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Hi, this is OP. To be fair, he did fly me out to visit him and put a real effort into making the week we had together great. That said, after I did manage to fix the flight back, I think he was scared I was going to kick him in the balls for that stunt for most of the extra 24 hours we had together. But the makeup sex was great and I barely managed to make it back in time for work obligations, so bf is EXTREMELY lucky :) And we have a new relationship rule of not fucking with travel arrangements. Sigh.
By ak47nd - / Friday 18 September 2015 02:37 / China - Dalian
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By  Welshite  |  39

I'm reading these comments, and really can't understand the support the boyfriend is getting. He deliberately made her miss her flights, and it caused a giant mess. Keep in mind that she was flying for work, and her company might not be so happy as these commenters if she had missed an important meeting or conference. The "thought" doesn't count when a selfish person inconveniences you to fulfill a personal desire.

By  bonermonkey  |  31

honestly I'd be upset that he had done that without clearing up the mess. aint nuthing romantic about fucking up your travel arrangements when u have to deal with it.

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By  VoldooPed  |  20

As much of an inconvenience it is, at least he wants to spend time with you, unlike the boyfriends and girlfriends that don't care.

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  I_Like_Dogs  |  28

Yeah, he's so selfish for wanting to spend time with his girlfriend before traveling.

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  9a_1z  |  12

If tricking someone you care about into doing something they didn't intend to do just because you want them to yourself is your idea of unselfish, then I'm worried for you.

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  I_Like_Dogs  |  28

Nobody could detect the obvious sarcarsm on my previous comment? *sigh*

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  I_Like_Dogs  |  28

#14- Damn it. I misread the FML, I thought the boyfriend was traveling and wanted her to spend more time with him. Yep, that's selfish. Sorry.

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  I_Like_Dogs  |  28

54- I was expecting this kind of comment. I did misread it, I skipped several phrases and thought the boyfriend wanted OP to be with him before his flight, and OP got bored. I already accepted the hate though, my first comment was dumb and deserved it.

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  KittyKatGirl  |  13

#54 if you read his first comment, and how it was worded "he wanted to spend time with his girlfriend before traveling" that sentence construct "Person A wanted to X before travelling" is only used when person A is doing the travelling, ie unless the comment was edited, it was based on that mis-read. There are enough people here who actually are trying to excuse it.

By  soldier084  |  11

its the thought that counts OP. he knew he wouldnt get to see you for awhile. hopefully you got the flight situated and spent time with him.

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  okokalright  |  15

That doesn't give him the right to mess with her job. She needed to fly back for work, and making her miss her flight could have possibly cost her her job. I don't care if they were fucking married, it's a selfish thing to do

By  qwertydude1  |  19

At least he wanted to spend time with you before you left? Think positive about the little things OP.

By  Nathan_Henry  |  15

It's the thought that counts

By  bonermonkey  |  31

honestly I'd be upset that he had done that without clearing up the mess. aint nuthing romantic about fucking up your travel arrangements when u have to deal with it.

By  Welshite  |  39

I'm reading these comments, and really can't understand the support the boyfriend is getting. He deliberately made her miss her flights, and it caused a giant mess. Keep in mind that she was flying for work, and her company might not be so happy as these commenters if she had missed an important meeting or conference. The "thought" doesn't count when a selfish person inconveniences you to fulfill a personal desire.

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  BlueHorizons  |  8

That's just what I was thinking as I read this. While his intentions may have been romantic in nature the reality was far from it. Seems like he didn't stop to consider all the possible implications.

By  Lalala579121  |  27

This FML is so bipolar right now. Some comments get upvoted while others that say basically the same exact thing get downvoted.

By  Hoboman69  |  15

At least he was willing to try, the romance. might not be conventional but it's the thought that counts

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  ohSNAPyall  |  26

It's the thought that counts... And he didn't put much thought into it. He put her into a stressful situation, potentially making her look irresponsible at work, and costing her a lot of time, stress and maybe money. If he wanted to be romantic, he should have put some effort into it before. Maybe taken her to a nice restaurant or bed and breakfast a night or two before the flight.

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  bapbap_fml  |  15

The only thought he was putting into this was thinking his selfish wants were more important than her job or plans. Super manipulative. I would dump him if I were OP.

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