorry luv, this is karma biting you in the ass for being so narcissistic.

Frankly, you had this coming when you spent $200 000 dollars on a needlessly lavish and decadent wedding. Anyone with that much money who throws it away so frivolously doesn't deserve it.

That does suck, but I agree a $200K wedding is CRAZY!

maybe he wanted to sleep with someone who wouldnt blow $200,000 on a WEDDING!!!!!!!! Damn I don't blame him!!! You're crazy!

$200,000? Believe me when I say you got off cheap. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but its best to find out now his true character.You could have wasted years on him trying to make it work. You can never get back the time you waste on someone. (oh how I know). If I could turn back time, I wish I had the courage you did to call it off. Be proud of your self. Repeat after me "I am women hear me roar". This will make you stronger and wiser.

wow...just fucking wow...i hope you bitched them out..and fucking DESTORYED that stupid bitch...why are women all loose sluts? (sorry to generalize..its just from my experience that i say it)

This has got to be the most epic FML ever.

You should slap that ho up. lmao

Dayums.....

My cousin just had a wedding for over $50,000. It was basically just in a catering hall in a nice town on Long Island.

I can see how flying in relatives, having a lot of guests, and paying for nice dresses could bring you up to $200,000. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

I'm very sorry for the pain you went through, OP. At least you saw his true nature before you tied the knot.

Why cancel? All men cheat, you now have control over him.

Spice it up.

omg!!!!
u poor thing...

Wow, what a D-Bag!

Need me to choke a bitch? That's. . . unthinkable how someone can do that.

are you going to keep the same bridesmaid when you eventually do get married?

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OP: you've been double-crossed by two of the people you should have been able to trust the most.
Tip: get over the anger as soon as you can - it'll poison your life otherwise. Don't replay the whole thing over and over in your mind. Just get to the point as quickly as you can where you can say: "yeah that happened to me - I guess I'm better off without him/them in my life."

To all those preaching about the cost of the wedding: consider that it is most likely that she personally didn't pay for this, but much more likely her parents/family did - and they have quite probably saved for decades, and/or even borrowed some, to be able to bring all the extended family together for such a wonderful celebration. If you want to forgo some of your own dreams and donate the money to third-world countries instead, no one here will stop you, but don't be so arrogant as to tell others how they should spend their money.

i am so sorry. i can't imagine how much pain you are in right now. be strong.

Try to claim back some of the money from that 200k that u spent for that wedding and I'll use it to throw the craziest party u have ever been

Holy crackwhore, was #168 the bridesmaid?

If #168 is, SHE IS A BITCH! Why in the name of fuck mcnuggets would you do that?!? SLUT!

have you thrown the conciquences of murder out the window curently?

For everyone that thinks weddings should be a couple thousand dollars, the average price for a wedding is around 40-80k USD. Not a couple thousand dollars.
If you have more money, it's fine to spend more on it.

All I have to say is: #93 and 110 are the smartest people here

No one here has the right to scold/persecute/ etc this woman for choosing to use her money that way. This post isn't even about the money. The fact is she got cheated on on the day that was supposed to be the happiest day of her life and that heartless pig and bitchy skank ruined it for her. Think about it: how would you feel if this happened to you? I'd like to see who wouldn't be affected by it.

good work my man

People, no one deserves to be cheated on just because they spent a lot on a wedding. Why are there so many more people here outraged at the cost of the wedding than at the despicable behaviour of the groom and bridesmaid?

some people are just so mean, she worked hard for her money, therefore its up to her to decide what she wants to spend it on. maybe she really liked the guy and wanted the day to be perfect.

anyways i am so sorry

#271. How do you know she worked hard for her money? For all you know, she was born into a rich family. And you can have a perfect wedding day without spending $200,000. Trust me.

Fuck the cheating, $200,000 on a (presumably) one day event?? I mean, your money and all but...

damn.

what a heartless bitch.

