Today, my girlfriend of over a year said she has been faking her orgasms since the first time we've had sex. FML
I agree, your life sucks (34276) - you totally deserved it (13249)
On 07/14/2009 at 2:19pm - intimacy - by guess28 (man) - Puerto Rico
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most of them do
#1 - On 07/14/2009 at 4:55pm by penecow290
Not true... its a communication problem if she can't tell you that she's not enjoying it. Or if she can't tell you what will get her off.
I never fake my orgasms, because if my bf's not pleasuring me the right way, I tell him. It's helpful to him, and feels fine with me.
OP, I feel sorry for you. Your gf just needs to tell you what she wants.
#33 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:19pm by Singularity
I fake when I come across a man like you, number 1. A man who doesnt have any care for a females orgasm. You're foreplay is probably Fart - and - roll - over.
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I'm replying to the first comment so my comment is at the top.
#81 - On 07/14/2009 at 6:27pm by Hammertym3
Thats the most hilarious comment ever, and sadly probably the most accurate.
#132 - On 07/14/2009 at 8:03pm by Goldfinch86
That's only because most women don't want to tell their partner he's doing it wrong and is a failure in bed. Maybe the girl is scared he'll leave, or maybe he will be so self-conscious he won't want to touch her anymore. Who knows? We don't have that information.
OP, have you tried clitoral stimulation? Not all women can get off on penetration alone. Research so you know what can get her off too.
My ex-gf did it all the time. When she fessed up to it about a year into our relationship, she said she continued to hide it because I had mentioned that it would be pretty hurtful if she ever faked. We had a big fight about her admitting to her faking and had make-up sex. A year after that, I found out she faked that time, and every time after that.
Trust me, I did everything I could do to please that girl.
Bing it??? Fuck that, Google is the only way to go, Bing is just a shitty rip off from microsoft.
#189 - On 07/15/2009 at 2:57am by boredworker
Dude. 93%? I know you didn't do that survey but my god. Maybe most guys just don't know how to pleasure a girl. That is not a good percentage. I mean, some guys think they can only give girls orgasms if they have sex. I think that many girls fake orgasms because the guy doesn't know what he's doing. Come on guys, think of the girl for once instead of yourself. Geez. :\
well as long as u orgasm 100% of teh time, who cares? lol
#212 - On 07/15/2009 at 11:23am by anasiansensation
I don't understand why people even do that. Why not just be honest and try to work on it?
Sorry about your luck.
Yeah it sounds like its more of a FHL -- Fuck Her Life.. If she can't tell him what she wants, its her loss.. Hes still getting off.
How's he supposed to fix it if he has no reason to think there's a problem? Why would anyone mix it up if what you're doing has her screaming?
He couldn't have done anything about it. She set herself up for it by not communicating, and she suffered for it.
It is her problem. He can't know what she feels, so it is up to her to communicate. The OP can't take responsibility for both of them.
#190 - On 07/15/2009 at 2:59am by Tubasaurus
lol im sorry about your luck.
at least she didnt break up with you so if she wants to try again you know to work on it. FYL
#7 - On 07/14/2009 at 4:59pm by whateverbro
This is why I'm fairly glad I'm not a girl as it's overly difficult to orgasm if you're a girl.
#8 - On 07/14/2009 at 4:59pm by divineinstrument
D: I feel your pain. It takes an impossible amount of work for me to have one, and even then, it's only been twice. I just wish my boyfriend didn't make me feel like something is wrong with me.
That's entirely dependent on the girl, and whether or not her partner gives a damn. It isn't difficult at all for me to orgasm, unless the guy I'm sleeping with is a TOTAL dud in bed. And I mean TERRIBLE. You have to be excruciatingly bad in bed to not give me an orgasm.
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wow, i know i'm gonna get alot of flaming comments, but i've never been higher then the 50th comment ;D
No! Why would I ever flame you? I'm happy for you!!!
Amazingly, being one of the first people to comment is kinda nice
#21 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:05pm by divineinstrument
If you wanna know, I've noticed that the site updates around 8:00 AM, 10, 12, 2 PM, 6, and I think 8 and 10 PM as well (eastern time). I'm not sure if its the same every day, but if you really wanna be earlyish try those times.
I myself don't care to be in the first few comments but I'll admit that being 200+ is lame if you wanna have a debate unless its a really active topic lol.
and you not being a girl would know that its difficult to orgasm if you are one?
