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By Anonymous - / Saturday 22 June 2013 14:00 / United States
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You do realise that a Super-Injunction is put in place to stop the media printing stories about a certain person or event, right?

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The police have better things to do than stop a cousin stalking his relative. If the police were to get involved then I'd say that's a waste of tax payer money.

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I would totally take advice from a person who used a cool sounding legal term, while having absolutely no idea what it even means.

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I admit I made a mistake but I would rather take the precaution of going to the authorities because of the fact that the parents in this equation refuse to help. Anyway whoever actually listens to advice from FML has issues, we only say it to feel like we're doing something -.- I admit that too.

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I'm surprised this is getting thumbed down so much. I think that going to the police is a fine idea. Although OP used the phrase 'practically stalking', the cousin's inappropriate behavior appears to be escalating and trending towards actual, criminal stalking. Since OP's parents and the cousin's parents are not adequately protecting her, enlisting the help of an outside party is the only recourse she has. If she went to another trusted adult (ie, school counselor), that person would have limite

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Yup, law is dependent on where you live. Here in my province its legal to date or marry your second cousin but illegal to date/marry your first cousin. On the eastern side from what I have been told by people from that side of our country in their province it is legal to date or marry your first and second cousin. In terms of siblings, parents, etc it is illegal across the country in all of the provinces last time I had checked or heard. All of this is crazy to me in my opinion.

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Cousin-cousin relationships are a lot less likely to have genetic mutations due to incest. However, most research indicates that the potential for defects lasts up until 3rd cousins.

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Maybe in Canada. In the United States first cousins is always illegal and I believe it is consdered incestuous. I believe some states allow second cousins.

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Agreed! For a while my dad was convinced that my older cousin had a crush on me, but he said it was okay because "all boys are like that at that age." wtf?!

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After the dad witnesses the cousin trying to make a move, I can see the dad saying, "HOLY FUCK WHAT THE HELL WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL US HE WAS TRYING TO HIT ON YOU!?"

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A lot of older people see some behavior as sweet bc they are determined, but don't understand that if it's unwanted it really isn't harmless bc it can really turn into something serious. Also they don't understand how easy it is to find someone just by the name with facebook ect..

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The fact that they are pretty much allowing this disturbing behavior bothers me Yes, I get it, "aw, he has a crush" but he's also *harrassing* her. That is just not something he should be taught is okay.

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Sounds like the parents don't want to face up to the intra-family problem, so they don't have to deal with it.

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How was the OP supposed to know that their parents would just make an excuse for one of their family members crushing/stalking them rather than fixing the situation?! That's ridiculous.

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Wat... That's like saying, "Oh don't bother going to the police if you've been raped, because a lot of cases get thrown out/nothing happens." Besides, how was the OP to know her parents wouldn't care? If I was being stalked by someone, cousin or stranger, I would assume my parents would care...

Keep all instances of him stalking you for proof and go file for a restraining order. Then hopefully both yours and his parents will have to realize how serious this is, and validate your feelings of being threatened by your cousin.

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If the aunt and uncle act the way OP's parents do, OP should get a lawyer and file for a restraining order. Unless OP is being an overdramatic teenager, and stalking counts as magically having the same class together at school.

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this is very alarming behavior. if you're parents think this is a joke go to a teacher, friends parents, or someone that can be trusted before it goes further.

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