I fail to see how ANYONE deserves that...

im really sorry that stinks big time. u should make the both pay for the flights

what an asshole.

dude that sucks, i'm sorry.

but at the same time i wanna laugh at stuff here and that was definitely a downer.

Kill the bridesmaid and the husband. :)

Your slut ex-fiance and his slut bridesmaid girlfriend should pay for the flights.

wow.

good for you! I would make the ex-fiance pay for half and the whore pay for the other half, but you got the most out of this because at least you found out before you took the plunge.

that is terrible.... i agree with alot of the posts about the fact that at least you found out before completing everything.... im really sorry to hear that still.....

Your foot should be completely covered in steel, and should be connecting with the bridesmaid's, or better, your husband's rear end.

That's so gay!! He doesn't deserve you. What a fag. Kill the b*tch and the a-hole! At least you found out before you got married

wow! Im sooo sorry
POF! (Plenty of fish!) fuk him!
U shud not be embarrised like that

I agree with #6, Why book flights for your family to go back home? Have a huge ass party with your fam and then take all your gfs, except that bitch who slept with your fiance, and go on your honeymoon and have sex with a hot guy! You might as well make something good out of this situation. Then take his ring back and pawn it for a cute pair of new shoes!

200000$ rly?

#272 how do YOU know she was born into a rich family???


All WE know is that she can do whatever she wants with HER money.

and for all of those who said that that's too much money, guess what? she ALREADY spent it so DEAL with it .

the man whom she wanted to MARRY CHEATED on her with her BRIDESMAID that sucks!! so, stop talking about the money!!!

BTW i couldnt agree more with # 93, 105, 70. loved what u guys wrote

#286. But you should be embarrassed by your spelling. I'm just saying...

You deserve far more better, repo his things, repo her things, give them to the poor, be a robin hood....Gee so many ideas so little space.......kill em' . So so sorry to hear that. *bear hugs*

well, you know some people will say 200,000 is a lot of money and you deserve it. Well, it's supposed to be the best day of your LIFE. That's not pissing away anything!

#292. You shouldn't need that much money to make it the best day of your life. You're marrying the love of your life! It should already be the best day of your life! The dress, the flowers, the rings, and everything else are unnecessary.

This would be one of the hardest things in life to deal w ith.

that is lke the worst thing i have ever heard in my entire life...i would never talk to the ex husband or the bridesmade ever again and make them feel like crap

I find it amazing that over 7,000 people think this poor woman 'deserved it'.

Regardless of the amount of money, too many couples put too much emphasis on the one wedding day rather than investing in the all the days of being married that follow.

That said, my heart goes out to the unfortunate bride but better to find out now than later, possibly after having kids. Best of luck in finding someone who really loves you. When you do, bit of advice, elope to Vegas. ;)

i'm sorry to hear that bub
u don't deserve a man that would stoop that low

that really sucks!


but shit, $200,000? really? that's just crazy.

OMFG, WHAT THE HELL IS WITH PEOPLE AND INFIDELITY?!? cheating to me is one of the most repulsive, shameful things that can be done. I DONT GET IT. im very sorry for you T.T im at a loss for words, this makes me very sad. I hope you are doing okay, you WILL find someone who you deserve, and who will treat you right!

I feel really sorry for you, dear. I don't care if you spent 200k$ on this wedding, but I hope you will be at least able to get a refund out of sympathy from the companies.
I know you were too depressed to even do anything but I would have LOVED to see someone break his dick on the honeymoon if you actually fake it through.

What kind of f*cking bridesmaid is that?! She better freaking pay you back for ruining your life party. I would have stabbed a stilhetto heel into her eye for that. See how she likes getting f***ed in the eye.

wow, that is so lame..

you can get a good hitman for 200, 000

Cut his dick off!

WHAT THE FUCK MAN?! With one of your BRIDESMAIDS?! So fucked up

oh eem gee im so sorry thats bullshit. ugh he's a jerk you should set his house on fire.. while he's in it of course haha no joke. but yeah sorry about the wedding just think of it this way. thats 200,000 dollars back in your pocket.. i only got one word... shopping!!!