#11 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:00pm by whateverbro
I understand that some people live the majority of their life in their parent's basement, but those of us that don't do things like communicate with our friends, often of *gasp* a different gender, learn through resources or relationships, etc. Sometimes we learn things about topics that may not be easy for us to learn about from these interactions. You should try it.
#95 - On 07/14/2009 at 6:48pm by bipolaradhdfml
generalizing that its difficult for all girls to orgasm is like saying that all girls like pink. how do you know that #8 has talked to a bunch of different girls about it. has he conducted a study that concluded that its hard for ALL girls to orgasm? has he found scientific research that proves this? bottom line, he doesnt know this.
#147 - On 07/14/2009 at 8:46pm by whateverbro
Yeah.. I don't like girls who lie about this, especially if sexual compatibility is a big issue. Sometimes it just doesn't work out between a pair.
Ask her what she needs or likes? Maybe you give it to her too hard or maybe you give it to her too soft? Or maybe you need to get more familiar with your tongue to her naughty bits ; )
Guess she didn't feel comfortable enough with you in the beginning and had to fake it. The sad thing is it's pretty easy to spot a fake female orgasm. You just need to pay attention more.
#14 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:01pm by xieh
unless you're a really good faker =). I think it depends on the girl cause I'm a girl and just take a really long time. If i really like a guy and he's making me feel really good, I don't care if I actually come cause it just takes too damn long, so I fake it so they'll know I'm still feelin good and not feel bad. I don't fake it if they don't earn a good faking =)
i say it isnt an FML because of how you phrased it. basically, you shouldve said that you either have a tiny pecker or are terrible at sex....or both. your life definitely does suck tho, i'll give u that much
#17 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:02pm by _THE_MASTER_
ok so you say it's not an FML. but then you say your life dOES suck though?. that's pretty much exactly the same thing buddy.
his life sux, but it isn't fucked. and if it is fucked, it never orgasms. ever.
#234 - On 07/17/2009 at 9:11am by _THE_MASTER_
I don't think that's nice, I think that's mean. The guy has the right to know.
I always tell my bf if I did or not, and then he knows what he's doing right or wrong.
#27 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:12pm by jadeddream
its not that big a deal, girls have a harder time of orgasming.. thats all their is to it..
#20 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:05pm by XxshybutsweetxX
Knowing that, guys should be more openminded about oral, instead of just assuming putting their dick in some new and exciting way will get their girl off this time... Honestly, I don't have have a problem having an orgasm outside of intercourse, but I've encountered guys who get offended to try something that doesn't involve their pleasure directly. I've never been of that selfish mentality.
most of them do. f-both of your lives since she can't be honest with you and since you can't give her a proper one.
if you're cute, we should meet up in Plaza ;)
#28 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:13pm by yep_me_again
OP: You sorta deserve it for not being able to tell she's faking, there are other indicators besides a woman screaming. However, FYL because a guy can be perfectly capable but still not being doing the "ideal" things for a particular woman.
GIRLS: Rather than fake it why don't you just speak the hell up and tell us what you like! You'll be doing a service to yourself, your guy, and any other woman your guy ever meets. Overall happiness worldwide would skyrocket!
Wow, you're a complete asshole. Most women can't orgasm through penetration alone -- and some can't orgasm from sex, regardless. You need to STFU.
#53 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:37pm by TheBicycleDay
huh? The guy above you makes complete and perfect sense! Aaaand, ladies and gentleman, something for which I'll get flamed: statistics are often a bunch of baloney. I believe the MAJORITY OF WOMEN CAN achieve climax through intercourse, it depends on what was BEFORE it, her state of mind, and hitting the right spots. That said, a lot of women don't explore themselves enough, don't communicate with their partners enough, whereas the partners might be quite lazy to please. Also, if the girl is in her teens, it might be she didn't yet fully mature (menstruation is far from meaning someone can fully enjoy intimacy). However, the topic of people-who-start-doing-things-before-being-really-informed-on-what-they-are-doing is another rant altogether.
No, the comment above you is right. Most women can't achieve an orgasm through penetration alone. I can't believe you guys think that is all it takes. We aren't BROKEN because you can't get us off. It doesn't mean we don't masturbate correctly, it means someone doesn't care enough to attend to a woman's needs in bed.
