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You already know what to do, you're just waiting on somebody to say it. He doesn't value relationships, but you do. It's not going to work out in the long run because you can't change him. It's better to get out sooner rather than later.

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By  kyu_Q

Perhaps its time to reassess your relationship. It doesn't bode well if he is more invested in the cat than he is in you.

You already know what to do, you're just waiting on somebody to say it. He doesn't value relationships, but you do. It's not going to work out in the long run because you can't change him. It's better to get out sooner rather than later.

I Kinda do agree with the top comments. That was not smart of him. There could be an off chance he was trying to see how you feel about furthering the relationship. But if it's your cat, if you leave him, take the damn cat!!

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Not something you need to worry about. You actually have to have brain cells in order for them to die. ;)

Well, at least you found out sooner rather than later that he's not interested in making it last. As soon as you're emotionally ready, cut the ties and bail. If he doesn't see a point in being together long-term, that's his loss.

One thing I've learned about men in all my years of dating. If they say they feel that way, they ACTUALLY FEEL THAT WAY. It's not that he's grumpy. It's not that he's scared. It's not for any other reason. Sorry, but if you want a relationship that's going to the next level, it won't be with this dude. Dump him.

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Thank you. This actually makes me feel better about this person who thought relationship (or relationship with me, doesn't matter) didn't look necessary nor he cares and I thought it was me but now I'm back in my old relationship with the man who actually cares so... I know it wasn't me now. I've been looking for some resolution so thanks you have no idea how this comment means to me.

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