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FML - The follow-up
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Unfortunately, not many of you guys are getting my problem. We have been together for 5yrs. I've had a high sex drive our entire relationship. He watches porn almost every night, after I've gone to the bedroom. We HAVE discussed this... MANY times. He says jacking off is just less work and he'd rather use his hand than undress and have to worry about having sex, therefore being "too spent" for sex for sometimes months at a time. I have no problem with porn or masterbation in general. I
By kaijen - / Friday 9 September 2016 05:11 / United States - Washington
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Communication is the most important part of any relationship. How can you hope for a problem to be solved if your other half isn't aware of it in the first place? I'm not criticizing you or your husband, I just want you to remember that healthy conversation about these issues is the healthiest way of resolving them.

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Communication is the most important part of any relationship. How can you hope for a problem to be solved if your other half isn't aware of it in the first place? I'm not criticizing you or your husband, I just want you to remember that healthy conversation about these issues is the healthiest way of resolving them.

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And I could see your point if I haven't talked to him about this for YEARS and tried to compromise and tried the experimentations he wants, tried counseling, etc.

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If my man is watching porn and jerking off, I want in on that. If he's randy enough to jerk off, then he should be good for another round or two. While I always understand everyone needs a little self love, if I'm in the area, why not just have sex? It feels like a wasted opportunity to me. And just because they had sex ONCE and she got off ONCE doesn't mean she wouldn't have been up for more.

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I don't know how long you two been married but you two need to talk, talk, and talk some more until you know each others sexual needs and fantasies. Me and my spouse know each other's needs and we can make each other orgasm easily if we want to. You got to open up to each other and see what works best for both of you. So grab that lazy husband of yours by the cock and explain to him what you need.

This sounds like an uncomfortable marriage. Sex is about more than just having an orgasm. It's bonding with you partner if you do it with love. OP, please talk with your husband if neither of you is happy with your sex life.

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