31 still has a very valid point. if what your man is doing isn't getting you off, it's up to you to say something, and/or do something about it. penetration doesn't do it for a lot of girls, but how is the guy supposed to know that if you don't tell him? i think most guys actually want to please the women they're with and are open to suggestion. give yourself a hand while he's doing his thing, that generally works. if the woman tells the man it's not working and he doesn't care, that's one thing. but men are not mind readers, and they don't respond to hints either. you must be DIRECT. you'd think us girls would have figured that out by now. speak the hell up or you are personally responsible for not getting off.
i realize some women have trouble, that's not what i'm talking about. i'm talking about the many who are unsatisfied and say absolutely nothing. that is nobody's fault but yours.
#108 - On 07/14/2009 at 7:20pm by fretforyerlatte
#91, it takes two to tango. If a woman just lays there during sex expecting her partner to do all of the work then it's her problem if she doesn't climax.
#191 - On 07/15/2009 at 3:06am by Tubasaurus
Argh, I don't enjoy going into details, but here it goes: I didn't mean they can reach climax through intercourse ALONE, of course adequate foreplay is included. But after that foreplay (which may include one or more clit. Os, why not?), so to speak "internal" Os can very often be achieved if the movements are adequate (takes self-exploration and communication). Not for ALL women, granted, but not as little as 30% in any case. And I am NOT a man. Also, what is annoying about the second comment in this row is calling the very civilized poster above (#31) an "asshole".
that's not so bad dude, they have a harder time, I think it's nice of her
#34 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:20pm by islaphippos
Awe.
That sucks.
Ask her what you're doing wrong, and how you can please her.
#36 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:21pm by midgetgerbil
At least she loves you enough to stay with you anyway :)
#38 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:23pm by soulmeetsbody522
What blokes seem to find hard understanding is the fact that most women do NOT orgasm through penetration alone! There are statistics out there; always in these articles and stuff. Do some research; I'm not sure on exact figures.
The reason we fake it is because you get so offended.
Personally i don't fake it though, cause that doesn't get me anywhere :P
I think it's less than 30% of women can orgasm from sex alone. Usually they need clitoral stimulation.
#60 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:51pm by fantasyflamz
Aw honey, most women do. It really isn't your fault, it's just extremely difficult for most women to reach orgasm during sex. So rather than make you feel bad, or get too badly chaffed, women will fake it.
The fact that she told you is a good thing! She's trying to be honest. Here's my recommendation: Get her to use a vibrator on "the man in the boat" while you have sex. It will give her enough stimulation to reach climax. Go forth and experiment!
Sounds like your girlfriend has her mouth sewn shut or something? She can't speak up and tell you what she likes, she'd prefer to have orgasmless sex for a year? Sounds like her life is fucked, and yours is perfect.... Women always think men are friggin mind readers.
#43 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:25pm by greengreta
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"Today i found out i suck at sex. FML" seriously stop approving these, they get old
It's fucked when girls do that shit. Even if they don't want to make the guy feel bad, or whatever else their 'good' intentions may be, I'd honestly feel a whole lot worse if my girlfriend had faked an orgasm, than if she just would have been truthful and told me she hadn't. Sigh.
#47 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:28pm by Megasadface
I don't fake but sometimes I wish I did. My boyfriend must be the opposite of you because he keeps bringing it up and calls me broken.
#49 is right on. EAT THAT PUSSY!!! Play her like a fiddle with your fingers and lick it like your ice cream is melting.
#51 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:33pm by notsodelighted
Next time why dont you "fake it" and "accidentally" slam it in her ass... then see what she says
#52 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:37pm by donkey_hang_down
I lol'd hard. And I've accidentally slammed it in the wrong hole a few times. Ok, more than a few times. Wasn't pleasant for either of us.
Im sure it wouldnt be the first time you did that.
#237 - On 07/17/2009 at 3:38pm by donkey_hang_down
most girls do have a harder time achieving a organism though almost all can if they find what works for them. unfortunately a lot don't want to put a guy through that so they fake it.
I was just gonna point that out too...ahaha the sentence is so much funnier when you read it as if they MEANT to write organism
okay.. you all sound really stupid. if a girl isnt getting off, and you know that she should, at least sometimes, its probably her. there are a lot of girls that just cant have O as easily as others. there is a shot they can get so they can enjoy sex more often. eating a girl out isnt going to make her have an O and more than she would durring sex. if shes not having them while your in her there is a good chance that she wont when your eating her.
good luck
Uh, no, it doesn't work like that. Have you ever talked to a girl?
