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By Anonymous - / Sunday 6 July 2014 18:06 / United States - Monterey Park
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  sempisaviour  |  47

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  AnOriginalName  |  47

I wouldn't say it's necessarily a double standard. Sleeve tattoos are a lot easier to hide than face piercings are, and that may be how the employer determines what's acceptable.

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  nix1993  |  47

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  nix1993  |  47

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  MrsFlowers  |  47

Let's look at what you said... You see, he OBVIOUSLY didn't hide his tattoo because she saw it. And she could always take the nose ring out. If he can have his tattoo showing, there is nothing wrong with her nose ring.

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This was an interviewer talking. In my experience, interviewers are generally managers/higher-ups that don't constantly interact with consumers. If OP was interviewing for a position in which they would constantly be around customers, that "image" rule makes sense. Even if not, the interviewer is within his rights to dictate those things. For all we know, the interviewer could have gotten his tattoos after landing the position. Who knows. I don't think a nose ring really detracts from any sense of professionalism, but I guess companies can do what they please. Sorry, though, OP!

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  kuzzy00  |  47

Has it ever occurred to anyone that the "sleeve" could be cultural? Samoan have sleeve tattoos. It's be culturally insensitive / politically incorrect to discriminate against them. Nose piercings, hair dyes, general demeanour? All reasons why they'd say no. Tidy up your image OP - unless it's a tattoo parlour, there's no excuse to have nose piercings. Managers generally get offended by them.

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  RoaRawR  |  47

Not really, it is easy to cover up tattoes and it for all we know be tattoes of his birthday or a flag...a nose piercing is harder to cover up. but it just sounded like a shitty excuse

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Maybe it's because nose Piercing are removal and op didn't remove it before the interview. The interviewer must has picked up on some attitude. I wouldn't say it's a double standard, because we don't really know what op was applying for.

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  hystericsky  |  47

I wanted to add to this, that if you're not willing to take a piercing out you can also get a retainer, which depending on the placing of the piercing can either be clear or flesh toned. I have a vertical labret and I own a glass retainer to wear to interviews where I feel would be a bit more conservative, however I also have bright blue and pink hair so most places I can apply to won't really care. I also would like to say that the metal you decide to shove in your face does not automatically mean you have an attitude, and society really needs to start learning this. I am no less capable of being mature in a work place while having piercings and dyed hair, than I would be if I had normal colored hair and a clear face. My body modifications are irrelevant.

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  sometimessam  |  47

Personally, I don't understand how people can judge based on that. As long as your tattoos/piercings/hair/whatever aren't cruel, racist, illegal, super offensive, or something they're not actually hurting anyone.

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  gracehi  |  35

Yeah I don't sees why this would even be an issue. She can just take our her nose ring or stud before work. And the nose piercing would have been immediately evident the moment he met her. Why waste both of their time with an interview if it's an automatic disqualification? Sounds to me like he didn't want to tell her the REAL reason he wouldn't hire her.

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  chazzywazzy654  |  35

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  lat1404  |  20

Maybe the person who interviewed him is higher up in the company and won't have any actual customer interactions, he'll just be in charge of those who do. And OP could be applying for a role where being with customers is part of the job.

By  onlychildFTW  |  43

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Just because he has an armful of tattoos does not necessarily mean that's why he got the job... There can be so many explanations. Maybe he's a hard worker. Maybe he got the sleeve after he got the job. Getting a sleeve of tattoos would probably do nothing for her (job wise) Oh, and it's too* not to.

By  kozzard  |  32

Depending on what kind of piercing it is, there may be a reason for it. A sleeve can be covered, some piercings can be removed without being obvious, but gauges are very noticeable even if the ring isn't in.

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  slyde32  |  32

I've even seen people with them in their cheeks, what possesses somebody to want to put a hole in their cheeks? how would they drink with out spilling anything?

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  hellraisedfire  |  32

I had a friend who had each side of her nose pierced, and stretched them either a 12 or 10. if she pinched her nose and blew, it whistled. strangest thing ever. in short, people will stretch anything.

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  hystericsky  |  32

This comment was all over the place #8.. First of all, most people don't wear "rings" in "gauges" the most common jewelry for stretched ears are plugs and tunnels. Next, there are retainers for all piercings, most small facial piercings have glass retainers. I have one for my vertical labret for interviews. And lastly, there's these really awesome things they have for stretched ears called flesh plugs. They're silicone and come in multiple colors of skin to match your skin tone. If you match it well enough, it's virtually unnoticeable. There's many options for people with body modifications other than removal.

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  Flowtastic  |  33

95 - it's simple job interview etiquette. You dress your best for an interview, which means taking out non-conventional piercings that can be seen and making yourself look presentable...

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