Stop judging. If she has $200,000 to spend on a wedding, it's her choice, not yours. Only shallow people think a dollar amount says anything about someone as a person.

And I agree, the ex-fiance and bridesmaid should pay for it!

This is why I don't understand spending so much on your wedding day, you could've bought a house or several times round the world trip with it. Imagine if you'd sunk $200k into the wedding that he would enjoy with the bridesmaid. Throw a big party for your family with the money, don't cancel it.

That is so wrong. It's basically an affair. You don't deserve this happening to you. Period.

What a slut, and what an asshole.
Pay back will be necessary now. Think, think, think!

LOL you got OWNED

what a slut atleast it wasnt with your cousin.(< that happened to my sister)

What's even more f*d up than that scenario is that you were going to spend $200G's on a freakin' wedding. But at least you found out BEFORE the vows.

Aww that sucks! Your ex is a twat XD

omg pain that sux

thats not funny...

He probably did that because you wanted to spend $200,000 on a wedding. That's your fault, i'm sure he had no part in planning a wedding for that kind of price.

At least it wasn't the groomsmen lol.

OK the whole $200,000 wedding thing needs to stop. This poor woman was just hurt brutally by her "best friend" and FIANCE. Sympathetic much? Also, those plane tickets cost a FORTUNE these days. I'm sure the price had to do with that. If she can afford a nice wedding, why not go all out? Whose to say they know this woman and that she doesn't donate tons to charity AND help out her family members in need?

To the OP: I am so, so sorry this happened to you. At least you found out BEFORE the wedding though. And a man who would do that to you doesn't deserve you, OR that back-stabbing bitch (which is saying something).
To all the people who say she deserved this: That is ridiculous. Nobody deverves to have two people they trust betray them like that, no matter how much money they spent on the wedding. Women want their wedding to be a special, once-in-a-lifetime thing. If she has the money, she can spend it however she wants! Also, like some people pointed out, she probably paid for her relatives coming too. You don't know how long she saved to get that money, or what exactly she used it for, so lay off already!!!
To #70: You are absolutely right about the emphasis thing! She didn't post how much it cost to brag people, she posted it so people would know just how special this wedding was to her, and how much of HER OWN MONEY she put into it!
And to all you people complaining about starving children: Come on, that has NO relevance. Her bridesmaid and fiance did not CHEAT ON HER because they were pissed that she didn't donate her wedding money to starving children, so WHY ARE YOU BITCHING?????

agree with #318, I think it is 'rich' that a lot of the people complaining about starving children and charities likely donate little to nothing. Not to mention, how is mentioning that her wedding was $200,000 bragging and made to feel others bad? Weddings are not cheap anymore, especially if you're bringing family in from around the world and likely paying for their accomodations as well as all the wedding festivities (eg. dress, wedding planner, venue, personalized cake, dinner, hired help/managment, transport, and honeymoon, etc). It gets very pricey, especially if you have large families! Get over youselves, clearly your the selfish one if your so self concious that you think this OP had a personal vendeta to make you feel bad. She just lost her fiance and best friend in one day because they both turned out to be ass holes. Money does not make the world go round, people do.

As for the poster, I hope karma gets those two scum bags back, it's better that you found out now rather than after you were married, I say take you honeymoon tickets and get outta here to clear your head and heal your heart. Happy Wishes.

That really sucks! FYL. He's a jerk and so is your bridesmaid.

Agree with #320 100%

what is the greater detial?

my God. people suck.

I am VERY sorry that happened :(

this is why i don't want to get married! people suck!

Your bridesmaid is a slut, your ex-fiances an entire man whore, and FYL
I'm sorry this happened to you.

Your life is fucked no doubt. But you brought this on yourself.

