I don't see what's wrong with telling him. If I felt that I needed to take a pregnancy test, I wouldn't keep that a secret from my boyfriend until I did it. I'm sure OP didn't tell her boyfriend that she -was- pregnant, just that she might be.

15- lots of couples SHARE things in their relationship and are open about everything. I know if there was even a slight chance I might be pregnant, my fiancé would want to know.

It takes two to make a baby. There's no reason the woman should be the only one stressing and worrying about whether she's pregnant or not when the man has just as much to do with making the baby as she does. The man deserves to stress and worry about it just as much as the woman.

I think crying was perfectly natural reaction. A few months isn't very long. He might see OP as a casual relationship and the thought of a lifetime affiliation with her might be more than he bargained for. OP, I'm not sure why you think you might be pregnant but I'd wager you told him because you were a little scared out, too. I've never seen a pregnancy test commercial where someone doesn't cry. It's rather unfair of you to judge him for being emotional and calling a person he trusts for advice or solace.

Why might crying an overreaction?

Because he's almost 30, not 3

Would you say that if OP was a girl? It is understandable to cry in that situation, no matter how old or what gender you are.

Whether it was the girl or boy, crying is over reacting. When you become sexually active it is your responsibility to know that there is always a chance of pregnancy unless either one has a vasectomy or tubes tied. No other birth control is a 100% effective. There is always a risk and it is your responsibility to be prepared for that when you become sexually active. Or if a baby freaks him out that badly he should have a vasectomy or not have sex.

Your a pig....

I'd say its cos she's late...

Who says they weren't on birth control? It doesn't always work.