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FML - The follow-up
ardea_alba Say more :
OP here: I'm a work-from-home mom and devoted wife :) We share bank accounts, mails, FB profiles (yes, we're one of those couples) and anything else you could think of...He knows how my phone works and what features it has better than myself, so to sum up - no, there is absolutely no reason he would think that except the fact that I am the first relationship he hasn't cheated in, so I guess it's true what they say - 'you assume for others what you're capable of yourself' :) cheers to all,
By ardea_alba - / Friday 1 January 2016 20:27 / Russian Federation - Yekaterinburg
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By  rorex

I also make calls to a person I'm having an affair with in the bathroom while my husband is home. I feel like he doesn't have common sense if he thinks you chose the bathroom when there's many places out there you could call and not be heard by your husband. Fyl op, hopefully he grows up.

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that could be saying what she has to do possibly talking about when he can be gone so she can cheat. its perfectly understandable he might think that right off the bat, it just isn't understandable that he doesn't believe the proof of otherwise.

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40- its not reasonable to think they're cheating right off the bat unless they've been caught cheating before. Even if I was on the phone in another room for privacy there has to be absolutely no trust in the relationship or me as a person to instantly think that's what was going on.

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technically I was only giving my own opinion since what it and isn't reasonable isn't for you or me to decide. that's just an opinion. everyone's different with different thoughts running thru their head, jealousy or anxiety being some.

By  rorex

I also make calls to a person I'm having an affair with in the bathroom while my husband is home. I feel like he doesn't have common sense if he thinks you chose the bathroom when there's many places out there you could call and not be heard by your husband. Fyl op, hopefully he grows up.

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and talking about household chores of all things! I don't know about you but I love listening to the person I have an affair with talk about household chores with her husband (and possibly kids!)

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1- He could have heard OP mutter something in the bathroom; 2- If he heard that and OP had, in the past showed any sign of unfidelity (does that word exists?) then he could be jumping onto that based on her behavior; 3- We don't know anything about their relationship, so we can't judge him, or her. All we can do is to guess.

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