200K for a wedding? Seriously? Who are you, princess Diana? For that kind of money your (ex)fiance deserves a little bit on the side for putting up with your shit for as long as he has. Hell you could have bought a house, a college education for your kids, a car, or 200 prostitutes.

Oh sorry. If that were my wedding, both would be in the ER. I hope you find a ral guy next time.

Wow, FYL.

#39- that is a rumor from Snopes. Check out Snopes.com and search wedding.

FYL

FYL completely.


peopel need to fuck off with the $200G thing.

no she doesn't deserve that... fs no-one does

some of you twats need to sort out your brains.

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww :( im sooooooo sorry! They'll burn in hell! I wish i could beat him for up and kik her a$$. seriously.

Fuck that. Weddings are overrated

Damn.... I feel so bad for you, all that money, and telling your family.. :( Sorry to here.

Stfu about that starving children bullshit!! There will always be starving children in this country because spoiled rich bastards don't want to pay the amount of taxes they should be paying. That said, a 200K wedding is not going to make a tiny bit of difference about starving childrenwhat matters anyway is that she proly put a huge effort into planning a memorable wedding for her fiancé and he disrespected that by fucking the bridesmaid.

$200K! damn, u better find a more loyal guy nxt time...not to mention more loyal bridesmaids....

Why would you spend that much on a wedding? What a waste.

Have you ever considered proforma!? 200.000$ would save thousands of lives if given to charity... If you can't afford it, you DESERVE IT!!! And i can't say otherwise, 'cause there is no reason to spend a 4-5 years salary on 1 day of party-party... Not in a lifetime.

2nd comment. Love works in mysterious ways. If they were true to their hearts, it probably wouldn't have worked out anyways... If he was just about the sex, you should have known what you have gotten yourself into.

Frightening how many bridezillas are prepared to defend a $200k wedding ... are you all millionaires? Do you realize how many years you'll have to work to save that amount? And ... do you not realize that this was probably the reason why the groom was looking elsewhere - because his bride was prepared to blow 10-20 years of savings on a single day? Just so she'd have a designer cake, flowers flown-in from Italy, golden place mats and ice cubes with berries in them - you know the kind of stuff no-one remembers or notices anyway? The whole thing probably takes months or years of planning, during which everybody involved has an absolutely miserable time.

What do you think happens if you force a nice guy to throw away the fruits of his labor, or his inheritance, or condemn him to a live in poverty - just because you need to spend a day pretending to be a princess? What does this say to him - that you love him? Or that his life and his happiness have no meaning for you?

it is only 200k I make that in a day #340 is just a dumb pauper.

Why did you cancel it? What a waste. You should have at least heard him out. Probably getting some before he was confined to one woman forever.

Ha - # 341 makes $73,000,000 a year and still has time to post comments online...haha...right bill gates - Anyway - you didnt deserve that from your guy

if you got the money to spend, do it. i dont understand why people make such a big deal about spending that much. it was your wedding and you couldve done whatever the eff you wanted. fuck the people who have no money to spend and criticize people who can have whatever the fuck they want. sorry that happened to you. stay strong. but fyl.

LOL, throw a FML party? Ahaha that's pretty cool, ensure I get an invite..

That sucks...FYL

A/S/L?

200k on a wedding? Your fiancee probably paid for it all. And that's probably the only reason you would marry him, considering he slept with your best friend.

Fuck those who said you deserved this. She earns it, she spends it the way she wants. It's her choice how she wants to waste her money. & it was for her wedding, ONCE IN A LIFETIME. Those bashing at her couldn't even bother to lift a finger to do shit helping the society. So fuck the amount of money spent on the wedding, point is, SHE GOT CHEATED, by the one she loved & her best friend. How fucked up is that?!

You deserve so much better. I bet karma's catching up on the douchebag & skanky cunt.

When two people love each other enough it doesn't matter how little you spend because all that matters is that you'll be together forever. 200,000 is just a way of showing off to other people for no reason... clearly she had poor judgment on both accounts.

