Well, that pretty clearly seems like intentional manipulation on her part. Look at that expert use of vague, open ended language on the TEXT followed by that turn around to using a NOTE instead of face to face or the previously used text communication, reducing the chance of arguing. A note that very clearly indicates she knew you wouldn't have cleaning on your mind, or else it wouldn't have needed to explain what you "offered". Unless she has a medical condition or otherwise justifiable reason to not do house work, it's time to let her know that it's only fair that since you work 60 hours a week and she works 0, she do the majority of the house work. It's CERTAINLY not okay to manipulate you like that, either.

That's just asinine

If you cleaned the house, YDI.

"Honey, since I cleaned the house, could you spare 5 minutes to sign some papers?" *goes to work, leaving divorce papers on the kitchen counter*

As a single person I can relate to this. When I get home, no cleaning was done while I was at work. But, I cannot be mad about it either.

You should have replaced some lamps with energy saver ones and put up a note saying "Saving some energy as requested"

House wives that do not want to do house work work?! It's only going to get worse, trust me.

Wow that's so messed up

She knows how to play the cards haha