if your husband pulled this shit w/o consultation with you, you two have issues in your marriage, not saying it's your issues but this needs to be worked out and your mil living with you is not going to help.

So you'd rather get a divorce than spend the rest of your life with a man you're supposedly in love with? Just grit your teeth and get through it, is your husband not worth it?

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If I'd agree with what your about to do, we'd both be wrong

if you really love your husband you wouldn't do that. it's his mother for peet sake get it together and like her!

Would I say this is a typical mother-in-law? That or a very rare chance of finding a good one.

You really aren't commited to the relationship are you? You would divorce your husband simply because you don't like his mother?

Tell him what u think. This is your house to huny, and as long as u pay some of those bills, u have a say as to who can come in and go out your door.

win ^^^

That is completely inconsiderate of your husband. You married him, wanted to live with him. You cannot pick your mother in law, but you’re right to be upset over this. Your husband should treat you as an equal, and that means that you have an equal saying in big decisions like this. Whether you love him or not has nothing to do with this. You can still love your husband and not want to be living with his mother. I’d start wondering if he loves you. Loving each other means wanting to see each other happy, and he is defiantly making you unhappy with this decision. For everybody who says this is ‘little’ or ‘minor’, it’s not. It is someone who is going to be in your life all the time. No more privacy, no dinners together. More costs and less space in. Mothers tend to think that it is their home and start organizing things according to how they always did things. I am sure she has a great reason for not wanting her mother in law to live with her.