#195 - On 07/15/2009 at 3:20am by kitkatkelly
Why do girls do that?!?! It is counterproductive to fake an orgasm. You are setting yourself up to be faking orgasms for a long time, an entire YEAR in the OPs gf's case. FYL If your g/f is old enough to have sex, she should be old enough to talk to you.
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Listen you insensitive jerk, the reason why I faked orgasms was because my ex would literally scream and yell at me when I didn't orgasm. I tried everything: I initiated sex, I tried to get him to do foreplay and I tried to tell him what I liked, but when I tried to tell him these things he only yelled at me all the more and you know fucking what? I got tired of getting blamed for not having an orgasm because he was a selfish, unloving prick who was unwilling to work with me to try and get us both off. So when you're faced with the choice of either having the guy be a fuck faced bastard who's upset at you for not getting off or faking it and having a pleasant time to be happy after having sex, what do YOU think girls will choose?!
Fuck this poor's girls life, not this OP's because if guys didn't have such EGO problems when it came to sex, girls would be able to discuss things a whole lot easier with them.
Do not generalize. It is rude and makes you seem ignorant. Perhaps you simply have bad choice in men? Some advice for you, the first time a man yells at you should be the last. From the meager information contained in the OP, we cannot tell whether or not the man is insensitive.
If you feel the need to fake it in order to not feel retribution, you are in a bad situation.
Okay my hubby yells at me sometimes, its not a big deal, I'm not gunna leave him for raising his voice. But I would leave him if I couldn't enjoy sex orgasm or not because he is throwing insults at me to save his ego. And he wasn't being an insensitive jerk, in fact the opposite, he is a nice guy thats not gunna freak out on you for not climaxing.
@118 it seems you had bigger problems than not orgasming. your choice in men sucks, you can blame nobody but yourself for putting up with it. its entirely your fault.
#153 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:06pm by organisedchaos
I didn't mean yelling as in arguing, I meant yelling as in 'YOU STUPID FUCKING BITCH I AM THE ORGASM KING DON'T YOU FUCKING TELL ME I CAN'T MAKE YOU CUM!'
I apologize for the vulgarity, just making a point.
If she fakes the orgasm, who's she hurting? You're still getting off, so you're satisfied, and she's making you think that she's satisfied too so you have no reason to do anything different. F *H* L, not FYL
#61 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:52pm by The_Truth84
4 to 5 hours is nuts. 10-30 minutes is great for me. This one girl said it was starting to hurt after 20 minutes (ex gf, but we still fuck), so I hurried to finish.
I hope you were kidding if it takes you 10 mins to make a sandwich WTF! lol.
There are lots of things people can do to build up to that moment but yes, I can fix me a motherfucking Dagwood sandwich in less than 10 mins and I love football, what an excellent day that sounds like
#172 - On 07/14/2009 at 11:32pm by waterynuggets
It's Gone in 60 Seconds, and you're not as clever as you think you are.
#196 - On 07/15/2009 at 3:25am by kitkatkelly
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suckaaaaa!! fuck it as long as you get yours!! haha
#64 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:54pm by jd0g07
Try not to look at it as a bad thing, at least she loves you/has enough respect for you to admit you that. Now try working on it!
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I would have been like suckaaaaa!! haha as long as you get yours right!?!? haha
#67 - On 07/14/2009 at 5:59pm by jd0g07
At least she told you. I think most women who fake probably don't tell their partner or we'd see more FMLs like this.
@14 I have no difficulties making chicks orgasm.
they go when I do.
it's a blessing I guess. lol
#70 - On 07/14/2009 at 6:05pm by whatido25
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well its pretty much f her life not yours It digusts me we try to please guys in bed and they don't even try to please us
If you cared about this person you would have at least tried to please her she is better off without your selfish ass
#78 - On 07/14/2009 at 6:26pm by MetalCraze
Jesus, all the bitter women have come out today. No pun intended.
#197 - On 07/15/2009 at 3:26am by kitkatkelly
come on.... she was the one faking the orgasm. As far as im concerned if she didn't get off its her own damn fault for not saying anything. Think about it, if she'd been faking orgasms ever since they started having sex how was he supposed to know he was doing something wrong?