She is a w****

Hes messed up. And more importantly your bridesmaid is reaaaalllllllllllyyyyyyyyyyyyyy messed up. But $200,000

Maybe it's because you're in New Jersey.

get a gun...shoot him

That's so fucked!

lmmfao. Honey, mike d isn't a loser. You are.

$200K!? That's more than twenty times my annual income (on disability welfare in my country for several reasons)-- You lose. And no, not because I'm jealous, but because you would have been wasting all that money on just one single day in your life, particularly given the percentage of marriages that fail and that you might not have wanted to remember it later - as, indeed, has happened.

You don't deserve to be cheated on, nobody does, but YDI on the wedding cancellation for spending such a disgustingly huge amount of money on THAT.

(Also, to those who are going on about some of us saying she should have donated money to charity and saying that we don't - not so true as you seem to think. I give as much as I can, even though I have very little. $200K is ridiculous for a wedding!)

Cheating is one of the shittiest things you can do to a person, so that blows. However, you could have fed 4000 starving African orphans for a year for the same cost as your fucking wedding. Way to be a perfect stereotype of the upper class.

she wasn't expecting to having to cancel her wedding cause her fiance was an ass and sleep with her so called best friend, and find out three days before her wedding... and she never asked any of you for the money for the wedding, so it's not your money that was spent on this wedding... who knows, maybe she was one of those kids who dreams of her weddings, and saved every penny she had? so shut your yaps... and i bet if you had the money, you'd spend it on a wedding that was worth 200,000... and don't say you wouldn't, cause you all know you would.

but this is horrible ): you'll find somebody that won't do this to you... and same with best friend... you'll find a better best friend. (: fyl.

I agree with #359.. If I had been saving my money all my life.. I'm 17 now.. I'd have about 10K maybe? I'd spend 200K on a wedding if I did have the money for it.. My fiance says the limit is 30K we are saving now.. he says I might be able to spend more. IDK. I mean I feel sorry for the girl that's horrible. That's a f'd up best friend and soon to be husband...
I don't see why all of you people have to be so harsh to her.. Jeeze.
You know you'd spend money on a wedding like that if you could, hell I would too.
If you honestly look now a days.. buying a dress is a couple grand.. then you have to pay for your bridesmaids.. photographers you get one to two hundred photos for 1000? maybe less.. and you know your going to need more than that.. including your reception, i mean come on.. honestly think about it !
You shouldn't be so judgmental when you don't even know the poor girl.

that sucks

Wow.. your bridesmade is a bitch, how could she do that to you

i would go up to his door, get down on your knees, knock, and when he answers sucker punch him in the nuts and yell "You know why!!!" what a wanka! and your bridesmaid..WTF!! biatch!

OH NO! that really sucks! im so sorry! thats just terrible! i cant believe theres douchebags that click ydi! i'd go kick that bastard in the nuts!

who whatta bitch.

brdiemaids a bithc too.

awwww...well, at least you found out before the wedding. If you found out after you would hafta go through the long process of divorce :O

I think 200k is a bit of an exaggeration.
Either that or you're fucking insane to pay that much on a WEDDING.

Either way, what a cunt.

oh man no lie that is wicked terrible ....but on a postive note im from massachusetts! =D

oh man no lie that is wicked terrible ....but on a postive note im from massachusetts! =D

$200,000 for a wedding?WTF is wrong with you people?

frickk
i know its really bad, but i mean f*** that slut, she should go to hell, but i dont think u should've called off the wedding because she probably seduced ur fiance and he was probably nervous and didnt really know what to do? maybe you just lost the one true love of ur life because of a stupid slut.
you guys are getting married, means that you really really love him, and u just let a f***ing whore ruin ur life? i dont think so.

