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By  allmidnighteyes  |  33

THIS. You need to let him know what you need in order to get an orgasm. You're most likely not gonna reach orgasm by vaginal stimulation alone, you need clitoral stimulation, and if it involves you teaching him how to go down on you, then just roll with it. Communication is key. Don't fake it and falsely boost his confidence, because that way, he thinks he's doing something right and will just keep doing whatever it is he's doing wrong.

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  ramirezlmt  |  8

I think this is way more emotional than pleasure. You organismed on your wedding night the most beautiful etc etc etc night of all. Men really don't get it, sex isn't just mechanical. He probably thinks a vag is an inside out penis. Tips? Do one of your fanastys tie me up etc. If that's not one and you want him to take control. Wait do you at least climax? Tips? rubber, lub, foreplay. OH AND A VIBRATING penis RING! If fails (I am a guy) focus on what gets your hot. Telling your man to be romantic kinda kills anything he does. So good luck with the O but climax completely this will do it.

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THIS. You need to let him know what you need in order to get an orgasm. You're most likely not gonna reach orgasm by vaginal stimulation alone, you need clitoral stimulation, and if it involves you teaching him how to go down on you, then just roll with it. Communication is key. Don't fake it and falsely boost his confidence, because that way, he thinks he's doing something right and will just keep doing whatever it is he's doing wrong.

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  DjeePee  |  14

*starts singing* Communication, communication, lalalalalalalala *keeps singing* OP, if you lived five years without orgasms - and maybe also a good sexual life - without telling it to your partner so you both could work to improve the situation, you are pathetic. No sympathy from me.

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  afdude87  |  14

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  free2speak  |  19

Seriously! if he wants your hoo-ha then make him work for it. You're married for five years and you haven't told him that you are not getting an orgasm everytime you do it? WTF? I'm sure he'd be more than happy if you told him how to please you and he would probably be grateful that he doesnt have to wonder anymore, what he is doing wrong. And I'm surprised he hasn't asked you why you're not cumming (unless you're really good at faking it which is still YDI). And this is all assuming that you even have a sex life and if you don't... dear god.

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  fylnotmine89  |  7

#6 I could not agree more! I wish more women would take your advice. too many women complain about the mans performance in the sack but are never willing to jump on top to do their thing to get theirs. so needless to say no pitty for this chick.

By  perdix  |  37

Congrats on the five years of fakery. Stay together, but dissolve the marriage and you'll be on your way to O-town in a jiffy. Isn't that better than getting his Social Security after he dies or having the right to not testify against him in court?

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