By Heart-Broken - 09/04/2015 01:58 - Canada - Richmond

Today, I was paired up with my long-term crush for a project. She introduced herself to me and asked if I was new this year. We've gone to the same school since kindergarten. FML
I agree, your life sucks 36 874
You deserved it 3 596

Same thing different taste

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Well, better late than never...her observation skills are a little lacking.

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karcummings 19

She was demonstrating her bitch skills that she had been learning since kindergarten.

Because she doesn't know all the guys at her school by name? Give her a break, OP may never even have spoken to her before. It kinda sucks for OP but it doesn't mean she's a bitch or anything. Maybe she just minds her own business and hangs out with her select friend group and it's a really big school. OPs probably changed a lot since kindergarten too.

It's weird; I came to the friend zone expecting friends, but all I found was a bunch of entitled men in fedoras.

33, you don't know what the friendzone is then.

Omg #33 that killed me ???? it's not the friends zone it's the ****** creepy zone, there's a reason girls don't wanna date those guys and it's because you're trying to get in our pants, not be our 'nice' friend. Besides to be in a friend zone you actually have to be a decent person to that girl ?

63, the friend zone is when you're friends with a guy or a girl, they know you like them, and they are looking for someone exactly like you but they don't want you.

Oh dear.. If I girl deliberately doesn't want to date you and you've made it clear you like her then I'm sorry to say you are not her 'friend'. You are pretending to be her friend and be nice to have sex.. That's all, and we're not blind so you go in the creep zone ? besides if you're actually complaining more about being in this imaginary place, even though she does not owe you sex for your kindess, no woman owes a 'nice guy' shit, and you're not worried your Friend is now offended by these suggestions of more than friendship you should sort your priorities. And no, we're not looking for someone 'like you' we want to get as far as hell away from that creepy guy who used us to try to **** us. :) we want an actual decent partner good day

SystemofaBlink41 27

I feel like your generalizing WAY too much. The friend zone, in a way, can happen. The creepy zone is a whole other thing. If someone tells you their feelings or whatever, I don't think it's fair to just jump on the bandwagon of "Wat, u just wanna *** me lolz creep" It's kind of mean, to be honest. However, if someone starts using the friendzone to put the blame on you for not feeling the same way they do or manipulate you or use it to cover up their sole intentions of just ******* you or all of the above, then yeah, that's a creep right there.

89, that example isn't the same thing as "the friend zone". It's fine if people feel sad or disappointed about their feelings for someone else not being returned. It's not fine for them to consider themselves victimized by it as if the other person shouldn't have been allowed to reject them.

Perfect chance to step it up and get some type of relationship started. Sucks she never noticed you, but being partners will hopefully have you two getting to know each other!

Stalking, you're doing it right! on a serious note, you should try not to be as invisible if you have a crush on somebody ;)

thatonetribute 31

I feel ya, OP. I'm quiet and shy, and get looked over all the time.

Clearly puberty came late, but it hit hard and she finally noticed you.

Kristoffer 35

Don't be sad, this means she's noticed you now.

Everyone already blaming the girl. OP said same school, not same class. Certain schools are quite large and impossible to know every single person in your grade. Some schools I know have ~1,000 people in just one grade alone. I certainly wouldn't remember everyone. And OP has not approached her before (from the sound of the FML). Also... What if OP had an appearance change recently? Hair, braces, acne, etc. Might look like a different person if you don't know them well enough. Just trying to see the other side of this. If I'm wrong, well... At least she knows you now ? :|