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By dadisgoatboy / Saturday 11 June 2011 06:37 / Switzerland
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  imacreeper  |  3

if you wouldn't do it when somebody's watching, then don't do it at all.

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  Xathanos  |  16

Jeez porn is no problem really, think about it's not as bad as screwing another woman. Porn is just movies for adults and nothing more.(and yes women watch porn too, if you say they don't you're just in denial)

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  haileemarie7  |  6

42-I'm going to have to disagree. While yes, it's not as bad as screwing another woman, it's still bad. Mist women don't enjoy men fantasizing about other women. It makes them feel insecure, and not good enough. Weather or not it's affecting your intimacy, it really is a slap in the face knowing your husband/boyfriend is dreaming about being intimate with someone other then yourself.

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  yarm  |  0

so guys need to change to accommodate your unreasonable insecurities? intimacy is shared with a real live human being. porn is a way for men (and many women) to release their innate urges. yes, some people develop an unhealthy addiction to it, but that's definitely not the majority.

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  cradle6  |  13

49-Thats a very close minded way of seeing it. The male mind is not monogamous. There is a strong drive to spread the seed. Thats why humans are a successful species. Even so, we remain in monogamy for our partner. And if you considering porn cheating because men "fantasize about other women," then you must consider the majority of chick flicks, movies/books like twilight, and attractive celebrities in the media also cheating. How is a woman drooling over Taylor Lautner somehow better than a male watching porn? It's extremely hypocritical and a double standard. You could make your boyfriend/husband feel insecure. Therefore, by your standards 49, a couple that is together should never ever look at someone of the opposite sex in any circumstance because they could make their partner jealous. Maybe they should blind themselves, just to be safe.

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  haileemarie7  |  6

54- I don't appreciate words being put into my mouth. Never once did I say it was wrong to look at pornography. I was just stating how I (and quiet a few other women I've met) feel about the subject. Also, I've never picked up a romance novel nor anything twilight related. So your argument fails. Everyone is entitled to there own opinion, and I was simply sharing mine. It's just like your spouse smoking, they're both bad habits and some people don't like them others don't mind. Also, you don't know me or anything about my past. So don't call my insecurities "irrational".

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  deathtrap  |  0

only if you are very insecure. fantasizing is not a crime or cheating. it's healthy for a relationship. now if your man is fantasizing about ur bff then that's wrong lol

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  haileemarie7  |  6

Also, looking at a completely clothed attractive woman is complete different then looking at a naked attractive woman going to town on herself. Also, it doesn't make sense that JUST looking at porn takes care of urges. Because last time I checked that's what masturbating was for. Also, last time I checked, you don't NEED to look at another human being having sex with someone else to masturbate. I'm not skipping to the steamy parts of romance novels to masturbate to. I don't understand why a man has to look at porn to masturbate.

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  deathtrap  |  0

many, many couples use porn as a tool to teach each other what they like or need. and they are mature enough to realize that porn is not real sex. it's merely entertainment. try it sometime

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  haileemarie7  |  6

61- I understand having fantasy is good, but not fantasizing about other women. I've spent mass amounts of time and money buying costumes, and toys, and swings, and books, and whatever else my husband wants to keep things interesting. I've worked my ass off for years making sure he's satisfied. Believe me, there are other ways to find out what he likes.

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  AlterrOnmi  |  0

I'm a chick and understand..Me and my husband watch porn to spice things up and cuz we're both pretty competitive and always wanna out do each other by doing it better than the porn stars.

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  godmax1  |  3

haileemarie7, In my own personal experience I have found it alot easy to masturbate while watching porn then just sitting in a room staring at a wall. Not only that but not watching porn just seems weird.

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  36591951  |  9

shouldn't still be going on when your married with kids though

By  Pigpen181  |  3

Your Mom, needs to come to the realization that the "FML web site" is rated PG14 ( and if it bothers her too much...... .....post something!)

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