Ladies, DONT EVER FAKE AN ORGASM! if you don't come, look at him with big sad eyes and tell him. Its actually the most deflating thing ever, and if he cares about you at all he'll do whatever he can to make sure the job is done.
What is the point of lying about it? It only hurts yourself. I personally tell my bf if he's not doing something right & I suggest things and techniques on how he can do it better. I love to orgasm and I def. wouldn't stay in a relationship for a year without ever orgasming and lying to my bf about it. pshhh...srry OP but your gf is an idiot.
That's actually good bc now you can talk to her about it and find out what youre doing wrong. Look at it as the glass is half full.
#86 - On 07/14/2009 at 6:41pm by FuzzyWalnuts
It's called the clitoris. Oh, and by the way, most women fake it because most of you men don't seem to care what is going on aside from your own business. I think it is hilarious when guys on here brag about being able to get a girl off - you have NO idea and I bet you get tons of fakes.
Girls who fake it are really stupid. Oh I'll show him; I'll deny myself pleasure!
#158 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:32pm by SirAwesome
Metalcraze you're a dumbfuck where did he say he never tried?? His girlfriend faked her orgasms, and she was obviously good enough at it to fool him. So as far as he was concerned, he WAS pleasing her.
So fuck you, you stupid assuming pompus bitch.
#89 - On 07/14/2009 at 6:44pm by FuzzyWalnuts
So what? If she's been faking, that's her problem. Besides, she is obviously a liar. She's either lying to you now about faking, or she's been lying to you all along by faking.
Either way, you shouldn't care. It's her problem... she has to figure out how to stop lying to you. It's not your responsibility to figure out what she wants.
In the meantime, just make sure you're getting yours.
As for the people who say "most women can't orgasm by penetration alone"... maybe they can't from YOUR penetration, but they women I've penetrated have enjoyed a greater than 90% orgasm rate. And it's easy to tell when they're not faking... when they have a real orgasm, their muscles tighten up in a way that they can't fake. And sometimes they pass out also. In other words, they lose control. Can't fake that.
For the women who claim they can't orgasm from being penetrated... yes you can. You just haven't done it yet. There's a big difference between something being impossible versus having it just not happen yet.
Keep working on it.
Ha, yeah--you and Freud, claiming that the "vaginal orgasm" is the only mature one. I have no idea if you've got the right anatomy or not, but if you're male like Freud, you don't know WTF you're talking about. :D
Actually, most women can NOT have an orgasm through penetration alone. If you do any sort of research on how to please a lady, you will find this. Women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm in most cases, so either your love handles are rubbing her the right way or you're finding women in the minority. :)
#141 - On 07/14/2009 at 8:25pm by caticaticati
You have a rate? Do you tally after each encounter? Lame. I stopped reading your post after seeing that.
#164 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:55pm by OperationNicole
Lot of angry women posting here... it's your anger that prevents you from having orgasms.
Let go of your anger and you'll be much happier, and less frustrated. Unless you're lesbians... then just do whatever you like.
Or maybe you can stop being an ignorant jackass. Most women CANNOT orgasm from penetration alone. A woman can try other positions and add in stimulation because it's not always going to happen from penetration alone. Penetration also doesn't have to be the be-all end-all to sex. Regardless if there's clitoral stimulation, STILL a lot of women don't get anything out of penetration. Not to mention there is also such a thing called vaginismus. You could take the happiest woman evar and she still wouldn't cum from having her cervix crammed in.
So you should STFU and go back to your mattress and Lubriderm. Or continue posting on the internet about your pretend 90% rate women to other real women if it makes you feel like a big boy, champ.
#175 - On 07/14/2009 at 11:58pm by waterynuggets
Wow. You sound really angry.
Just FYI, yes most of the women I've been with did orgasm when I crammed their cervixes in. And if they weren't happy before it happened, they were certainly happy afterward.
I'm sorry that you're angry and frustrated with your situation. There is hope for you. Don't believe anyone who tells you that you just can't have an orgasm.
You can do it!
