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FML - The follow-up

Today, my husband decided he would rather be with his mistress than with me while I gave birth to our first child. FML

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I am the op of this FML and I hope it shows that but let me explain this a little further. My soon to be ex husband has been cheating on me for the last few months of my pregnancy. I noticed the changes in him but I hoped it was just nerves over the baby. I actually caught him about three weeks before I went into labor and threw him out. I had planned on letting him be there when I gave birth to our baby girl but he didn't answer my calls. My mother was with me so I wasn't alone but I really tho
By MissyPants / Saturday 15 August 2015 08:22 / United States - Lebec
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^uh, exactly, that's the point. If I were in OP's shoes, I'd be really pissed off and I'd want a little more than just my stuff back. I'd want him to suffer. Maybe I'm just a selfish person, but I don't think most people would just want "only their things back" after giving birth to a child and now having to care for it. Tell me, would you not be a tad vindictive after someone screws you over this hard?

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^What part of this being an fml do you not understand? If OP gave consent, THIS WOULD NOT BE AN FML. Plain and simple. The trust factor is already gone with him having a mistress. Now add the fact that he preferred to be with the mistress instead of his wife giving birth. Emotionally screwed? I think yes. Who's to say OP doesn't make a lot of money either? Assuming the man is the one that only rakes in the cash smh.

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even with everything split, how do you split care of a child? she is the one who gets the sleepless nights, full time job as mom, etc, while he gets to enjoy dates, long nights out with his mistress, and restfull sleeps. darn straight gonna take him for more then half.

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Trust me I never consented to another woman in our relationship and if he had said he wanted someone else we would have divorced much sooner. As for taking him to the cleaners, it's not going to happen. Yes I'm angry and hurt but I also want out of this marriage as quickly and cleanly as possible. I do daydream a bit about him getting hit by a bus or contracting some horrible new STD but that's all I do. There's a child involved so I have to be an adult and think about what's best for her.

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Unfortunatly with there being a child involved there will not be a "Quick and clean" about the divorce. Here's hoping everything works out for you though.

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