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That is a question no man should ever ask -- there is only one answer that will always be given. As far as we are concerned, it doesn't matter to us whether your orgasms are real or not, they are just signals that we are doing it right. If you are faking, you are just screwing yourself (figuratively) because you are letting him get away with inadequate performance. If you lay there quietly as he pumps away, he might get the hint that he has work to do down there with his fingers and his tongue.

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that is sad. girls need to be honest with their partners. if you don't tell him the truth and help him get you off then this is a YDI . it's the only way he will get better

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OP, some practical advice: instead of telling him you've faked etc, during sex (this will really put him off, and he won't trust you about it again), just guide his hand to where it makes you feel good. Like, use his hand etc OR YOU take charge. Get on top and show him how it's done!

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Yeah listen to #98. Women are supposed to only have sexual pleasure if their partner is capable of giving it to them. The laws of nature state: "A woman may not under any circumstances, have open discourse with her partner about her sexual needs. Nor is she allowed to attempt to achieve pleasure through her actions during a sexual encounter. She must remain passive and either be pleased, not pleased, or exist somewhere in the middle." So you can clearly see that the authority on sexual interactions for women indicates that you'll never have an orgasm with your partner. On the other hand, at least you won't crap yourself during sex like some people.

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I agree with #3. She may as well break up with him now if she's going to lie about that. That's only going to create an ever widening gap between them.

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you know the "g spot" is still just kind of a myth haha science teacher told us about it when he overheard a group of girls started talking about it...the girls looked dumbfounded after that

That is a question no man should ever ask -- there is only one answer that will always be given. As far as we are concerned, it doesn't matter to us whether your orgasms are real or not, they are just signals that we are doing it right. If you are faking, you are just screwing yourself (figuratively) because you are letting him get away with inadequate performance. If you lay there quietly as he pumps away, he might get the hint that he has work to do down there with his fingers and his tongue.

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Right-o. However laying there quietly as he pumps away isn't going to help anything. Why women think their own orgasm is completely up to the man, I'll never know. How about a middle ground between screaming fake orgasms and laying there like a corpse?

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Right-o. However laying there quietly as he pumps away isn't going to help anything. Why women think their own orgasm is completely up to the man, I'll never know. How about a middle ground between screaming fake orgasms and laying there like a corpse?

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