Thugbert, whilst I still wonder about what cervices have to do with it, I kind of timidly support you! :D
You see, my problem is that shouting out loud that intercourse does nothing for women, will make men not care much about how long they last or how they move, and for some of us this would be downright sad :(. Happy (whatever you're doing), but don't forget the foreplay either! ;)
First they change "I agree, your life is f@#%ed" to "I agree, your life sucks", now they change it from "sex" to "intimacy". What next?
dont forget about the "get the guts to spill the beans" header
#117 - On 07/14/2009 at 7:32pm by SkaterChic
almost every girl fakes it at some point. she deserves it for not telling you sooner so you could do better lol
#109 - On 07/14/2009 at 7:21pm by stephsteph90
so im the guy who posted this...no my girl didnt leave me....but when i asked if she had achieved orgasm with other guys she said yes, but not through penetration, the problem I HATE THE IDEA OF GIVING oral to a girl to which she responded: well then u can suck your own dkc from now on....AN ADDITIONAL FML!!
#116 - On 07/14/2009 at 7:30pm by guess28
If you're not willing to reciprocate when she sucks you off, you CAN just take care of yourself. YDI for being so selfish.
Yeah, you suck. Well, you won't be getting any more sucks until you find a girl with low enough self esteem who will pretend to have vaginal orgasms with you forever!!
in that case that's a HUUUGE YDI because you're not willing to attempt to please her. fuck you, dude. you don't deserve to have sex with anyone.
#130 - On 07/14/2009 at 7:59pm by fretforyerlatte
You totally deserved it. You've got a double standard, and that isn't how this sort of thing should go.
Fuck her life for dating you.
See, I would have had some sympathy for you because I think women should speak up rather than fake an orgasm, but that just tossed it. I'm not quick to say this, but I hope she dumps your ass. Reciprocity. Learn it.
#152 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:04pm by SomeonePosting
Okay so at first I pressed "I Agree" but now I'm pressing "You deserved it." So HA!
You aren't willing to please her, then she deserves someone better. Go pleasure yourself.
#161 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:42pm by ily_hun996
Okay, I felt sorry for you until you said that. You love getting oral, but not giving? Good luck with peanut butter and the family dog, then, Selfish.
Holy crap, I was really sympathetic to you at first because faking orgasm really is a shitty thing for women to do... but the idea that any man can expect fellatio from woman without giving cunnilingus in return if and when she wants it NEEDS TO DIE. I mean, A) what are you so afraid of? As long as she has reasonable hygiene (and by that I mean she takes showers and wipes properly, because that's about all it takes, besides obviously checkups for serious problems) her vulva is probably cleaner than her hands at any given moment. And I promise she has no teeth down there. B) Why the hell would you put your dick anywhere your mouth won't go?
Anyway, you OWE IT TO HER to at least TRY. Get a couple of tasty flavored lubes and/or dental dams (as long as you make sure she's not allergic to anything in them) to make the experience more pleasant for you if you can't stand the feeling or taste. And remember, your hands and/or a vibrator can take care of her clit while her vagina is taking care of you.
Aaaaah, I didn't vote on this one till now, but a big fat YDI!!!! Not one inch of sympathy anymore!
How could she BOTHER going down (at least more than once) on someone who didn't reciprocate?
That's a silly question, #179: the answer (for some people) is "taste buds". Also, I bet some of the ladies might be a bit concerned if a dude wears braces, too.
#219 - On 07/15/2009 at 4:14pm by EverWatcher
What the hell is this "sex" that everyone keeps talking about?
#123 - On 07/14/2009 at 7:42pm by DoomJeff91
Good. I heard about this one guy trying to sex a Snapple bottle or something the other day and it didn't turn out too well.
#205 - On 07/15/2009 at 9:56am by DoomJeff91
Next time I'm sexing a girl, pee in her. Got it. Thanks man.
#231 - On 07/16/2009 at 5:44pm by DoomJeff91
Her life if the one that's fucked, she's hasn't been having orgasms and you have every time :p
I don't get why girls think that's smart to do. If a guy thinks their girl had an orgasm, they aren't motivated to work on their technique or find out what really feels good for her.
#128 - On 07/14/2009 at 7:53pm by ELFENMAGICLOLZ
Women of the world, please, tell us the TRUTH, so we can improve in our ability to give you pleasure. I mean, if you scream and moan and beg for more, we'll think we're doing it right, what is not true in so many ocasions...
#133 - On 07/14/2009 at 8:05pm by fenrisulfr
that's always a 100% sure fire way to ruin someone's day. don't worry, you'll get it right eventually!
#136 - On 07/14/2009 at 8:14pm by epicFAIL_Sometim
FYL indeed - she should have told you if she wasn't getting off instead of lying to you for so long. That's just being a bitch.
#139 - On 07/14/2009 at 8:22pm by FalconWhitaker
Don't worry about it..
