Good god 7 years! I thought I was on a dry spell... I guess when the times right for you it'll happen.

7 years? After about a month I'd need to be put on straightjacket and put in the funny farm.

One of my friends believe that you can be a virgin again if don't have sex for one year.

If I didn't have sex then, with my first boyfriend, I would still be a virgin now at 27. I don't have time for dating with all the school work I do. :/

what are you on? go read something informative if this subject.

I hate when people say things like this, they dont realize how stupid they sound. Virginity just means pure and innocent ( never had sex before.) So, when someone say they lost their virginity, they don't really mean they had lost somehing, it just means they had sex before. It's a freaking metaphor, lol.

Hymems dom't grow back, or repair themselves. I seriously hope that your comment is sarcastic..

The only way your hymen will be 'as good as new' is with invasive surgery!

While you may not agree with the "social construct" aspect of this comment, the hymen can and does tear for many women experiencing sex for the first time and it Does heal. Your hymen isn't like a full sheet of plastic wrap. It naturally has holes in it to begin with. If it didn't many women would need surgery just to have a period. #30: you essentially just agreed with the commenter. Virginity isn't a thing you lose it is an idea about the "purity" of a person before and after they have had sex. While I don't think metaphor is the right descriptor,that idea of purity is there because society says it is, making it a social construction. I have never been fond of it myself as the idea that I was pure somehow before I had sex and not afterward just seems silly. And what about the women I have been with? According to many people a lot of what I did with them wasn't sex. Does that mean lesbians are the most pure people? Is there something about a penis that is evil or unpure that taints women? The entire notion is silly and deserves to be thought about more critically instead of blindly accepting what we are always told.

#42 I basically just said that, I was referring to both genders and all sexual orientations. I don't know why you're questioning me all of this when I had not specific any gender when I was actually referring to everyone in my comment. I don't think the penis is evil and I don't think its not sex because you're gay. Yeah, when some say " they had lost virginity", just means they had sex before and I wouldn't think too much into what they're saying because it's nothing literal.

Heart of the matter, virginity is a state of being, not a physical state or mental state. If you have had sexual intercourse with any living being, you are no longer a virgin. If you haven't, then you are a virgin. Virgins can be evil as all --- , and they can be pure as the unborn universe. You can only take your first and last breath once each. It's an inherent state of the system. You are a virgin till you aren't. I had a daughter, she was taken from me by God. I am still a dad. She may be gone, but nothing can take that from me. Nothing can 'fix' no longer being a virgin. It just is.

I cannot believe that you actually believe what you wrote

It's funny how you are exactly right, and it's the girls telling you otherwise. it heals itself after a long period of time but definitely not 6 months