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By sneeuwbal / Thursday 25 December 2014 18:36 / Belgium
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By  oj101

If you're old enough to take a holiday alone together in the first place, then I assume you two are old enough consenting adults, so just ignore the dad and go ahead with the trip. Your relationship is your business only - other people can join you in on the fun if you let them, but they have no right to dismantle or obstruct it.

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I do agree that he's an asshole, but if his gf is going to listen to her father she clearly deserves to be single!

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But she's an attractive female. Stated by rule #438 of the internets, females automatically get upvoted.

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But if she's over 18, the dad can kick her out or something really drastic for taking the trip and going against his 'rules'.

If you're old enough to go on a trip unsupervised you're old enough to tell her dad no. Or plead to her mother if all else fails.

By  oj101

If you're old enough to take a holiday alone together in the first place, then I assume you two are old enough consenting adults, so just ignore the dad and go ahead with the trip. Your relationship is your business only - other people can join you in on the fun if you let them, but they have no right to dismantle or obstruct it.

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It could have been a trip with OP's family though. I know when I was 16 and 17 I had a long-term boyfriend and we went on trips with each other's families all the time. We were never left alone but I could see how OP's girlfriend's dad could have felt uneasy about her being in a similar situation. Although changing his mind a week beforehand isn't right.

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