I'll let you in on a secret: I've faked orgasms with my boyfriend of a couple years...
It's not that you can't get her off or that you're not good enough...
It's not even that she doesn't feel she can talk to you about it.
Sometimes girls just! can't!
If you can't keep it in till she let's out....Houston, we have a problem 0.0
#146 - On 07/14/2009 at 8:39pm by Conquistador420
Don't worry about it. ALL women say that, and I'm not even kidding, when they're mad at their boyfriends/husbands.
I fuck my bf cowgirl position and orgasm quick.
Hmmmm I dunno what else to say.
#149 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:00pm by TanksToYou
You mean she actually told you? Wow, that's one honest girlfriend.
#151 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:04pm by marissajean42
Im an ex cheer coach and ive heard my girls say all the time that they use that line to piss off their BFs when its not true. Look... you can feel it when a girl orgasms... you should if you are not going at the same time. Make her go first then you can tell.
#154 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:07pm by littlegoldwoman
I can understand why she lied (I do not condone it). I used to know a girl that faked orgasms with her boyfriend when they had sex. She said she did it because she was scared about what was going on with her body, that being why she wasn't orgasming. She was scared something was wrong with her and she just kinda wanted her beau to be happy. I don't know. I don't think it's okay to lie at all. Honesty is the best way to go in relationships. Sorry that she faked it... but, you know, if you can't pleasure her, and you aren't willing to, then you kind of deserve it.
#155 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:13pm by Ianslilgoofball
find the clitoris and g-spot and make them your new best friends.
#156 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:15pm by dyingstart
Have you considered the fact that you might be gay?
Your fear of vagina tends to lead that way.
Even if you are straight, you are obviously scared of female sexuality.
#160 - On 07/14/2009 at 9:34pm by SirAwesome
As always its harder for a woman to get hers when the guy doesn't know where he is going
#168 - On 07/14/2009 at 10:31pm by sportylady
lol I've learned so much from this site
Ty fml for teaching an underage child haha
#176 - On 07/15/2009 at 12:07am by lastdayinvegas
sorry did I miss something? Maybe I'm on the wrong site but last time I checked this was FML. Why don't you come back when you have an actual FML and until then just stick to iliketostaterandomfacts.com. It's got your kind of stories like "Today I had breakfast before lunch, and then you'll never guess what I did after that: I HAD SUPPER!!!! OMG. FML."
#181 - On 07/15/2009 at 12:37am by jiggles101
Oh god, I've had to fake orgasims in the past so many times! I always felt so bad for the guys afterwards.
I would just stop talking to them.
#183 - On 07/15/2009 at 1:26am by Princess_LC
A lot do. Don't sweat it. Plus your girlfriend is a bitch
#185 - On 07/15/2009 at 1:43am by highonlife77
Ahaha I've never orgasmed from sex, and I've never faked it either.. I would be so embarrassed screaming in pretend orgasm so I just say I've cum and that I'm really not obvious.
#188 - On 07/15/2009 at 2:48am by icecreamdriveby
Woman don't need to orgasm. They make you a sammich when you get home from work, rub your feet, and then ride your dick. Once she's done there it's straight back to the kitchen.
#199 - On 07/15/2009 at 3:43am by xADyingSoulx
Okay as a girl, I wonder why other girls do this. If you're not satisfied let him know and he'll try harder. If you pretend that what he's doing is good enough he's gonna just keep on doing a horrible job. Plus, orgasms are amazing ... why would you not want to experience one?
Hey if she's gonna fake it I guess she doesn't want to have an orgasm. At least you get to.
#216 - On 07/15/2009 at 2:25pm by ElNegroHombre
At least she's told you now, so you can work harder to get her to achieve orgasm.
And you know, she was just faking to make you happy (I assume). Hell, because I don't moan much during sex even when it feels really good my boyfriend has actually asked me to fake the noises, because he likes it better when I'm loud.
#217 - On 07/15/2009 at 3:59pm by Waabishkii_ikwe
You deserve it for a) not noticing and b) complaining about it when she's the one who's been having less-than-satisfactory sex for a year.
#220 - On 07/15/2009 at 4:56pm by wasabipeas
Not noticing? Seriously? Faking is easy. Ever see when Harry met Sally? Moan, groan, squeal, strain your face, clamp your vag. and there you go; you don't have to be Meryl Streep to impress someone who is in the throes of sex. There's no squirt at the end, no "evidence" as such, just an impression and your word. It's her fault for playing the "easy O," and now that she's come clean, they can work on making it happen for real.