@376 im pretty sure the "slut" was a male judging by the OPs name and that the fiance slept with a bridesmaid

The people who say she deserved this are just jealous stupid fuckers. I bet you would have a 200k wedding if you could to, so quit trolling everybody

D:

Don't be so judgemental, it's her money she can do what she wants with it, it's none of your business. Also it is never okay to cheat and is one of the most horrible dirty sins on earth. Disgusting. FY freakin L

200,000 on a wedding? you could...idk...feed the homeless or buy like 20 cars. your ex fiance is a retard.

Wasting $200,000 that could really do some good in the world on something as trivial as a wedding seems to me a much greater sin than sexual infidelity. We all make our choices.

I can't afford a $10,000 wedding... FML? Cry me a river.

God im so sorry men suck :( youll find someone else on the bright side at least you found out now before you married the dumba**

YDI for having family in Poland, which means you are probably Polish.

who the fuck spends 200,000 on a wedding...but seriously FYL.

lol that sucks man.
and am from Poland to lol

@387: Ever been to Poland? probably not, they don't issue visas to douchebags. Besides Poles, German, Russians, Lithuanians, and American servicemembers live there, among other people.

Dupya!

OP: YDI for spending that much money on a wedding. The marriage is MUCH more important. Where are your values? 341 said it best.

Ouch, that is evil, Sorry...

#341 pretty much solved it. kudos

sorry for hearing that!but,wow,a $200,000 wedding!

threesome with the bridesmade and groom?

200K is ridiculous. Get a life. You are a spoiled brat, so you had it coming to you. Also, being from Poland, you won'tget everything you want on a silver platter here in the USA

Wait, so you are mad because your fiance cheated on you with a bridesmaid? That's what bridesmaids are for.

ok, sooo many people can't afford food or housing and you were gonna blow that much on a friggin one time party? I so do NOT feel sorry for you! You suck! But the guy definitely is a douche too!

look at the bright side

go spend that $200,000 on a new lambo
get a new b.f. too then drive past your exs house everyday with your new b.f. in the passenger seat,
honk the horn and flip the bird

fuck that asshole

- to all u quys bxtchinq about the ppl who r commentinq about the money u need 2 stop tryinq 2 say someonne is jealous b/c u dnt kno && wnt kno wat they r qoinq throuqh/feelinq. Money is an issue in this neway it does seem like she's braqqinq about the fact tht she had tht much money. in any case, the point is tht money is all ppl seem 2 think about these days. ppl r so materialistic && mostly think about their wants when in fact there are ppl who actually NEED the money tht these ppl r wastinq. && NO im not bashinq her 4 wantinq a nice weddinq, but a nice weddinq could b an intimate, SMALL weddinq w/ only family && friends (the ppl who actually mean somethinq special b/c with most weddinqs ppl r invitinq ppl they havent seen/tlkd 2 for aqes && r tryinq 2 look popular) spendinq LOADS of money on a weddinq means ur tryinq 2 impress other ppl so tht they will feed ur eqo so 2 those commentinq about the money 1. u dnt kno her reasons 4 spendinq all tht money && 2. if ur qoinq 2 comment about it dnt b rude && 2 those bxtchinq

- to all u quys bxtchinq about the ppl who r commentinq about the money u need 2 stop tryinq 2 say someonne is jealous b/c u dnt kno && wnt kno wat they r qoinq throuqh/feelinq. Money is an issue in this neway it does seem like she's braqqinq about the fact tht she had tht much money. in any case, the point is tht money is all ppl seem 2 think about these days. ppl r so materialistic && mostly think about their wants when in fact there are ppl who actually NEED the money tht these ppl r wastinq. && NO im not bashinq her 4 wantinq a nice weddinq, but a nice weddinq could b an intimate, SMALL weddinq w/ only family && friends (the ppl who actually mean somethinq special b/c with most weddinqs ppl r invitinq ppl they havent seen/tlkd 2 for aqes && r tryinq 2 look popular) spendinq LOADS of money on a weddinq means ur tryinq 2 impress other ppl so tht they will feed ur eqo so 2 those commentinq about the money 1. u dnt kno her reasons 4 spendinq all tht money && 2. if ur qoinq 2 comment about it dnt b rude && 2 those bxtchinq about they're comments 1. look @ it from the other side there are ppl who need tht kind of money 4 thinqs way more important than a weddinq 2. qet over urselves, just b/c ppl comment on the material thinqs doesnt mean they r jealous in reality u're probably jealous but wont admit it && 3. this is a friqqin website stop qettinq worked up over dumb iish EVERYONE is NOT qonna hav the same opinion as u so try lookinq at thinqs from other perspectives b/c it miqht help u out && 2 the person who wrote this sorry 4 ur troubles but i mean there had 2 b some type of siqn. . . but hey thts just me. ! qoodbye &&pls stop beinq petty over the internet it qets irritatinq (:

