Reverse the roles and the guy would be getting bashed, called a perv, being told that he is scum for giving her an ultimatum. Women who use sex as a weapon are disgusting human beings. So no, she shouldn't do this.

33 has clearly never listened to Pat Benatar.

It's almost as if male humans have emotions and other things to do! WOW.

For the life of me I can't figure out why females would choose anything over sex. It just boggles my mind! Read that and if you don't find any offense with that you're wrong, and if you do find offense with it you're wrong. Guys are humans you know(big surprise I'm sure), there are times I could care less about what's happening while I'm relaxing and playing a game.

Because all guys are horny 24/7 and have to drop everything to go **** their gf the moment she wants to. Yet if a guy dares to have this thought process, he's selfish and a pervert.

The point isn't that she didn't get a response. The point is that if he was the one bitching about not getting laid, there would be a rush of people calling him a monster for wanting his GF to drop everything and give him sex when HE wanted. It has nothing to do with him not telling her to wait. We only have her side of the story. As a woman i can guarantee we lie about certain details to get favor with people so Im not so sure all she got wasa pat on the head. He could very well have told her to wait, or that he didn't want to while patting her on the head. we don't know. By bitching and complaining that her BF didn't drop everything he was doing just so she could get laid, she is the one that did something wrong. Your BF is human sweetheart, his world doesn't revolve around you.

Of course if she was just angry he's not a sex machine, that's reprehensible. But personally, I didn't really interpret the post as OP bitching about her bf not being in the mood. Seems more like she's just disappointed with the situation (not him). As long as you respect your SO's decision, I don't see any problem with simply feeling a bit disappointed because you were really looking forwards to it. And, assuming the only info we have from the FML is true and OP isn't lying, I agree with #34 that the bf could have said it in a better way. A pat on the head, without a single word, just seems so dismissive. He probably didn't mean it badly (just distracted), so I advise OP not to take it personally, especially if it's a one-time thing. But if he responds to her this way frequently and the manner hurts her, she should definitely talk to him about it.

Eh I see you're point and obviously that wasn't the whole story as it wouldn't fit in the character restrictions but I was kinda just annoyed he didn't really acknowledge me allll day and night just because of a game but no worries this isn't usual and we're all good :)

Exactly! Thank you lol and he only gave me a pat on the head because he had his mic on, I didn't mean to make him sound so horrible, he's pretty great actually I was just annoyed with the situation at the time