Today, I found out that the woman I'm currently dating used to be a man. FML

by swindstorm / 12/06/2010 at 7:24am / Intimacy

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  • It doesn't matter to much, although I can imagine it was a bit of a shock.

    And no, it doesn't make you gay, since she is a woman both mentally and physically.

    #5 - On 12/06/2010 at 1:07pm by Grem_

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  • You two should definitely break up. She had the courage to take a chance on you because she thought you were worth it. Clearly you aren't. Just have the goddamn decency to be nice about it.

    As a side note to the people who say she should have told him first: heterosexual transgender people (especially trans women) do not have an easy time finding non-transgender partners who are totally okay with their medical history. Hence, I can understand why they would want to wait until the relationship starts getting serious: they want their potential partner to have the chance to evaluate them as a -person- with interests, hobbies, pet peeves, etc. instead of writing them off completely at the very beginning.

    #91 - On 12/06/2010 at 2:48pm by the_metaskeptic

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