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OP I hope you'll do a follow up. I want to know how you confront and possibly dump this woman, depending on her explanation.

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I had a boyfriend who did the same. So I am extremely familiar with it. People can say or think what they like about my comment but if she were being straight up she wouldn't have needed to lie about where she was. I don't even want to hear about how it could have been innocent. She was planning something for him. No one does that shit for 2 months in a row.

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There's honestly something fishy going on when the SO doesn't tell you what's up. From personal experience, that "fishy" was another guy.

Ask her about it before jumping to conclusions, sometimes people have other things going on that they might find embarrassing. Check in with her and talk about it!

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But in a relationship, both should always come clean about their life with each other. So there aren't any complications like this one!

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It could be a new relationship? I'm not really sure but there are tons of possibilities. She could be working two jobs, she could be volunteering, endless possibilities. Sometimes people just don't want to share certain things, she could be embarrassed. Also, OP hasn't shared a lot about this relationship, so we don't know how serious it is. He was doing an incredibly sweet gesture, yes. But that doesn't mean they have been together for a super long time. Trust is built, it's not automatically t

Let her come home and ask about her day, if she says work was hard, you can elaborate more on what was really hard and then drop her hard ;-)

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