#222 - On 07/15/2009 at 5:31pm by FoundManyLemons
who cares? she doesn't orgasm, but she still lets you fuck her... so fuck her! only don't feel any compulsion to last any length of time or do anything for her... she knows she's your cum dumpster, so treat her like it!
this is about the farthest thing from a fml i've seen here...
Wow you are a jerk. Some men actually care about their girlfriend's pleasure. My bf says pleasing me is by far the most enjoyable aspect of sex for him.
#226 - On 07/15/2009 at 10:52pm by dramakat11
Tell her you're upset she was lying all this time, but understand that many women (the number is disputed) don't ever (or often, again, disputed) achieve orgasm during intercourse. Ask her what you can do to help. Make it clear it's important to you that she enjoys herself.
#230 - On 07/16/2009 at 4:01pm by QuietRiots
There is this thing called a vibrator! Use it while you have sex. Most girls cant have orgasms during sex, BUT with the assistance of a vibrator, they can. Its the equivalent of only being able to orgasm when a girl is giving you a bj, if she is also sucking your balls.
Wow, YDI for being a horrible lay. L2Read body movement. It's not that hard to give a woman an orgasm. True story.
#233 - On 07/16/2009 at 11:15pm by helpmeiamblind
I'd say dump her. And google some tips. That's a serious communication issue if she waited a year to tell you she's been faking. And on top of that faking is a serious communication issue in itself. Seriously women, just tell someone they suck so they can fix it. It'd stop half the guys of the world from thinking they're a sex god when they're actually a complete idiot.
So many people do this, which is just foolish. Its kinda self explanatory, although it sucks to know that you haven't been satisfying your girlfriend... If people stop faking, they might actually have a sex life worth while ;-)
#240 - On 07/19/2009 at 7:30pm by ailiananty
what is with everybody telling you to dump her?? it isn't uncommon, alot of girls ( if not most ) don't get enough pleasure from penetration alone. just talk to her to see what gets her off!
believe me, i've been there. i was faking too.
#241 good luck to your partner, girls should stop blaming all communication problems on guys when sometimes it's their own fault. If you wait a year to say you're faking you're obviously not respectful enough of your bf's feelings.
Ahhhh, that sucks... communication is key! If she can't tell you what's good for her how are you supposed to know?! Girls need to be more honest, informed, and vocal about their preferences. Also, she may have just said that to hurt you... just sayin.
#243 - On 07/21/2009 at 1:19pm by This_Quiet_Storm
This isn't an FML, at least not for you. It's pretty common, and it just sucks for her that she can't seem to orgasm during sex.
Why do most people assume its always the guys fault that women don't climax?! I mean sure alot of guys suck in bed but if the girl doesn't speak up how do you expect them to improve. For guys it seems much easier to say how they like then girls. Remember, nobody is born knowing how to have sex. One improves by experience. If the guy is bad in bed tell them because each one is responsible for your own orgasm and if you don't speak up then its your bad.
.....gahhh, why do people fake... it may save feelings at the time, but in the long run it will only turn into something bad (or being posted on a site like this xD)
#247 - On 08/01/2009 at 9:28am by suicidalmashmelo
hmmm, picture this though
" A couple having sex, and person1 is really loud & into it, whilst person 2 only slightly. Person 1 then has a great orgasm and collaspes from exhausted and whatever, person 2 is either left to just lay there, or carry on by themselves."
That's what it would be like if someone didn't fake an orgasm.
Imagine how bad person 1 would feel, and how bad yet frustrated person 2 would be.
You see where i went with this i hope? :)
lol this is the exact reason why I'm so glad that none of my ex gf's have faked. some of them hate me, loathe my existence, and they've even told me that they wish they could shatter my ego by saying they faked it, but couldn't, so no, that's not what it's like at all when one person doesn't fake it. that's what it's like when one person doesn't fake it when the other clearly has no idea what they're doing in bed. little clarification for you.
#250 - On 08/05/2009 at 9:27am by _THE_MASTER_
Ugh! Same thing happened to me. Some girls just make you work, and sometimes there's nothing you can do. Don't worry about it. :) Chin up, dude.
#252 - On 08/17/2009 at 10:02pm by xTheBasicFlawx