wow... i only fell asleep 3 times while reading 407.

@JaybbyDaRealest: Type English, please. And make sure you know the different between a 'g' and a 'q.' Jeezum crow.

- 1. thts how i type && im def. not chanqinq tht 4 some random person on fml && 2. im def. a female

- look Bucinka, i dnt type the way i type 2 impress neone im not one of those insecure dumbasses who needs someone's approval so 1. wen i need 2 type proper i will, 2. if u think im iqnorant b/c of the way i type thts ur problem NOT MINE idqaf about u & ur thouqhts b/c u tlkn biq over the INTERNET so yea i applaud u 4 beinq brave enouqh 2 b an asshole over the internet, 3. if u dnt like the way i type, IGNORE IT even tho im sure thts very hard 4 someone who wants 2 start shxt over the internet

as of now UR DISMISSED nethinq else u hav 2 say is irrelevant, so tlk all the shxt u want i'll b happy 2 iqnore u

Although the cheating part sucks, this is exactly why you don't spend $200,000 on a wedding- there is a 50% chance it will just end up in divorce anyway.

big fyl.. feel sorry for you..

If you could afford a $200 K wedding, then have a nice (VERY nice) $200 K party instead. They were all going to fly home eventually anyway, weren't they? Let them go when they were going to go. Enjoy the party, and just think -- you found out TODAY, and not NEXT WEEK. w00t!

what an asshole, i'm so sorry he did that to you! why couldn't he have told you sooner he wasn't happy with you, and waste his time in a marriage that wasn't successful before it ever started...

who cares about how much the wedding cost? yes I know it adds to the story but isn't "I canceled my wedding because my fiancé is sleeping with my bridesmaid and my family flew in from everywhere" enough? just feel sorry for her!

FYL! I do feel sorry. But still if I had that kind of money I would spend most of it on the honey moon.

I don't know how you deserved this, and it's his lost, cause any woman who is willing to spend $200,000 on a wedding, DAM.

Dam, 200k? You must catch the money blowing out of your parent's ass, maybe he didn't want to marry someone with money tree in her backyard...

major FML for real :/

that sux ass! sry major FML

Your biggest concern seems to be the fact that you spent $200,000 on a wedding you had to cancel, since that was a primary fact you just had to mention and not the fact that your ex soon to be husband, the supposed love of your life, really didn't care and screwed your friend behind your back.
YDI then since you obviously didn't care either. Tears.. Not.

To start, Mike D of the Beastie Boys is awesome, fyl, and Im Polish too!!

Czy mowisz po Polsku?

Power to the Poloks.

YDI for having a $200,000 wedding. Stuck up twat

wow what an ass and what a whore -__-
sorry D=

wow he's an asshole

YDI for planning a 200,000 dollar wedding. otherwise that sucks

he's a major asshole... as for the bridesmaid, disown her.

NEVER have sex with Italians ever again they are whores even if their men

they couldv'e spent the 200'000 dollars on getting the family there though

hope u paid someone to beat the shit out of him

Ok I feel bad for you, really I do. But spending 200,000 on one day is just dumb, really isen't 20,000 enough?

wow ur fiancé is a douch

awww thats just soo sad :(

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